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Wang Sumin and Liu Xiaomin sat on the bay window to talk, and Liu Xiaomin asked: "In fact, I still don't understand, why do you want to divorce your father?" ”
This question, Liu Xiaomin is not the first time to ask, Wang Sumin waved his hand, said: "Your father's temper is too bad!" ”
Then she lowered her head, and there was a little regret and regret in her eyes, "Later, he became seriously ill, and I still remember him." Sometimes I think that if he were alive, maybe the two of us might remarry. Because of our generation, we take marriage very seriously. ”
Seeing this, a doubt in my heart was solved.
01
When Liu Xiaomin mentioned her mother to Chen Zhuo, she said that she was a person who did not believe in marriage, and that women who dared to divorce in that era could be described as "different".
When Xiao Jie divorced, Wang Sumin almost clapped her hands and said that she was happy, glad that her daughter had left the "Ma Bao Man". When Xiao Jie met Xu Zheng, who had more superior conditions, she was not confused by the other party's family situation, education, and occupation, but saw that Xu Zheng was inappropriate.
Later, she met Chen Tianfu and wanted to make a friend with her, but she simply and neatly refused. She told her daughter that the reason why she had not looked for a wife over the years was that she had seen through those old men and wanted to find someone to serve them.
Aunt Wang Sumin really has a pair of fire eyes and golden eyes, and she does not drag mud and water when handling feelings, which is very crisp and clean, which is really "sober in the world".
However, she failed greatly in handling the marriage of her eldest daughter XiaoMin, and in order to hinder Xiaomin and Jin Bo's divorce, she also hid the marriage certificate and household registration book. After Xiao Min and Jin Bo divorced for many years, she actually wanted Xiao Min to take care of Jin Bo, which was really not like her approach.
When I listened to Wang Sumin talk about her marriage that year, I suddenly understood that she was not an "alternative", she was just a traditional wife and mother.
02
At that time, Jin Bo's father was the director of the textile factory, and Wang Sumin was a worker in the textile factory, and Jin Bo was of course her best choice at the moment.
The happiness of their children that parents expect is first and foremost stability. State-owned factories represent stability. Jin Bo has such a father, who became the chief of the security section at a young age, and he is naturally an ideal object in the eyes of many parents.
Not only Wang Sumin, but also Li Ping's mother, Mother Yu, also tried her best to pick up Alloy Wave and her daughter? Wang Sumin's thinking at that time was normal.
Besides, Wang Sumin is a single mother, and her pursuit of stability will only go even further.
It's just that the times want to abandon a person and never say hello. Jin Bo's father is no longer the director of the factory, and Jin Bo, who has no skills to learn, is depressed and soaks in wine all day, and a good and good home is ruined.
Without Teacher Su's affairs, Jin Bo and Liu Xiaomin would not last long. However, because of Teacher Su's affairs, Wang Sumin felt that her daughter owed Jin Bo.
Therefore, after Xiaomin went to Beijing, she took care of Jin Jiajun in Jiujiang, and after the death of Jin Bo's parents, she took care of Jin Bo on her behalf.
When she learned that Liu Xiaomin was in love with Li Ping's ex-husband, her first reaction was not to ask the two to get married, but to keep a low profile, which was good.
She was scared. At that time, xiaomin and teacher Su's affairs were full of storms, if the people in the hometown heard that Xiaomin and Li Ping's ex-husband were together, what gossip should be heard?
She did not dare to think that out of the idea of protecting her daughter, she did not want Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo to marry.
03
A year later, she changed that thinking.
After Xiao min broke up with Chen Zhuo, there was no contact for more than a year. She saw that her daughter was busy, there was no one around to accompany no one to take care of, and she was alone, and when she was old, she was what she was now.
Wang Sumin talked about some people in their hometown, who had been fighting all their lives for a lifetime, and in the end they were still living well, and she was somewhat envious. She ran away from her "bad tempered" husband, but she ended up with no companions.
Xiao Min is busy at work, and the day shift and night shift are back and forth, and it is difficult to accompany her to say a few words. Xiao Jie has just married again, and he is a quick temper, and it is difficult to accompany her. She brought up her grandson Jiajun, who had just gone to college and only returned home once on weekends.
She has no way to reunite with Xiao min's father, nor does she want to find an old man to serve, the house in her hometown has been rented out, and she chooses to go to a nursing home.
Nursing home, in the end, is a helpless move. But Wang Sumin, who is sober enough, does not want to become depressed alone in the empty house.
As a mother, she certainly didn't want her daughter to repeat her mistakes. Therefore, she changed her mind, encouraged Xiaomin to pursue her own happiness, and supported her and Chen Zhuo to be together.
Parents want their children to have a good home, and Wang Sumin is no exception. At that time, she tried her best to match Xiaomin and Jin Bo and oppose their divorce, all for this ultimate purpose.
Write at the end:
No one is born to be a parent, and every decision they make for the good of their children may not always be correct, and it will also attract the resentment of their children. But only after becoming a parent will they understand, and they will regret their original decision.
We, who are just used to being subtle, always like to silently digest the resentment and hatred in our hearts.
Times are different, and we can make more free choices about marriage. Those disagreements with our parents should also be expressed in a clearer way, hugging each other and crying, rather than living a lifetime with resentment.
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