Positive observation: The child was slapped by the other party's parents for fighting, why is the result unsatisfactory

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2024-05-31 17:32Posted on the official account of Henan Zhengguan News

On May 29, it was reported on the Internet that under the surveillance of a small restaurant in Taizhou, Zhejiang, two young children were originally playing, and the male parent of one of the children suddenly got up, went straight over and slapped the other child down, and finally pulled out the belt.

On May 30, the Luqiao Branch of the Public Security Bureau of Taizhou City, Zhejiang Province, reported the incident, saying that the children of the two parties involved were classmates, and when they were playing in a small restaurant, one parent mistakenly thought that their child was being bullied, so they beat the other child. That night, the parents of both parties have voluntarily reached a mediation agreement and fulfilled it.

Positive Observation:

This result was a surprise to almost everyone. The report said that there was a misunderstanding in the incident, but the video showed very clearly that the parents who beat the person did not "mistakenly think". A person familiar with the matter said that the beater paid 10,003. Compared to the atrocities and physical and mental harm suffered by the beaten children, this amount of money is indeed a drop in the bucket. But the parents of the boy who was beaten have their own considerations, and we, as bystanders, also need to respect their choice.

Parents who beat people are angry when they see their children being intimidated by other children with plastic sticks, and the parents of their children who are beaten see their children being beaten by adults, how can they feel like they are cut with a knife? Anger, distress, and wanting to treat others in their own way, these are the most simple emotions and emotions. However, countering violence with violence can vent anger, but it is not conducive to children's education.

What we care about is how to comfort the child who was beaten, how to eliminate the harm caused to him by the incident as much as possible, and how to make the parents who beat the child truly reflect and repent and stop causing harm to others. Monetary compensation, especially modest compensation, does not seem to be going to do much to solve both problems, and it may be necessary to draw on the power of the public security organs. When moral condemnation does not stop evil, the law should strike.

An irrational parent is a negative textbook. When dealing with children playing and playing with each other, as long as it is within the controllable range, parents' hands should not be stretched too long, and they should not bully the small with the big and the weak with the strong.

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