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I was full of standards before I met you, and you were standards after meeting you. To meet you is to live a lifetime, and to believe that you are a white-headed old man.
What are the criteria for girls to choose the other half?
Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. It can be seen how important marriage is for girls. What kind of people to choose? Who will you spend the rest of your life with? It is a real problem faced by every school-age girl, marriage is a lifelong event, and the choice of partner must be cautious.
Marriage and love are not the same, love is only two people, one world, but marriage has many people, the whole world. Love can afford to lose, marriage can't afford to lose. Marriage is like a bet, choosing the right person is a win-win, choosing the wrong person is a lose-lose, that is, youth and the rest of life.
Choosing a marriage is choosing a life, choosing happiness or unhappiness. Marriage is more like an adventure, with too many unknown and uncontrollable factors, and it is not allowed to reshuffle. Perhaps the real wrong marriage makes people pay too much price, so it is more careful and prudent in choosing a marriage partner.
Contemporary girls' mate selection is more rational and pragmatic, and it is more to follow the true thoughts of the heart to choose the other half. In particular, the post-95 and post-00 girls value the most is not the external conditions, but the inner character and appearance, hoping to have both and spend the rest of their lives rationally. They feel that boys with good character have a sense of responsibility, and whether they are in love or married, they can bring themselves a sense of security and happiness.
So, what kind of other half do you think is the person who deserves to be entrusted for life?
"What does marriage bring to a woman?" Some of the married women's answers:
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1, walk through the reckless sky, after which there is the warmest light.
2, the most beautiful you, is the way to marry love at this moment.
3, the rivers and lakes are far away, may you go together and return together, for a long time.
4. From now on, dreams and long-term joy will accompany each other.
5, you come against the light, worthy of all the fine pieces of beauty in the world.
6. Henceforth, may you all be in the same boat in this life and spend a peaceful and stable time together.
7, grow up together, accompany you to get married, the best moment, the best of you.
8. In the future, warmth and romance will no longer be limited by summer, but will come to Japan for a long time.
9, may the girl I love the most have years to look back on for the rest of her life, and share her head with deep affection.
10, Mr. X finally succeeded in stealing my favorite girl and punishing them for forever.
How to judge whether the other half is suitable for marriage
The most important dimensions in judging whether a person is suitable for marriage are "mental maturity", "normal personality" and "emotional intelligence ability" (emotional self-control).
Communication skills.
"Communication ability" refers to the dialogue ability of "being able to understand each other and also make the other party understand themselves", and two people talking to themselves or arguing are not considered to have communicated.
Being able to talk to each other, appreciate and agree with each other, be able to support each other, treat each other as equals (rather than suppressing and standing in a high position), and be able to negotiate and resolve conflicts instead of quarrelling and avoiding is a very important and very basic emotional intelligence ability. No one can get a physical and mental health experience in an environment of argument, confrontation, emotional catharsis, and language, and the intimate relationship consumed not only directly affects a person's health level, but also affects the life experience and interferes with work.
Mature mind, with the ability to love others.
Marriage is different from love, and it takes two mentally mature people to run it well.
"Mental maturity" means that a person can "accept and adapt to reality", "unconditional self-love and love for others" and "have responsibility", and can also undertake basic "material" and "spiritual" parenting for the upbringing of children.
If the mind is naïve, psychologically still in the state of "giant child", bringing too many unresolved "heart knots" and "emotions" into the family, and constantly shirking the responsibility of life, it will become a family tragedy.
Normal personality, normal "empathy" and "introspection ability".
"Empathy ability" and "introspection ability" is the most important ability in marriage and love, "understand their own and others' emotions", "respect for their own and the true will of others", "assume the responsibility of their own emotions", "clear boundaries" are really able to "cooperate with people" ability, indispensable, if you do not look at the "inner personality", covet each other's "external conditions", encounter personality disorders, the body and mind will have a huge loss and in the end will be nothing, people and money are empty.
The higher the emotional intelligence ability, the better the experience of getting along, the more nourishing the body and mind, and the higher the creativity.
If you get along with a person, "positive emotions" are greater than "negative emotions", and problems can be solved through consultation and cooperation, then you can consider entering marriage with this person. Such people can scientifically sort out their emotions, but also can respect each other's feelings, each other have the opportunity to grow together in the relationship, our own "creativity" and "comprehensive ability" will also develop in a stimulating mental environment, and each other can live better.
If two people together cannot be added, it will be a great consumption, both physically and mentally and physically.
Work cooperation can only look at "IQ", but marriage and love must give priority to "emotional intelligence", people with high emotional intelligence will be higher in their work, material will not be too poor, good marriage experience helps people grow, harvest better themselves and better life experience.