People often say that there are only cruel children, not cruel fathers and mothers. Poor parents in the world, these words all show the infinite love of parents for their children, no matter how ugly the children are, no matter how wrong they are, parents can forgive, almost becoming a universal truth.
For this reason, children are grateful for the nurturing grace of their parents and honor their parents, which is naturally natural and righteous. It's just that some parents only love their favorite children, but for other children, they take the initiative to rob the rich and help the poor.
It is the misfortune of the children to meet such parents. Because while your parents morally kidnap you and ask you to help your parents raise their children, they also reassure you to honor your parents well, otherwise it is a great filial piety.
01, the son married, the mother-in-law calculated the daughter-in-law's dowry of 300,000
Huang Xia, 25, never thought that a daughter who had been pampered by her parents in the palm of her hand since she was a child, would one day fall out with her in-laws for money, and almost divorced her husband.
Huang Xia, the only daughter, was strongly opposed by her parents before she married her husband. However, the more her parents objected, the more Huang Xia had to turn against her parents and insist on marrying her husband, regardless of the original family behind him.
Parents' persuasion was ineffective, and they could not bear to force their daughters to turn against themselves, so they could only compromise. And her parents compromised so much, and finally let Huang Xia embark on the road of poverty alleviation upside down, never to return.
The in-laws are unable to buy a marriage house, Huang Xia's parents paid for a dowry house, and privately gave Huang Xia a dowry of 300,000 yuan as private money. It's just that Huang Xia, who is not deeply involved in the world, just married into her in-laws' family, was coaxed by her husband to be overjoyed, and she honestly explained everything clearly.
So, from then on, Huang Xia's 300,000 yuan became the bag of her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law also began to ask her for money for various reasons, either today the old couple is sick and needs money to treat the disease, or tomorrow the uncle needs tuition and living expenses to go to college.
02, the mother-in-law changed the method and asked the daughter-in-law for money
The mother-in-law changed the method and asked Huang Xia for money, at the beginning, Huang Xia was very unhappy in her heart, but because she was a new daughter-in-law, it was not good to tear her face with her mother-in-law, and she could only give. The more times can be given, the greater the ambition of the mother-in-law.
What is even more outrageous is that the little uncle's front foot has just graduated from college, and the mother-in-law's back foot asked Huang Xia to take money to buy a house for the little uncle, and he also said with a straight face that today's young people have no house and car, and even their girlfriends can't find them.
The mother-in-law's anxiety made Huang Xia feel very ridiculous. For more than a year, I have helped my mother-in-law to provide for my little uncle to study, which has been regarded as looking at her husband's face. But now that the little uncle has graduated from college and worked, her mother-in-law still asks her for money to buy a house, which is a bit excessive.
Huang Xia looked at her husband, but her husband silently lowered his head. Seeing this, Huang Xia still didn't understand anything, the mother-in-law even calmed her eldest son, so she caught her little fat sheep to slaughter.
If at the beginning, Huang Xia understood this truth, the mother-in-law might not be so fearless and arrogant. But now, the mother-in-law's appetite has been raised by Huang Xia herself, and she is accustomed to responding to her needs, and the mother-in-law will not pay attention to her embarrassment.
03, daughter-in-law: I am not obliged to help you raise your young son
Huang Xia knows very well that people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. She no longer compromised, but instead told her mother-in-law very strongly that I am not obliged to help you raise your young son, whose son is who raises.
Huang Xia said this and did the same, directly driving her mother-in-law, who lived in her house, out of the house. If the mother-in-law still wants to come to the door to cry, she will simply open the door to let the neighbors know, and it is not she who is alone in shame anyway.
After tossing and turning like this, the mother-in-law who originally wanted to die with her eldest daughter-in-law also had to be exhausted. Because Huang Xia didn't care about playing this set with her at all, and she didn't care about other people's insults to her, after all, she was not ashamed.
After the mother-in-law tossed it for a month, she had to sneak back to her hometown with her luggage. As for my husband, I only said two words lightly, that is my parents, and you should not let her get off the stage no matter what.
If it were not for the pregnancy of the child in her belly, Huang Xia would definitely divorce her husband at the first time. Such a foolish and filial husband who has no opinion is a kind of torture for her.
Today's Topic:
What do you think of the in-laws' calculation of the daughter-in-law's dowry?