Nowadays, too many young people have become more and more Buddhist about getting married.
Even if he is not young, he is still single, and he is not in a hurry at all.
Instead of wanting to quickly find someone to marry, but just enjoy being single, there is also a feeling that being single is very good, a person is free, such a day, more happy than marriage.
Not only that, but many single people even feel that even if they don't get married for a lifetime, it doesn't matter.
Instead of marrying someone you don't like, you may argue with each other over the bride price, you may argue over all kinds of trivial things, you may just have a very painful life, but you feel that it is good not to get married.
In this regard, some people are always saying that if you don't get married for a lifetime, living alone will probably be very miserable.
In fact, when a person is more powerful and more capable, even if he is not married, he can still live well.
I can enjoy solitude and be more independent.
Think about it, if a person has no independent ability at all, many things can not be solved at all, need to rely on others, need to rely on others, then she is certainly not suitable for living alone.
She simply couldn't stay alone all the time, and she couldn't stand those years.
Everything needs to be dependent on others, and a person who will feel uncomfortable after a while alone is still suitable for getting married earlier, even if it is not so happy, in her opinion, it will seem better than a person.
On the contrary, if a person especially enjoys a person's life, when a person does not feel lonely and lonely, but feels particularly comfortable, all things, they can also handle it, of course, she can always keep a person.
Between people, everyone's personality, that is always specially different, everyone's suitable lifestyle, that is not the same.
For independent people, marrying a person, she may also live well, but even if she does not marry a person, she will not feel lonely, there will be many ways to enrich her life.
It is true that her sense of security does not need to be given by others, and she can completely complete herself.
One person is a team, and one person can compete with the whole world.
Strong in heart, do not care about the eyes of others.
Although the times are different, and not getting married will not be pointed out by too many people, but even in this era, not getting married still needs to bear a lot of pressure.
Like the pressure from the parents, the parents will always be all kinds of persecution, like there will still be some people who know all kinds of ridicule, say some ugly words, like they will be treated by others as if there is no problem, so they can't get married.
No matter which one it is, but anyone who has no way to block the voice of others will be affected by others, and on the road of singleness, they will only be unable to hold on to it at all, and it is easy to choose to compromise.
People who care too much about others, who care too much about how others see themselves, are doomed to have no way to choose an unusual path, and can only marry and have children like the vast majority of people and live an ordinary life.
If you want to live a lifetime without getting married, and you can live really well, a person's heart must be different from ordinary people.
Being able to just follow your inner feelings and never care too much about what others say or how others see you.
Only in this way can we firmly walk our own path, and only in our own years can we truly feel a good feeling, not always suffering from gains and losses, nor always being sincerely afraid.
Originally, living like most people, they will face a lot of setbacks, and others will live differently, that is more courageous.
Good economic foundation, life is guaranteed.
Living in this world, everyone understands a truth, money is really important.
Two people live together, money is the guarantee of everything, one person lives, if you want to live well, it is even more necessary to complete money.
If there is no money, the same is no money, people who enter the marriage, the days are a little sad, others will say that at least there is marriage, there is a home, work together, it is not so bad, there is still hope for the future.
Single people, in the eyes of some people, it is already very pitiful, if there is no money, three meals a day are a problem, often just look very embarrassed, in the eyes of others, it will really look more miserable.
Not only will it look bad in the eyes of others, but your own life will indeed be very bad.
And if you have money, have your own house, have your own car, have a certain amount of savings, and live happily every day, this can really block the mouths of many people and make others dare not say anything at all.
Because you can really use your own state to fight back, because your life has explained everything very well.
When a person has money, no matter how old he is, his life will not be too sad, and even, with money as a support, no matter when, he can be very confident, very calm, and happier and more meaningful than many people.
As far as marriage is concerned, if you want to get married, you just have to get married.
If you really don't want to get married, you really don't have any interest, you don't have to get married.
Marriage has never been an absolute necessity, just a choice for people, just a way of life.
Anyway, if you decide not to get married for a lifetime, if you really can't get married, you must not casually make up your own life, or try to make yourself happier.
Just learn to deal with everything alone, just make your heart strong enough, and make good money.
Live in your own world, so that you can be self-sufficient, and also plan for your future.
No matter what way you choose to live, you must live happily and happily.
Text/Tan Meng
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