Liu Xiaojie was locked up at home by Xu Zheng, Xu Zheng's true face was finally exposed, Liu Xiaojie was really frightened this time, and his attitude was determined to divorce.
Yang Di's mother was angry with Jin Bo, and now that Jin Bo has "changed from evil to righteousness", I think more people are angry with Xu Zhengqi, and even more by Liu Xiaojie.
The imperfect marriage between Xu Zheng and Liu Xiaojie is realistic, because in reality, a rich second generation like Xu Zheng, if in love, may choose Liu Xiaojie because of their appearance. However, if married, he will definitely not choose a divorced woman.
Liu Xiaojie is also a very unclear person, after experiencing a failed marriage, she can also take the "love brain" to fall in love, without letting her parents worry.
Before Xu Zheng and Liu Xiaojie got married, his "scumbag" quality was exposed, but his means were higher, and Liu Xiaojie was deeply involved in it and did not notice it at all.
First, Xu Zheng's "slag" is too obvious
I have not seen the original work, do not know Xu Zheng's character is like this, he just appeared a few times, I think this man, too bad.
1, tell a lie, do not blink your eyes
Man has no faith, and he does not know what he can do. ——Confucius's Analects
We are taught from an early age to be honest children, and in life, if a person does not even have integrity, we will not be friends with such people at all.
Xu Zheng is very powerful, and he is not weak at all when he lies.
He went to eat kebabs with Liu Xiaojie and Qian Feng, and in order to prevent the people at the neighboring table from smoking, he casually made up a reason: Let's have a pregnant woman at that table!
Although it seems quite "witty", however, this approach is really a bit of a bargain. I don't know if he will lie about his leg injury when he is in line?
In addition, he and Liu Xiaojie planned to get a marriage license, Wang Sumin said that he would discuss this matter after the parents of both sides met, he agreed very happily, and did not expect to turn his face and secretly get a license with Xiao Jie.
Xu zheng is telling too many lies in the play, a dishonest person, the character must not be good.
2. Disrespect for elders
"If my family really doesn't agree, then I'd rather break off relations with them."
Although the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law exists in many families in life, when your husband is very easy to break off relations with his parents, he must be a particularly cruel person.
In order to let Zhang Bo prove that he loves himself, Ye Chengchen can do such a thing that is contrary to human morality, and such "love" will be too terrible for normal people.
Xu Zheng also did not put Wang Sumin in his eyes, after he received the marriage license, Xiao Min called Xiao Jie, he actually said that it was to give them a surprise, such a person, really disrespect the elders.
A person who does not put his parents and elders in his eyes, his quality is bad, no one can control him, he can do whatever he wants.
With parents present, we will have some scruples in doing things, consider the feelings of parents, and take a lot of detours. However, Xu Zheng did not care about the elders, he was not afraid.
3. Small heart and eyes
Wang Sumin did not like Xu Zheng very much, she said that Xu Zheng's heart and eyes are too small, and living with such a person will be very tired.
Liu Xiaojie contacted the author, he would ask whether it was a man or a woman; Liu Xiaojie could not have any contact with Qian Feng, and even asked Xiaojie to delete Qian Feng from his friends list.
There's a little detail in the play that I think is well acted.
When the parents of the two sides met, Xu Zheng's parents gave Xiao Jie a red envelope, saying that it was a change fee, Xiao Jie changed his mouth on the spot and shouted "Dad, Mom", and then, when Xu Zheng spoke, he deliberately called Wang Sumin an aunt and Liu Xiaomin a sister.
At that time, seeing here, I was really too angry, Can Liu Xiaojie bear it? If you don't give money to change your mouth, you can't shout "Mom", moreover, he has already received a marriage license with Liu Xiaojie.
To see if a man is unreliable, first look at these 3 points, which are the most basic qualities. In the play, Xu Zheng's "scum" is not only in these external qualities, his psychology is also very distorted.
Second, in the name of love, satisfy your desire for control
Xu Zheng eats Jia Jun's vinegar, Liu Xiaomin and Wang Sumin both feel that he is too problematic, and Xu Zheng wants to break off relations with his parents for women, Liu Xiaomin also feels that it is abnormal.
Why didn't Xiao Jie see the problem? That's because Xu Zheng's methods are too clever.
Xu Zheng is a very typical "PUA man", he in the name of love, let Xiao Jie obey himself, and then constantly belittle Xiao Jie, let Xiao Jie lose confidence, gradually completely lose himself, and take the initiative to treat himself as Xu Zheng's "personal property".
Xu Zheng said that Xiao Jie is his, he just did not respect Xiao Jie, in a relationship, both sides are independent people, no one is who this statement.
Xu Zheng does not think so, he thinks that Xiao Jie is his own, and can only belong to himself.
He first used sports cars, high-end gifts and other sugar-coated shells to make Xiao Jie submit to substances, and then, he seized every opportunity to make Xiao Jie think that he loved Xiao Jie, and loved him very deeply, so that Xiao Jie knew that he had paid a lot.
In this way, Xiao Jie felt indebted to herself, making her feel guilty and feeling sorry for him.
He didn't let Jets touch other men, even in normal working relationships.
He tracked Xiao Jie, knew Xiao Jie's mobile phone password, xiao Jie was completely subdued by Xu Zheng, and even took the initiative to let Xu Zheng check his mobile phone, just to prove that he also loved Xu Zheng.
"Love can't be so loving!"
Wang Sumin is right, Xu Zheng is really good to Xiao Jie, this is undeniable, but his love is too twisted, too selfish, love a person is based on equality, respect as the premise, Xu Zheng only cares about his own feelings and needs.
Third, Xu Dad and Xu Mama "harmed"
A person's personality must be able to find the reason in his past experience, and the biggest factor in character development is the original family.
Xu Zheng's parents only appeared once, but I understood why Xu Zheng's desire to control was so strong.
Xu Zheng's father has a particularly strong personality, completely unable to listen to other people's words, and what he wants to do will not seek the opinions of others.
Xu Zheng is also like this, he does everything he wants to do, he will not ask others for advice, if Liu Xiaojie does not listen, that is: you do not love me enough!
Xu Zheng's mother is also very wide, Liu Xiaojie is not pregnant, she has already found the maternity examination hospital, how to confinement after giving birth, ask for a few nannies, she has all arranged it.
At this time, there will definitely be people who say, such a good mother-in-law, what thorns can be picked?
A captive canary, will it be happy?
Xu Zheng should have grown up under the control of his parents, so he also copied his parents' marriage model.
His previous girlfriends have left him, and he is insecure, so he chooses to actively control Liu Xiaojie and make her completely obedient to himself.
If parents discipline their children too much, the family atmosphere will not be too good, and an equal parent-child relationship is conducive to cultivating children with sound personalities.
Xu Zheng's family has money, he must not be short of money, he also said that his parents have a lot of people around him, there is no shortage of him for the elderly. In such a family, the child does not receive enough love from his parents, although the material conditions are good, but the psychological companionship is extremely lacking.
Fourth, Xiao Jie was chosen, and she was innocent and wrong
Xu Zheng does have flaws in her personality, but Liu Xiaojie has fallen to this point, and she herself has problems.
Marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, but she cannot listen to the words of her family at all.
The first flash marriage Tong Bing, she married and divorced is her own decision. This time, she and Xu Zheng suddenly got the license, and they also made their own decisions.
Liu Xiaomin and Wang Sumin were not satisfied with Xu Zheng, and Liu Xiaojie knew it, but she did not care about their views and insisted on going her own way.
Xu Zheng was rich, which satisfied her vanity, and the envious eyes of her colleagues made her very satisfied. She herself also felt that she was very ordinary, and she had been divorced, and it was impossible for a rich second generation like Xu Zheng to look at her, but she still agreed.
When Xu Zheng really chased Liu Xiaojie into her hand, she completely lost herself, gave up her bottom line a little bit, and firmly believed that Xu just loved herself.
Xu Zheng did not let her work, did not let her contact with other friends of the opposite sex, locked her at home, these things are very abnormal, she still did not wake up, let Xu Zheng arrange himself.
In the end, Liu Xiaojie also woke up, she saw the true face of Xu Zheng, and made up her mind to divorce, it was not too late.
After reading Liu Xiaojie's experience, we should understand a little more: I am so ordinary, so why do excellent people look at themselves? Be sure to ask yourself a few more whys?
Before, I heard a friend say: When a pie falls, you must think about why you hit yourself on the head.
Yes, Liu Xiaojie thinks that she looks beautiful, in fact, she still does not really understand herself, in fact, she is also a very ordinary person.
A boy like Xu Zheng, when in love, he behaves perfectly, so that you can't find a little flaw. In fact, a normal person, he will not be without shortcomings, unless he deliberately hides.
If you just want to marry a rich man by beauty, it is also very unreliable, because his wealth will not shrink, but your appearance will gradually grow old.
Falling in love can be more emotional, but marriage must be rational, otherwise, it is yourself who suffers in the end.
Author: Muzi
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