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When I work in a public institution, I often hear some people complain that work is not interesting, looking forward to retiring early, not wanting to punch in every day, not wanting to be constrained, not wanting to be hurt for work, hoping to live easily and freely.
I think this is also the mentality of many people, complaining every day that they don't want to go to work, the most envious thing is life after retirement, casual and free, no one to control, just need to enjoy the joy of the world.
But is life really good after retirement?
After Wang Sumin in "Xiao Min's Family" retired, there was a period of time living in her daughter's home in Beijing, Xiao Min was busy working every day, only she stayed at home alone, every day idle, not even a person to talk, can only chat with flowers and grass, because it is too boring, so I know the relationship between Jin Bo and my daughter, but I still look forward to Jin Bo going home, just want to talk to him.
Such a state is the current situation of most elderly people after retirement, doing nothing every day, having no psychological sustenance, resulting in isolation from the outside world, feeling that life is lifeless, feeling completely abandoned by society, and having no use.
I was in an office with an uncle who was about to retire in the unit, and he told the truth, he said that when he went to work, he looked forward to retirement, but he really had nothing to do when he retired, and people still had to do something, too idle.
Yes, people live for a day, in the end, there is something to do, even after retirement, people can not be too idle, otherwise it is really "sitting and eating and waiting for death".
When people go to work, there is something to do, they will feel that they are needed by this society, once they retire, they often have a strong sense of gap in psychology, feeling that they are a waste, and the change of mentality is very difficult.
Some preparations can't wait until you retire to do it, and it's good for you to prepare in advance before retiring.
Work out early, have a strong body, and cause less trouble for your children
In the second half of life, the fight is health, especially in the later stages, it is very important to have a strong physique.
Some people reach the age of about 50 years old, the body is sick, an old look, after retirement not only can not rely on themselves, but also to add trouble to their children.
In the old age, people are most afraid of being hated, and having a healthy body is the best love for their children, and they will also avoid being rejected.
When you are young, many people will be busy with work, and neglect body management, always feel that it is not too late to wait until retirement to exercise, in fact, fitness is never too early, as soon as possible to maintain a habit of exercise, in order to be able to keep their body functions in a good state, can use a better posture to face life.
Don't wait until your health gets worse before you start to sigh: If only I had exercised earlier and paid attention to my physical health. Prepare in advance, have a strong body, and retire to be able to maintain full of vitality and passion to enjoy life and have life.
If a person does not have a good body, there is no way to do other things, poor health will affect your entire life state, when you spend all your energy on taking medicine to see a doctor, it is really necessary to feel useless, but also to the children to cause trouble.
Cultivating a hobby that fills your life won't be left with nothing to do
In "Little Min's House", Wang Sumin likes to dance, which has become her biggest source of fun after retirement.
She later moved to a nursing home, danced every day with a group of like-minded people, and her life was full of arrangements, and the whole person felt much happier.
Having a hobby is a big part of our motivation to face life, a person who has no hobbies, his life is very empty, he will often complain about boredom, and feel that life is too boring.
It's okay to be younger, after all, there are still jobs, there are many things to do, after retirement, the whole life is pressed the pause button, there is nothing to do, if there is not even a little interest, life is really depressed and depressed.
Don't wait until after retirement to think of cultivating hobbies, at that time there may be a weak heart, you have to plan in advance, continue a hobby, so that you will not feel that you have nothing to do when you retire. There is still hope in life.
In "Little Min's Family", when Wang Sumin was talking to the flowers and grass at home alone, she said: If you are younger, you will take a driver's license, travel everywhere, don't wait until you are old to regret that some things are not done early, prepare early, so that you will not let yourself have regrets. Have a skill, have a hobby, and retire when your life is interesting.
Reserve money in advance, settle down in your old age, and have no worries
When people are old, the most feared thing is that they need to reach out and ask their children for money, and at that moment they really feel that they are useless.
There are some old people who earn a little money and add it all to their children, single-mindedly for the good of their children, always thinking that they can rely on their children in their old age, and when they really need to rely on them, they find that there is no one to rely on.
A lifetime of hard work and resentment is to hope that you can have a salary in your old age, and you can not bow your head to anyone, but you have not planned well for yourself, you have not prepared enough money, and once you encounter some pain, you are powerless to resist.
After people get old, their bodies will always have more or less problems, and it is difficult to cope with their meager pensions, so they need to prepare in advance before retirement.
When you are young, you can earn more and earn more, if the salary is not high, then cultivate a side job, learn to manage money, and prepare yourself for your old age as much as possible, so that you can have no worries.
There are some people who just live with the idea of taking one step at a time and not being ready until the last minute.
However, in fact, some things are not rushed early or late, and the more they are delayed, the more difficult it is to implement. Don't wait until one day when you can't do anything, and then regret not preparing in advance.
Although retirement is very easy, but it is not as good as we think, the biggest dilemma is due to their own mentality, can not accept the gap of not being needed, life is completely suspended, will feel very useless.
In order to avoid the collapse of mentality after retirement, do not make three preparations in advance, so that when it comes to retirement, you will not feel afraid and can embrace retirement life to the fullest.