The mother Wang Sumin in the TV series "Xiao Min's Family" divorced when her two daughters were very young, and she once said to her daughter, "If your father is still alive, he may remarry when he is old, because he will eventually need a wife when he is old." ”
Wang Sumin, who is divorced and single with two daughters, must have suffered a lot when Xiaomin and Xiaojie were very young, after all, in that era, a woman raised two daughters alone, and raised both children very well, Xiaomin was the chief doctor of Peking University International Hospital, and Xiao Jie was the editor of a newspaper in Beijing.
Wang Sumin not only raised two daughters academically, but also did not lack the needs of the two sisters financially.
"Xiao Min's Family", Li Ping mentioned Xiao Min's small white shoes many times, she said to Wang Sumin: When she was a child, Xiao Min loved to wear small white shoes, and she let her mother refuse to buy her mother, she could envy Xiao Min to have a pair of small white shoes.
Xiao Min's pair of small white shoes not only made Li Ping envious of her childhood, but also made her pregnant for a lifetime, even if Li Ping and her second-married husband Hong Wei lived in a villa and drove a luxury car, they could not let go.
Only after seventies to understand, Xiao Min and Li Ping when they were young, there was a pair of small white shoes in that era, it was really a dream of many girls, single mother Wang Sumin did not lack the daughter's eating and wearing, but also let the child walk in the fashionable team, other children have our daughters, others are reluctant to buy our daughters must also have, it is conceivable that Xiao Min's mother is a strong woman.
At the beginning of the TV series "Xiao Min Jia Jia", Wang Sumin took her grandson Jin Jiajun to Beijing to find Xiao Min, who not only brought up two daughters independently, but also helped raise Xiao Min's son Jin Jiajun for many years.
Although Xiao Min and her once optimistic uncle Jin Bo divorced, but Jin Bo always called her "Mom", took time to run to Xiao Min's house to help her former mother-in-law cook, rub her shoulders, chat with her, the unit sent delicious things to send over at the first time, it can be seen that Wang Sumin did not pay less in Jin Bo and Jin Jiajun.
When Jin Bo first arrived in Beijing, Wang Sumin secretly ran to the hotel where he was staying, gave him five thousand yuan to use urgently, and asked him to write a good note not to disturb the life of his daughter Xiaomin, let alone delay the college entrance examination of his grandson Jin Jiajun.
For the daughter and grandson to clear the worries, such a Wang Sumin, as a mother and grandmother, really broke a heart.
Some people may wonder, Wang Sumin appeared from Jiujiang to Beijing from the first episode, why did she bring a pot of flowers?
This splendid flower actually hints at the loneliness and helplessness of Wang Sumin's elderly celibate life.
Just imagine, but if there is a person who can rely on or entrust to help water the pot of flowers, how can she bring a pot of flowers to Beijing, and when she leaves Beijing and returns to her hometown jiujiang, she is afraid that this pot of flowers cannot bear toss, so she can only stay at her daughter Xiaomin's home, and carefully write a schedule for this pot of flowers to need watering.
Later, in order to dispel loneliness and emptiness, wang Sumin also lived in a nursing home in order to avoid the door-to-door harassment of Chen Zhuo's father, Chen Tianfu, and she also carried the pot of flowers.
Wang Sumin placed the pot of camellias that bloomed so delicately on the balcony of her own room in the nursing home, the red flowers bloomed beautifully in the sun, and she showed a knowing smile.
Wang Sumin has been single for most of her life, her two daughters have also worked successfully, they have bought a house in Beijing, their lives are stable, and her grandson has also been admitted to Tsinghua, has she not thought of finding a wife?
Why would Wang Sumin prefer to dance square dance in her free time, and wait for her favorite flowers after returning home to cook a meal, rather than find a wife?
Obviously, she herself said that there was no one to talk to in Xiao Min's house, except for Jin Bo, who came to talk to her every Saturday, she felt that she was about to be depressed.
In fact, from the earliest conversation between Wang Sumin and his two daughters, it can be seen that There is no shortage of suitors around Wang Sumin.
In Jiujiang, Wang Sumin's dance partner Uncle Wang often came to the door to help her do some work, or after arriving in Beijing, Chen Zhuo's father, the first time he saw Wang Sumin, he thought she was a good-looking and capable old lady.
Or say that Wang Sumin is an old lady who lives through, she knows how to reject the inappropriate Chen Tianfu in time for the pursuit of the opposite sex, and never drag the mud and water.
Seeing that Chen Tianfu is Chen Zhuo's father, it may also be Xiao Min's future father-in-law, and if the grandson is with Jia Jia in the future, he is also a relative, Wang Sumin behaved generously when Chen Zhuo's father came to the door for the first time, and also made a meal for him to eat.
This meal made Wang Sumin see clearly that Chen Tianfu liked herself and wanted to rub rice for a long time, and when Chen Tianfu asked her if she could come to the house for a long time to eat the Jiujiang rice she made in the future, she decisively replied with two words: "No!" ”
"Can't!" These two words, listening to the real feeling is very comfortable and very relieved, for inappropriate feelings must be so simply and clearly rejected, in order to make the other party dead heart, polite and embarrassed, will only make the other party feel that there is still a chance, to bring themselves endless troubles.
Wang Sumin and Xiaomin said that she would not look for a wife again, because the elderly looking for a partner just wanted to find a free nanny, and she did not want to serve other old men when she was old.
Chen Tianfu is married three times and divorced three times, emotionally an irresponsible man, and when he is old, he is still a belly full of flowers and intestines, and he can turn his head and turn his head and use it on Teacher Li in the nursing home.
Such an unsympathetic man, you want his prodigal son to turn back only good to a woman, it is really difficult.
And Chen Tianfu is also a selfish old man, living in his son's house does not care whether the granddaughter has a place to live at home, does not help the son of the entrepreneur to cook, every day only cares about his own eating and drinking, every day the small wine is continuous, all the old people in addition to playing is playing, nor for the single son to build a hand, when eating at Wang Sumin's house, he poured all the dishes into his own bowl regardless of whether the other party was full, really selfish.
Such an old man, if he marries With Xiaomin's mother Wang Sumin, it is still Wang Sumin who is tired, and he is still the one who stretches out his hand to open his mouth to raise his mouth and treat the emperor too well.
Qian Zhongshu said: The elderly are in love, just like the old house is on fire and not saved. But Wang Sumin is the most sober old lady in the world.
Unhappy marriage has the courage to stop the loss in time, a person self-respect and self-reliance to raise two daughters to adulthood, help the daughter with grandchildren, and wait until they are old to find a nursing home for the elderly, do not add trouble to the children.
Wang Sumin would rather serve the flowers than find a wife to serve her wife, she lives very clearly, knowing that the love of the elderly is less passionate and loving, just looking for each other to rely on to find a companion.
When you are old, you go to the nursing home, where there is a sunny house, and there is a group of like-minded old sisters as companions, someone to eat, someone to clean the hygiene, to dance when you are happy, and if you are not happy, you can lie flat in the room alone.
Isn't this kind of life better than finding a wife to be a free nanny for others? So why toss when you're old!
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