At the wedding scene, the groom took out the "filial piety rules", and the bride ripped off the veil after reading it: the service could not be afforded
Whoever wants to have a harmonious family must follow a basic law, that is, "filial piety to parents, education of children, husband and wife respect each other, love each other." ”
Only when everyone does what they should do, it is difficult for families to be disharmonious.
I am afraid that some people only know how to take, do not know how to pay, and only blindly ask others to be perfect, not only do not pay themselves, but also point and point, and stir up dissension.
In fact, there are many such people in real life. For example, some husbands and sons not only cannot reconcile mothers and wives, but also spread information, and even damage the face of their wives in public and fulfill the identity of "filial piety".
Then don't blame others for not being able to stand it, no matter what the occasion, turn around and go. Even if it has ruined years of feelings, it is worth it.
01 My boyfriend used to be a "man" and has been in a relationship for two years
Reader Xu Xiaoshan, 27 years old, is an ordinary girl, step by step to go to college, looking for a job, step by step to fall in love, ready to get married.
However, she never expected that the wedding scene would be dissolved and the marriage date would "fall" on her head, and now she has become a well-known domineering girl.
Only because she showed a hand at the wedding scene, she pulled the veil on the spot and left the hotel, leaving the man's family and the full house of guests looking at each other.
"In fact, I didn't want to regret getting married, but the atmosphere at that time was very awkward, and I couldn't stand it." Xu Xiaoshan said so.
In fact, things should have started two years ago, when she was in love.
At that time, Xu Xiaoshan was dragged by a colleague to a dinner party and met her boyfriend Zheng Qifeng. This Zheng Qifeng native is very good-looking, about 180 cm tall, burly, slow to speak, full of humor, and makes a good impression.
In the long run, the two young men became lovers with the help of mutual friends.
At that time, Xu Xiaoshan decided to take this love seriously, because he was getting older and ready to get married.
Zheng Qifeng agreed with her opinion and was very good to her, obviously not just for fun.
But after the two people really fell in love, Xu Xiaoshan gradually felt that her boyfriend was very strange, in short, a "mother treasure man".
When the two chatted, Zheng Qifeng never left his mother, reported to his mother when he went out on a date, and called his mother late when he came home.
Go out on trips at least five times a day to report on your trip, and even if you accidentally cut your hand, you have to call your mother for comfort.
Not to mention, in daily life such as eating, dressing and working, he always asked his mother for advice.
Xu Xiaoshan also said to him: "You are a big man, so strange, how can you be so independent and look for your mother all day." ”
Zheng Qifeng listened and just smiled, but he also improved. With time in love, he was already very restrained.
02 The wedding scene came up with "filial piety rules", which were as harsh as serving the mother in the palace
Xu Xiaoshan met her boyfriend's mother.
"Four times, twice at home, twice at dinner at a restaurant, it doesn't look very easy to get along with, the boyfriend is as good as a little sheep in front of her, she looks very delicate, and she talks to her son. I'm a bit unaccustomed. Xu Xiaoshan mentioned the impression of her future mother-in-law.
But she has always said that every family has its own unique way of getting along, and you can't directly deny the way others get along because you are not used to it.
But she asked herself if she could not accept her mother-in-law's desire to control.
What she remembers most clearly is that her boyfriend once dated her and got a call from her mom. On the phone, she seemed to be complaining about why he didn't wear the clothes she gave him today, but instead wore the short sleeves he bought.
The boyfriend gently apologized: "Mom, I forgot, take it by the hand." Hmmm, I know, next time will not, which one do you take I wear, it must be certain, rest assured..."
This conversation made Xu Xiaoshan completely unaware of what to say. It was the hot summer days of July. What short sleeves to wear are not worn and why specify?
But the boyfriend said: "My clothes are matched by my mother every day, and I don't bother to think about it." ”
As the saying goes, the small is bigger. Xu Xiaoshan was speechless. He only hopes to change when he gets married.
But who ever thought that on the wedding day, at the wedding officiating at the emcee, he took out a sheet of "Filial Piety Rules" and began to read, all filial piety to parents, do not collide with the mother-in-law, do not provoke the mother-in-law to be angry, respect the elderly, do not choke with them, and learn to take a step back from the sea and the sky...
"Not only was I stunned, but there were very few people attending the wedding!" Recalling the wedding day, Xu Xiaoshan repeatedly shook her head, "It's really a strange spectacle." Those rules were too harsh, like serving the ladies in the palace. ”
03 "Can't Afford to Serve" recognized the true face of men and decided to regret marriage
Speaking of "Filial Piety Rules", Xu Xiaoshan began to speak.
"There was no communication before, the link was inserted temporarily, so I was shocked when he watched it."
The main content written in the "Rules of Filial Piety" is to be filial to the in-laws, filial piety is not good, but also shun, which means that the in-laws must be happy, the family can be harmonious and happy, if the daughter-in-law only thinks of herself, then the family must not be happy.
"After listening, I seem to have been to ancient times, but I want to understand that there was no filial piety in ancient times. It's ridiculous. ”
Xu Xiaoshan did not finish listening, took off the veil, grabbed the microphone of the emcee and said:
"Distinguished guests, this link is temporarily increased, I don't know, I personally feel very strange, I am getting married, creating a good life, not to be a slave, specifically to serve the in-laws." So I think the existence of this wedding is very unreasonable, thank you for the hard work of the guests, I think I still have to think about it carefully. ”
After that, she jumped down three steps and began to leave. Even her parents didn't stop her from escaping, watching her get into a friend's car and leave.
Speaking of which, the end of this wedding is not in Xu Xiaoshan, but in the sudden "Filial Piety Rules". Originally filial piety was nothing to say, but if it must not be allowed, it is not allowed. Isn't there some moral kidnapping?
But then again, Xu Xiaoshan's courage is commendable, otherwise, if he really got married, he didn't know how much he would suffer.
