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"Xiao Min's Family" has been chased to the present, and I have found that the marriage of Xiao Min's mother and Xiao Min, Xiao Jie, and The Mother is more unfortunate than one.
The reason for Xiaomin's divorce was because of domestic violence.
In an era when few people divorced, Wang Sumin's divorce was a rare thing.
There are also many people of my mother's generation who have been abused by domestic violence all their lives, husband and wife quarrels, and tomorrow their lives are not happy, but they dare not divorce, so they live a lifetime.
There are also some women who, because of their strong temperament, jump into the well, drink medicine and drink medicine, and bury their lives in unhappy marriages.
But Wang Sumin was sober.
She bravely divorced, self-reliant and independent, and can raise her two daughters so well, it is not simple to think of this woman.
Although the marriage can not be happy, she also wants to make her life happy, she has not given up on both daughters, as a mother she is competent.
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The eldest daughter, Xiaomin, marries the son of the factory director according to her mother's wishes, and Wang Sumin's plan for Xiaomin is of course to hope that she will be happy.
Wang Sumin originally thought that Jin Bo's son, as the factory director, had a solid family and could make Xiao Min happy.
However, after Xiao Min and Jin Bo got married, Jin Bo was drunk and had the problem of drunken madness, Xiao Min and her son were frightened and could not bear it, and mentioned divorce many times.
However, Wang Sumin hid her marriage certificate and household registration book, and it was not until the matter of Xiaomin and Teacher Su was finally exposed that she was able to divorce.
In the marriage of Xiao Min and Jin Bo, Wang Sumin played a very important role.
As a divorce representative of that era, Wang Sumin knows well what kind of life a woman has with her children after divorce, because this is her personal experience.
I think this is also the reason why she opposed Xiaomin and Jin Bo's divorce.
At that time, she also survived the ridicule and discussion of others, and cultivated her two daughters so well, but also to fight for her unhappy marriage.
The more Wang Sumin wants to make her daughter happy, the more unhappy Xiaomin's marriage becomes.
After Xiao Min and Jin Bo divorced, they drifted north alone, but Wang Sumin helped Xiao Min take care of the children, one is that JunJun is Xiao Min's flesh and bones, as a grandmother she can't ignore, the second is That Jin Bo's virtues she knows best, and the third is that she feels guilty that the marriage she planned for Xiao Min is not happy.
03
Xiao Jie and Xiao Min are different.
Xiao Min is a calm and composed person, much like her mother Wang Sumin.
And Xiao Jie is simple and willful, unlike her mother.
She doesn't listen to her mother like Xiaomin, she longs for love and is easy to fall into.
One marriage met Ma Bao man, the second marriage met a perverted man, and Xiao Jie, who experienced two marriages, was not very good every time.
For Xiao Jie's marriage, her mother Wang Sumin did not agree every time, but her daughter herself knew that she knew what she said, and Xiao Jie could not listen to it, so she could only let her experience it herself.
Moreover, Wang Sumin, whose marriage failed, is quite aware of how important it is for a woman to find a person she likes, which is why she let Xiao Jie go.
She understands that the parents are not the children themselves, the children's marriage is happy and unhappy, the parents said that it does not count, experienced the intervention in Xiaomin's marriage, causing Xiaomin to complain about her, she no longer wants Xiaojie to resent her one day because of her interference.
I think that Wang Sumin's divorce was decided by herself, so she knew that the marriage of the children could only be decided by themselves.
04
Although Wang Sumin experienced the divorce of Xiaomin and Jin Bo and gave up on the marriage of her daughters, she would still say what she should say.
This is her practice as a parent, and it is also her responsibility as a parent.
When Wang Sumin knew that Xiaomin and Li Ping's ex-husband Chen Zhuo were in love, she was a little dark and unhappy in her heart, so strong, how could she allow Xiao Min and Li Ping's ex-husband to fall in love?
However, when she met Chen Zhuo and found that Chen Zhuo was more suitable for Xiao Min than Jin Bo, she did not say anything on her lips, but told Chen Zhuo and Xiao Min to be low-key in love.
She also told Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo about Li Ping's suspicions, so that they could understand that Li Ping already knew that the two of them were in love.
She also expressed her opinion that the two of them can fall in love, but not get married first.
First, because Wang Sumin wants face, and second, Xiaomin has experienced the failure of marriage, and Wang Sumin wants her daughter to know more about Chen Zhuo before making plans.
As a mother, she tries her best to think about her daughter's happiness.
When Jin Bo came to Beijing to find Xiao Min to reunite, the information Wang Sumin inquired about from Xiao Min's mouth was impossible to compound, so she reminded Jin Bo everywhere that he and Xiao Min were not the same person.
She also helped Jin Bo live in Beijing, showing jin bo the way, thus laying the groundwork for Jin Bo's downfall.
The fundamental purpose of Wang Sumin's doing these things is to reduce her troubles and troubles for her daughter, she was on the wrong line, and now Jin Bo's entanglement with Xiaomin is solved by her.
When Xiao Jie told her mother Wang Sumin about the first divorce, she was a little sad at first, but immediately said calmly: "Sooner or later, Tong Bing is Ma Bao, Ma Bao is destroyed in the hands of ma, his mother I don't like it even more, all day long a look of being on top." ”
These words seem to be very common, but in fact, Wang Sumin is analyzing the reasons for the failure of the marriage to her daughter.
When Xiao Min just said that she wanted to shake hands to celebrate the divorce of her mother-in-law, Wang Sumin beat her, which shows that in her heart, she especially longs for her two daughters to be able to marry happily.
The fact that the daughters were all getting divorced was not something she wanted to see, but she couldn't participate.
When Xiao Jie and Xu Zheng were in love, Wang Sumin saw through that Xu Zheng was not suitable for marriage, narrow-minded, small belly, and even Xiao Jie and his nephew would be jealous before marriage, and the days of marrying Xiao Jie would be even more difficult.
However, Xiao Jie, who was overwhelmed by love, could not listen to her mother's advice at all, and also received a certificate with Xu Zheng without Wang Sumin's knowledge.
For Xiao Jie's approach, although Wang Sumin opposed, she was powerless to change, so she had to cooperate with them to see their parents, see the house, and warn Xiao Jie that she could dink if she did not want Dink.
After meeting her parents, she told Xiao jie everything she saw, marriage is a matter for two families, not their own affairs, so that Xiao Jie can think clearly about everything.
As a mother, Wang Sumin has tried her best, but she loves herself, she can't be in a hurry because she can't change her daughter's decision, she can only control her emotions and go with them.
The premise is that she tells her daughter all the truth, and in the end, whether her life is good or not depends on them.
Looking at the whole play, Wang Sumin is always the most sober woman.
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