Now how many young people's emotional problems have become a heart disease in the hearts of their parents, if it is a girl, it is better, after all, no matter how bad the conditions are, as long as they lower their requirements, there are still people who are willing to marry home.
But boys are different, originally there are more boys than girls, even if it is a 1:1 pairing, some boys can not find an object, plus many girls do not want to fall in love, it is more difficult to find an object.
In the past, it was said that women were reserved, but now many boys treat their feelings particularly conservatively and dare not take the initiative, but if love does not take the initiative, there will be no chance.
Especially for boys, we must learn to take the initiative, and taking the initiative to try may fail, but if you don't take the initiative to try, you must not have a chance.
Playground wife?
On April 4, on a school playground in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, many students were strolling leisurely on the playground when suddenly a boy walked over with a mobile phone.
I saw the man holding up the mobile phone in one hand, while shouting at the mobile phone, "Mom, which one do you want to be your daughter-in-law, quickly pick it, say hello and say hello." ”
While talking and introducing to the mother, you see how this is, making the girl next to her laugh, bluntly saying that she will be laughed to death by the boy's approach.
"Thank you for your cooperation", and then continued to introduce to the mother, constantly greeting the girls around him, causing many girls to giggle.
The man does not change the color of the whole face, change to some worried people, not to mention holding the mobile phone to let the mother pick, is to find a girl to secretly ask for contact information do not dare.
Love takes courage
Netizens after watching the video are also talking about it, some netizens said that if they have this courage in college, how can they be single for four years without asking.
Some netizens said that the pattern is small, should say to the mother, this is your daughter-in-law, the mother which looks good, take which one to go home to see the mother.
Some netizens said that they don't know if this boy is really on the phone, but he has this kind of guts, or very admirable, even if there is no object, after this incident, he will not be worried about finding an object in the future.
From the envy of netizens, it can be seen that many people are not brave enough in their student days and even after entering the society, even if they meet girls they like, they often dare not come forward to confess.
Some people are worried about rejection, some people are worried about losing face, and some people are afraid that their friends will not have to do it from now on, preferring to stand next to each other and be invisible.
All good things need to be fought for by oneself
Some people say that everything is predestined, and people are already doomed when they are just born in this life, but in fact, this statement is not accurate, this is just a self-evasion statement.
All the beautiful things in this world need to be fought for by themselves, and sister Lin will not fall from the sky, nor will it fall pie, and most of the things that can fall down are not good things.
Like a person to go to the brave confession, do not hesitate in the heart, do not try how to know whether it works, do not let like into regret.
Even if you confess failure, anyway, you are just ordinary friends, don't be afraid of failure, try more, you will eventually meet your own happiness.
Those who are afraid of wolves and tigers all day long are often unable to achieve anything, and even if they have a very good opportunity, they will often miss it because of their hesitation.
Comments from netizens
There are many netizens who express envy and admire the courage of this netizen, and some netizens accuse this man of really going down, where the confidence comes from let the mother choose at will.
The former is the voice of many ordinary people, and the latter is somewhat self-biased, and the person who commented on it does not necessarily have the courage to roar these voices.
Men's behavior is a kind of bravery for love, which is worth learning from many people now, not the so-called lower head, it is people with these prejudices who make many originally beautiful things taste bad.
Some people say that in this era when everything is fast, there is no love to speak of, in fact, love is always there, but many people do not find the eyes of love, do not have the courage to pursue love.
In fact, not only love, but also life, otherwise even if there is luck to meet you, you will miss the beauty because of your own timidity.