Gorky once said, "Marriage is the spiritual union of two people, and the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world together." ”
Two lovers who are in love, from love to marriage, must consider all aspects before they are willing to commit to marriage.
However, falling in love is one thing, getting married is another. Some people, when in love, are upright gentlemen, but once married, they become villains, calculating and calculating everything.
Between husband and wife, they should be one and the same. However, most couples can only share happiness, but cannot share hardships. If even husband and wife can't share hardships, then what is the meaning and value of marriage?
01, the dowry room is not named
How much He Min loved her husband at the beginning, how much she now hates this man with different appearances. He Min and her husband were introduced by someone, and the two sides contacted each other for three months before they slowly came together.
At that time, the husband showed a positive and generous image in front of He Min. Therefore, after only half a year of love, He Min couldn't wait to marry her husband, and at that time, she even secretly liked that she had found a potential stock man.
But it wasn't until the two sides really talked about marriage that He Min found that he was somewhat deceived. It was just that at that time, she was already pregnant before marriage. She was reluctant to have children, and she was even more reluctant to have a sunny and handsome husband, and finally she could only grievance her parents to buy her a dowry house out of their own pockets.
The dowry room was there, the bride price He Min was exempted, and the wedding was successfully completed. But only a month after the new marriage, the husband impatiently tempted and asked He Min to add his name to the dowry room, saying that the house did not have his name, in the eyes of others, he was the son-in-law of the door, and no one could look up before or after him.
He Min was surprised by her husband's vanity and good face, although she could understand it, but in the end she refused. This dowry room cost her parents a down payment of 500,000 yuan, and the in-laws did not pay a penny, and she did not want to let her parents eat dumb losses for the face of her husband.
02. In the early stage of pregnancy, the husband asked for 99 yuan for obstetric examination
He Min refused to add a name to the dowry room, and her husband's attitude towards her became more cold. After the in-laws learned that their son could not get his wish, they also had a lot of complaints about He Min' daughter-in-law, thinking that their son had married He Min, the only daughter, but he had not fished anything, which was too much of a loss.
Under the deliberate cold war of her husband, He Min has also wavered many times. But every time he thought of his husband's ugly eating, He Min couldn't bear to disappoint his parents.
After that, He Min was even more caught off guard. The husband began to intentionally or unintentionally AA with her. Even if the couple goes to the supermarket together and the husband pays the bill together, when they return home, they will still take out the bill and let He Min pay for their part.
He Min thought that her husband was joking, but the more times he had, He Min knew that he was really here. It's just that He Min didn't expect that he was having children for his in-laws, but during the obstetric examination, her husband asked her for 99 yuan for the obstetric examination fee, saying that a total of 198 yuan was spent, and the husband and wife each shared half, one person 99 yuan.
He Min thought that her husband was joking, who knew that her husband was chasing after him, insisting that the couple should implement the AA system and be clearly divided. Until this moment, He Min knew that he was not only cold and violent by his husband, but also forced by his husband to require the AA system.
He Min was greatly injured, and she returned to her mother's house to complain to her parents. As a result, her parents did not wait for her to finish complaining, and asked her to immediately beat up the child and divorce her immediately, so that the man who searched for it was not worth lingering on.
In the beginning, He Min was reluctant to have children, and he was reluctant to have children. Anyway, the relationship between the couple before they got married was still very good. But who knows, the little affection and affection between husband and wife is not enough to resist the interests of half of the property.
03, the wife walked into the hospital the next day: AA men do not deserve to have children
He Min considered it overnight, and finally walked into the hospital the next day accompanied by his parents. After beating up the child, He Min directly sent the surgery sheet to her husband and asked for a divorce immediately.
The husband rushed to He Min's house with her mother-in-law in a hurry and asked her why she had advocated without permission and beat up the children behind their backs, which was the flesh and bones of their old Yang family. He Min said with a smirk that AA men do not deserve to have children.
He Min did not care whether her husband agreed or not, directly gave a day to let him move away with his parents immediately, otherwise she would call the police to drive people away and take back this dowry house. A man who is always with his wife AA and search is not worth her sticking to any longer.
Tu Lei once said: "Money is not the only criterion for testing true love, but money can measure the depth of feelings." A man, love or not, his money and wallet will tell you.
Men who love you will be willing to spend money for you; men who don't love you will only keep counting your money. As Yi Shu once wrote in "The First Half of My Life": Why should people get married, or is it not because life is not easy, and they need to find someone to help each other?
Today's Topic:
Do you think AA men are entitled to have children?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!