The relationship between people is very confusing, if a person is really good to you, if it is not good, even the intestines can be turned over. Don't think that your relationship is strong, but it is not as good as you think. Whether it's between friends or between husband and wife.
It is good between husband and wife, in addition to being a lover, or a family, in addition to love, but also affection. No matter how beautiful love is, in the end, after the passage of time, it will become family. Therefore, it will be said that love is not long-lasting, and family affection is stronger. Perhaps it is precisely because of this that children are the emotional bond between husband and wife.
In this world, there is no perfect couple, and the model couples in other people may not live happily. Marriage is like drinking water, whether it is cold or hot only you know. Therefore, husband and wife are one, but no matter how good the relationship is, do not tell each other these two things.
First, past emotional history, other bad experiences
People are very possessive, especially those who truly love you. Even if he says he doesn't care, he still cares in his heart. On the one hand, he hates himself for not meeting you earlier, and on the other hand, he loves so much that he has sad for others.
Everyone has a past, and if you have to talk about it, it passes by, there is no need to elaborate, this is not something worth showing off, this is a past that can never be erased. The future is more important isn't it? Why dwell on the past. Only if you can't put it down, will you be grumpy.
Second, the negative opinions of relatives and friends about their partners, and the other party's family members are not
What is the reason you fall in love with someone? Isn't there something attractive about the other person? To love someone, you should love each other's past and present, human nature can not stand the test, do not touch. Marriage is the union of two people, no one is perfect, but the other party is not what you can just accept, other people's opinions really do not have much effect, they understand it.
Running-in is the main meaning of marriage. Do not let external factors affect each other's feelings and lives, do things, pay attention to the sense of proportion.