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In a normal marriage relationship, "Ma Bao Man" is the biggest obstacle on the road to family and harmonious development, for "Ma Bao Man", the wrong is always his wife, even if the wife has more grievances and unwillingness, "Ma Bao Man" is also indifferent.
For Ms. Du, one of the things she regrets most in this life is to marry a "ma bao man".
After marrying her husband, Ms. Du found that her mother-in-law was a person with a small belly and chicken intestines, not only that, she always liked to interfere with the every move of others, especially for Ms. Du, if Ms. Du did not follow the mother-in-law's meaning, the mother-in-law would bend over backwards to express her dissatisfaction, and even reprimand Ms. Du as an elder.
At the beginning, Ms. Du thought that she was her mother-in-law, so she thought that she would be able to endure it, but everything could not stand up to many times, and after a long time, Ms. Du felt very wronged, obviously she had done nothing wrong, but in the eyes of her mother-in-law, she was so worthless.
When Ms. Du suffered all the grievances in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she thought of confide in her husband, hoping to exchange her husband's comfort, but she did not expect that her husband used a single sentence to perfunctory Ms. Du: She is our mother, we should respect her.
The husband did not ask the cause of the incident at all, nor did he ask about the merits of it, so he made a judgment without authorization, it seems that in the eyes of the husband, everything is The fault of Ms. Du.
Only then did Ms. Du clearly realize that her husband was a real "ma bao man".
In order to verify this, Ms. Du deliberately said a few bad words about her mother-in-law during the meal, did not expect that her husband's reaction was so fierce, he was so angry, and forced Ms. Du to apologize for the words just said, Ms. Du looked at her husband's face full of red, and could not help but emit a burst of sadness from the depths of her heart, this relationship, after all, is wrongly paid.
Ms. Du left a sentence lightly: Let's get a divorce, so she got up and went into the bedroom.
At this time, the husband did not realize the seriousness of the matter, and he still counted down Ms. Du's not.
Until a divorce agreement was placed in front of her husband, he panicked, but at the first time, he was not thinking about how to keep this marriage, but called his mother to ask how to deal with this matter, Ms. Du vaguely heard her mother-in-law's voice from the phone: leave, the son is not afraid of her, let's go better.
After the husband hung up the phone, the original panicked look on his face was swept away, and he calmly told Ms. Du: Leave and leave, you don't regret it.
After listening to this sentence, Ms. Du couldn't help but be glad that she recognized the true face of this family so early and was able to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.
Since divorcing her husband, Ms. Du has enjoyed life with peace of mind, and she no longer insists on feelings, but it is this indifferent mentality that finally allows Ms. Du to find her home again.
Since divorcing her husband for five years, Ms. Du has also heard some things about her ex-husband's family, and after divorcing herself, her ex-husband married another wife, but in the end it was also because of the temperament of her ex-husband's "Ma Bao Man", which led to the end of this marriage, it is said that after the divorce, the woman went to her ex-husband's house and made a big fuss, pointing to her ex-husband's nose and saying: You are such a "Ma Bao man", there should be no woman willing to follow you.
In this regard, Ms. Du could only smile and did not care.
But unexpectedly, not long after, the ex-husband did not know where to get his contact information, and sent himself a message saying that he wanted to meet.
Ms. Du wanted to refuse, but thinking about the previous marital love, she could not bear to refuse, so she agreed.
After meeting her ex-husband at the agreed place, I didn't expect my ex-husband to kneel in front of Ms. Du with a "pounce", and Ms. Du was horrified and asked what happened?
Unexpectedly, her ex-husband told Ms. Du how much he missed her since she left, and he was also clearly aware of his previous mistakes, hoping that Ms. Du could give him a chance to remarry.
After Ms. Du heard this, she couldn't help but smile lightly, she finally understood the real purpose of her husband on this trip, but at this time, how could she repeat the mistakes of her previous mistakes when she was living happily.
Ms. Du only said one word, just as she did when she first divorced: Now my mother-in-law loves me very much.
After saying this, Ms. Du turned and left, leaving her ex-husband alone, in a daze in the same place.
Conclusion: For "Ma Bao Man", no matter what happens, the mother's opinion is his own opinion, the mother's decision is his own decision, no matter how much the wife has been wronged, but all this, in the eyes of the "Ma Bao Man", is the wife's fault.
"Ma Bao Man" is a major obstacle to the development of family members' relationships, it is their ignorance of right and wrong, causing their wives to live in the water every day, and finally the wife chooses to leave, and at this time, they will not realize their mistakes, which is undoubtedly a very sad thing.