01.
For women, what they want is to live exquisitely and always be attractive.
When you are young, you can easily do it, and under the blessing of youth, the beauty of women is the most natural and pure.
And after the best time has passed, both beauty and body shape will gradually lose its attractiveness.
As Colton said, "A beautiful body can attract admirers, but to attract them enduringly, you need a beautiful soul." ”
Of course, not only to be attractive in the eyes of others, but also for yourself.
There are many women who can live more and more delicately, exude a calm and comfortable temperament from the inside out, and are very elegant and comfortable between hands and feet.
But women of the same age, some people are not happy themselves, and life is also a chicken feather.
I can't see the hope after that, and I can't feel happiness and happiness in the slightest, let alone myself.
But in fact, everyone's life is in their own hands, and what life looks like depends on your choices.
Some women revolve around others all day long, never planning their own lives, and naturally cannot live more and more exquisitely.
And some women, who take their lives into their own hands, are able to live through self-centeredness.
Naturally, she will live a lifestyle that makes herself happy and realizes her value.
They know how to enjoy life, plan their own lives, and naturally be able to live a confident and exquisite life.
And the reason why such a woman lives more and more exquisitely is because she has done these things.
02.
Don't be a woman who loses herself
There are always women who, after having a marriage, start to forget themselves.
A mind rushes into the family, to be a good wife for a husband, a good mother for a child, but forgetting to be yourself.
I took care of everything around me, but I neglected myself and forgot to live for myself.
The value of a woman does not exist only in marriage and family, but also has more choices.
Perhaps, some women plan for their future lives.
Spend a good time with your husband and stay at home, but ask yourself, is it really happy?
Every day I get up to face chai rice oil and salt, housework, and think about the trivialities of life.
Day after day like this, can you really find yourself in it, can you find happiness in it?
Once your other half, feeling bored with you, is unwilling to continue with you.
Just like Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", after being abandoned, what did he get?
A woman can love her family, but she cannot ignore her own worth and cannot forget to live for herself.
03.
Women who don't do nosy things
A lot of women love to worry about it, especially as they get older and become elders.
Women always can't rest assured of the people around them, and they always have a heart that can't be, and they can't stop for a moment.
But if you continue like this for a long time, you will find that life does not belong to you every day, and every day you are busy with people and things around you.
Nature does not have time to live their own lives, nor does they care about themselves.
Life is your own, managing too many things, there is no benefit to yourself, it will only increase your burden.
If you want to live more and more exquisitely, you must care about yourself, not worry about others.
Zhao Na in "Little Shed", although she is old, the state of the whole person is very exquisite.
She will not mix with the children's affairs, let alone comment on the right and wrong of them, but let the children solve it by themselves.
People have lived most of their lives, and the days after that should belong to themselves and should live the life they want.
This is also the reason why she can live a delicate life and be called the eldest princess, because she knows how to live for herself.
04.
Don't be a woman who is not delicate
Many women put aside everything in their past after marriage.
I don't want to dress myself, I don't even think that dressing up is useless, and I don't think about how to make myself live exquisitely.
In this way, over time, I lost my expectations of life and forgot how attractive my former self was.
At any time, women should not give up on being more beautiful, especially to understand that it is for themselves.
In "The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel", Mickey is a very delicate woman.
But in marriage, her delicacy is only for her husband.
But her efforts did not keep her husband, but made her life more tired.
But then she understood what her life should be like, and what she was so exquisite for.
After that, although she continued to dress herself, unlike before, she was now for herself.
Therefore, after that, she was so delicate and beautiful, and always acted so beautifully.
In fact, if you want to be able to live more and more exquisitely, it is never too late to start.
But you have to understand how to do it, how to live for yourself, how to realize your own value.
Only in this way can you appreciate the meaning of life and live your own wonderful.