Wen 丨 listens to the snow and says the shadow
"Xiao MinJia" is about to usher in the finale, it is really a bit unwilling, the drama is lively, the outside of the play is life, life is like a play, how many parents in the play are short, how many joys and sorrows there are outside the play, we can't decide the lives of others, but we can control our own destiny.
As the saying goes, "three women in one play", because the world of women is colorful, and in this play, there are so many colorful women who live their lives wonderfully.
Liu Xiaomin, she is self-reliant and self-reliant and does not succumb to the arrangement of fate, although Liu Xiaojie has some love brains, but her ability is obvious to all, and Li Ping, who dares to love and hate, she has a broad mind.
In this drama, in fact, there are no big treacherous and evil people, everyone is really living with themselves, although some people are selfish, some people are a little dark, but these are also the most normal reactions in human nature, because when everyone looks at the problem, they stand on different positions, they face different angles, and in the end there are thousands of different results, and no one can be perfect, and the pursuit of profit and avoidance of harm is something that no one can avoid.
Excellent mother, Wang Sumin
Wang Sumin, as the mother of the two sisters of the Liu family, she should be considered very good, when she was young, she resolutely divorced her husband who had been drinking for a long time, after marriage, she struggled to take two daughters alone, in that era, she resisted the gossip that weighed on her head, and also suppressed the physiological needs of a normal woman.
Therefore, as a mother, she is indeed worthy of admiration, and for the happy growth of her two children, she has paid several times more hardship than others, although the children do not have the love of their fathers, but her great maternal love, but let the two children feel the strength of motherhood, these two children in her education, they are excellent, which also laid a solid foundation for their later life.
Of course, she also had mistakes, that is, in Liu Xiaomin's marriage, she was too pedantic and unsatisfactory, but her original intention was really only for the good of the child, when she chose Jin Bo as her son-in-law, she was attracted by Jin Bo's external conditions, but which parent would harm the child?
For marriage, no matter in which dynasty, parents first consider the family conditions of the other party, who does not want their daughter to have a good starting point? At that time, the situation of Jin Bo's family was indeed the best in the local area, and Jin Bo's external conditions were not bad, his family was rich and unburdened, handsome in appearance and personality, thinking about such an unmarried man, of course, attracted the attention of many mothers-in-law.
Like jin bo family such conditions, of course, Wang Sumin will not let go, fortunately, Liu Xiaomin's own conditions are also good, although she comes from a single-parent family, but Wang Sumin's reputation in the local area is good, coupled with Liu Xiaomin's prominent image, soon they entered the marriage.
However, later Jin Bo was too fluttery, he was spoiled by his parents, although he had become a husband and a father, but his heart had not yet grown, he was used to being taken care of by others, and he was used to being attached to others, and he did not have a sense of responsibility and responsibility of men, which was the most unaccustomed to Liu Xiaomin.
At first, Liu Xiaomin can still endure, after all, Jin Bo has not yet done a big thing out of the ordinary, but later he actually learned to drink heavily, and then there was more hands-on behavior, this time Liu Xiaomin can no longer bear it, she proposed to Jin Bo to break up, but what she did not expect was that the first person who jumped out to oppose was her mother Wang Sumin.
Why would Wang Sumin be so adamant against her daughter's divorce? Hadn't she resolutely parted hands with her husband for all this? Why can't it be done when it comes to my daughter? In fact, there is no important reason, but she has experienced the pain of a divorced woman and then a child, so she does not want her daughter to suffer such suffering and sin again.
But her momentary softness of heart, but let her daughter Liu Xiaomin fall into a vicious cycle, as a result, the rumors of her daughter and teacher were spread by Jin Bo, and her daughter not only had a damaged reputation, she had not yet won the custody of the child, and after that, the daughter was forced to leave the country and start a difficult struggle.
Therefore, after that, Liu Xiaomin came out to accuse her for these things, saying that if it were not for Wang Sumin's opposition, she would not have been so miserable, in fact, this can also be regarded as a knot in their mother's and daughter's heart, but this matter really can't blame Wang Sumin, she is just standing in the perspective of a mother, too worried and afraid of losing, in the end, she also realized her mistakes, so in the later stage, she took on the obligation of raising her grandson Jin Jiajun.
As a mother, she has done quite well, in the treatment of her own marriage, she can be fierce, but she really can't afford to let her daughter suffer, this may be a kind of knot in the world's mother, later, their mother and son finally opened the words, buried in the hearts of the two people, the knots buried in the hearts of the two are also unraveled, and Liu Xiaomin after becoming a mother, she also truly experienced the difficulty and difficulty of maternal love.
Excellent wife, Li Ping
Li Ping this woman is really more and more cute, in her body, it can be said that the concentration of all the advantages and disadvantages of human nature, although she has some city servants, some reality, but she is also the most true temperament, for love she dares to love and hate, dare to be bold, she is indomitable and positive about the cause, she does not abandon her benevolence and righteousness to her relatives, and she is clear and sincere to her friends.
Kindness, tolerance, true temperament, her advantages are many, among them, the most admirable is her tolerance, her atmosphere is really too impressive.
At that time, she could be described as love at first sight for Chen Zhuo, as a woman, she did not twist at all, she liked to pursue, and when she loved, she went to confess, as a result, she liked the love of the male god.
After marriage, these two have lived a sweet life of love, life is as plain as water, Chen Zhuo enjoys the happiness of it, but Li Ping has a new idea, she wants to let life go to a higher level, she wants to take advantage of the fact that when both people are young, they can fight again and work harder.
But her idea was not affirmed by Chen Zhuo, because Chen Zhuo was a person who was at ease with the encounter, he did not care much about material needs, he liked the calm days, he liked to follow the rules and follow the rules and step by step life, at first, they could tolerate each other, but later, the ideological differences between the two people became more and more, and finally they could no longer coordinate, and Li Ping, who was crisp and neat, had to propose to break up.
It can be said that the two of them do not have any major contradictions, and their separation is only due to the discord between personality and three views, after separation, they still get along like good friends, and their relationship has also had a good impact on children.
Everyone looks at Chen Jiajia's personality is very good, she does not have the sensitivity and introversion of a single-parent family, which benefits from the good relationship between Li Ping and Chen Zhuo, after that, Li Ping met Hong Wei, who had the same ideal, at that time, Hong Wei already had his own small career, although it was not large, but it was also beginning to take shape.
And Li Ping is a very capable woman, she is decisive and unique in her work, she is diligent and capable, and she is very motivated, and later, with the joint efforts of their husband and wife, their careers have made great achievements, and Li Ping has also got everything she dreams of, her success in addition to seeing people accurately, but also inseparable from her own efforts and efforts.
She is not like other women, only thinking about the upper position, only thinking of picking up the results of other people's efforts, and Hong Wei is looking at this point of Li Ping, although Li Ping is married for the second time, but they still live a very loving life, in life, Hong Wei is very tolerant of Li Ping, because he knows that Li Ping has a debt to Jia Jia, so he never cares about everything Li Ping has done for Chen Jiajia, spending money and indulging him without a bottom line.
And what he did was only because of one thing, that is, he respected and loved Li Ping in his heart, but he was a more traditional man, as time grew, and his age grew, but he did not have a successor, for this reason, he and Li Ping were working hard, but injections, medicines, and test tubes did not play any role.
After a long time, Hong Wei's heart began to hair, he was afraid that Li Ping would never be able to have children again, and his own large family property could not be inherited, so later, he had a one-night stand with other women in a momentary confusion, and as a result, he got a son as he wished, and he also cut off all contact with that woman.
But all this, he was carrying out behind Li Ping's back, because he did not dare to say, he was afraid that Li Ping could not stand it, and he was afraid of losing Li Ping, later, Li Ping was finally pregnant, he was very happy, but after a few days of happiness, the child was stimulated by Chen Jiajia, he was sad Li Ping was even more sad, but there was also bad news, that is, Li Ping could no longer be a mother.
After hearing this news, Li Ping was about to collapse, and she was even more full of guilt for Hongwei, Hongwei was also very sad, but he still had some comfort in his heart, because he was glad that he already had a child, here, you said that Hongwei was bad, but there was nothing wrong with his desire to be a father's psychology, to say wrong, he was wrong in not speaking out about the child openly.
He wants children, he can choose to divorce Li Ping, and then, he will find a woman again to have children for himself, instead of cheating on his wife to get a son as now, he wants to get both children and marriage and love.
After that, his career encountered a major crisis, or it may be his retribution, he was put in prison, and at this time, he only had to give the child's matter to the whole thing, because he knew Li Ping's personality, she may hate him very much, and may also file for divorce, but her heart is kind, she will not ignore his children.
Sure enough, when he told Li Ping about the child, Li Ping was blindfolded, she hated Hongwei for cheating on her, she hated Hongwei even more for betraying their feelings, but the matter was over, the child was innocent, for a child who was only five years old, what could she do? She couldn't leave the child alone abroad, although in her heart, she couldn't forgive Hong Wei, but she couldn't ignore the child.
Later, she took the child back to China, originally wanted to put it in Hongwei's relatives, but when she saw Hongwei's relatives, one greedy face after another, she really did not trust to put the child there, and finally, she made a major decision, that is, she wanted to take this child alone and re-fight her career and love.
Li Ping, this woman is really respectful, she is full of love for life, her husband betrayed her like this, but she did not put all her anger on a child, in fact, this child has nothing to do with her, and her life is already very sad now.
Career is gone, the mansion is gone, the home is gone, the husband is gone, nothing is gone, but on her face, there is no trace of sadness, she should eat and drink, and take the child who has nothing to do with her with her, she does not complain about the world, nor does she give up on herself, but actively plans her future and tomorrow.
Nothing can be repeated, nothing in her dictionary is impossible, she can afford to live in a mansion, she can also squeeze into the basement, her psychology is so strong, such a woman let us give her a big thumbs up, in this play, I want to give her a full score! These two excellent women, do you like?