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01. Preface
Sanmao said: "True happiness, not ecstasy, nor pain, in my subjective sense, it is a long stream of thin water, blue seas and waves, in the multitude of sentient beings, to be an ordinary person, to enjoy the joy of life for a moment, then even if we do not die, we are still in heaven." ”
On the road of life, no matter how poor or rich, there will always be a taste of chai rice oil and salt in a dull life.
From youth to old age, the state of mind is becoming more and more mature, and gradually see through the sophistication of human feelings.
Fifty years old is a watershed moment in life. When people reach the age of fifty, when they know their destiny, they finally understand that some things do not have to be too attached.
After the age of fifty, we will usher in the best decade of my life.
Fifty years old, more than half a hundred people, life and career have reached a relatively stable state, the original tense nerves can finally be loosened, began to live their own life.
Fifty years old, it is the time to harvest the fruits of the first half of life's cultivation, and it is about to usher in the best decade of life, and the real life has just begun.
Why?
02, the economic pressure has become less, and life has slowed down
After the age of fifty, the financial pressure began to decrease, and life gradually slowed down.
When I was young, because of the pressure of life, every day in my heart and eyes, I pretended how to make more money. The real society makes people have to work hard and live in a life full of pressure.
After the age of fifty, the accumulated material foundation can make you less desperate, and life gradually slows down.
The fast-paced mode of life makes people miss a lot. After the age of fifty, you can finally start to slow down and savor the taste of life.
After the age of fifty, the children gradually become a family, the financial pressure on themselves becomes smaller, and their lives slow down, so that they can have more time and energy to do what they like.
The decade after the age of fifty is the best decade of life. Because, the body is fine, the economic pressure is less, the quality of life is guaranteed, and you can experience more happiness.
03, children grow up and begin to have their own lives
After the age of fifty, the children finally grew up and became a family, and as parents, they finally began to have their own way of life.
On the way of life, as a parent, I have witnessed the growth of my children along the way. Before the age of fifty, he was full of worries and exhausted his heart for his children every day.
However, after the age of fifty, the children have also established a family and have the ability to live independently, and they do not need their parents to worry about them anymore.
Growing up means that parents can begin to have their own way of life.
After the age of fifty, you can regain your dreams. The regrets left in my heart are sewn up with my hands at the age of fifty. After the age of fifty, you can live as you like, and you don't have to live aggrieved.
After the age of fifty, it is the best decade, because the children have grown up, and as parents, they can finally live for themselves once.
04, after the age of fifty, the husband and wife have a more harmonious relationship
When a person reaches the age of fifty, the family is more harmonious and tastes more happiness.
Before the age of fifty, because of the pressure and friction in life, it will always lead to contradictions between the husband and wife. Quarrels, cold wars, fill life.
As time passes, the mind gradually becomes calm. In the dull years, I finally understood how to get along well and how to better manage my feelings.
After the age of fifty, the husband and wife have walked hand in hand for most of their lives, and love has gradually transformed into family affection. Decades of ups and downs, do not abandon, husband and wife feelings more harmonious.
Fifty years later is the best decade, because the relationship between husband and wife has gradually become stronger, and they have more time to spend with each other.
At the same time, because I understand the principle of "old couple, old partner", I understand the meaning of keeping each other better.
When people reach the age of fifty, they will be grateful to their other half, know how to cherish and tolerate each other more, and the family relationship is more harmonious, even if the youth has passed, they can still live with love and happiness.
05. Summary
The decade after the age of fifty is actually the most wonderful decade, because life has just begun.
Half of life has passed, sweet and sour have been experienced, the past has been transformed into life experience, how to go forward, I have a plan in my heart.
In the first half of his life, he worked hard to support his family and never really lived for himself.
Fifty years old, life has just begun, there is no need to worry about life, children and daughters have a career, there are lovers who advance and retreat with themselves, and the peak life is just like this.
Fifty years old, equivalent to the autumn of the four seasons, is the time of harvest, in the fifty years of life, let yourself understand the true meaning of life: people live a lifetime, not for others, to be kind to themselves.
Fifty years old, you have reached the best state in your life, experience, physical strength, time, these are valuable resources.
Fifty years old, don't feel like you're old, the really wonderful life has just begun.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.