Jin Bo of "Xiao MinJia", whether he is a money fan or really in order to prepare his son to go to college to raise money, he failed to invest, not only lost all the money, but also owed a bunch of debts. The son ran to Beijing to run to his mother in order to insist on the Tsinghua Dream, and Jin Bo also ran to Beijing to avoid creditors
The ex-wife is absolutely benevolent, not only to find a hotel for him, but also to pay the rent, but to see that the money ran out, but also met the creditor of the hometown on the street, so Jin Bo did not do two and did not leave the ex-wife's home.
Brother Gongzi, the director of the tangtang state-owned factory, why is it so miserable?
And this character also answers the truth of a middle-aged man who has achieved nothing.
A good birth does not mean that you can be rich for a lifetime
At that time, in the local area, Jin Bo was definitely a sought-after commodity, so he also claimed to be the little prince of that year.
When Liu Xiaomin and her mother quarreled, Min's mother also said: You think I will push my own daughter into the fire pit, at that time, Jin Bo, but the factory manager's son, the conditions are the best.
Therefore, according to the home hardware conditions, Jin Bo is indeed fragrant.
It is said that rich is not more than three generations, a person from a good background, does not necessarily mean that he can be rich for a lifetime, he can inherit his father's property, have a house and a deposit, but can not withstand a low IQ and not a proper son, no ability, no job, no pursuit, no brain, any life blow will make him have nothing in his hands.
Jin Bo is a typical Ah Dou who can't afford it, so it is very important to find a partner to look after the family situation, but being born with a golden key does not mean that he can be a bright person for a lifetime, and have no worries about food and clothing for a lifetime.
As a middle-aged man, Jin Bo must understand that most of the failures in life stem from himself, and holding on to a good birth can only make his situation worse.
People with low self-esteem will never have higher pursuits
The marriage of Jin Bo and Xiao Min is ostensibly caused by Teacher Su, but in fact, there are too many opposites and differences from the living habits of the two people to the pursuit of literacy, and the so-called extramarital affair Teacher Su is only the last straw that crushes the marriage.
Jin Bo is not the first time to enter Xiao Min's door, under the eyes of his former mother-in-law, he does not dare to make a mistake, and he will try to converge as much as possible in front of his son, and when no one is around, he completely relaxes and exposes the true face of his nature.
Enter the door and put down the disinfectant, think I don't know if you don't do it anyway, drink the red wine left at home, and claim that the wine can't be opened for a long time.
Even more when he was driven away, Yizheng felt that he had today, and it was his ex-wife Xiaomin who wore a green hat for himself to be seen as a joke, and even blamed his ex-wife for not being as good as Li Pingwangfu, not grateful.
Even if the ex-wife acquiesces to temporarily live out of helplessness and compassion, she can hide on the couch and brush her mobile phone and smirk to affect others' learning without knowing it.
Even if Xiao Min has been promoted and has a good job and salary, he knows how to improve himself and memorizes words every day when he returns home, while Jin Bo does not understand, and he does not want to bother. Because other people's white eyes and contempt do not matter to him, cheap pay, you can exchange for eating and wearing, is a good and very "cost-effective" transaction.
Why doesn't he mix well? The key is that he can be indifferent to the contempt and contempt for others, and even spit on him, just like he taught his son, as long as he is not embarrassed, the embarrassment is someone else.
Therefore, the reason why some people lead to the situation that mud cannot support the wall has nothing to do with simple ability, but the mentality under their cognition, mud is not bad.
Taking shortcuts leads to nothing
Jin Bo was born into a good family, naturally enjoying the treatment that his peers did not have, and these are the things he can get without his own efforts, after the death of his parents, he gradually fell, and he can only blame his ex-wife, saying that it is because the "cheating" scandal affected him.
Then when life was difficult to eat and eat, he thought of a way not to find a job, but to pestering his ex-wife, because she had a fixed job, a good income, and a very comfortable house in the big city, so he wanted to use the way of "remarriage" to get a long-term free meal ticket for the rest of his life to borrow his days.
Why do people want to take shortcuts? Quite simply, it's even a matter of getting it for nothing.
If a person always wants to get a better life through shortcuts, then the road is destined to be more bumpy and difficult.
How to make a person's life completely free of the possibility of being changed by redemption? Then let him take shortcuts, the mentality is wrong, life can only be at the bottom of the valley.
Seeing Jin Bo who was in his ex-wife's house, he finally understood the truth that people have nothing in middle age, and a person can never fail for no reason, and the reason is in himself.
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