Would you marry a man who doesn't love you? Presumably, in real life, most women will have a negative attitude when they hear this sentence, because in the eyes of women, what they really want is often a man who can protect them and bring them love.
Wang Jie and her husband have been married for 7 years, the reason why the two will get married in the first place is also because of the matchmaking of the family, because the two families are relatively close, and the relationship between the parents is relatively good, so the two are also married under the arrangement of their parents.
At the beginning, for her parents' arrangement, in fact, Wang Jie's heart did not approve, because Wang Jie felt that such a marriage would not be happy, but looking at the face of her parents, Wang Jie still chose to marry this man.
Because Wang Jie's age is not small, coupled with the age of her parents, she does not want her parents to worry anymore, Wang Jie feels that the two have no feelings that can be cultivated after marriage, but the development of things after marriage is not as smooth as Wang Jie imagined, even if the two have children, Wang Jie has no interest in the man in front of her.
Because in Wang Jie's view, this man is not what she likes, and there will be many differences in the life of the two, which also makes Wang Jie's heart very unpleasant, but for the sake of the child, Wang Jie still chose to be patient.
But in this period of married life, Wang Jie is not happy, in fact, the reluctant marriage will not be happy, two people together, if you want to be happy and stable, then you must really like each other, because if there is no feeling as the basis, then the love between the two will become dispensable.
In fact, good love needs two people to maintain together, in love, really smart women, often know how to use these methods to maintain love, will you?
01.
Beauty is a natural pass:
A woman's beauty is always a plus in front of men, no one will skip your facial features to understand your three views, in real life, everyone is selfish, this is not false.
If you want a man to be inseparable from you, then you must do a good job of self-management, in this world, the people who really love themselves are often your own, and the love of others for you comes from your value.
A woman who knows how to maintain her beauty will be more outstanding in front of men.
02.
Don't turn over old accounts:
For a man, they will be very afraid of a woman who loves to turn over old accounts, and in the world of feelings, if a woman always repeats the old things, then it will also make a man very bored. In relationships, everyone will make mistakes, but after making mistakes, we must also learn to face reality.
In terms of turning over old accounts, men are far inferior to women, many men will become particularly heavy after seeing their wives start to turn over old accounts, and women who like to turn over old accounts will naturally give men a pressure invisibly, and over time the feelings between the two will become dispensable.
When two people are inseparable because of the triviality of life, the feelings between the two will become dispensable. Therefore, turning over old accounts will only make the distance between you become farther and farther away, and when appropriate, give the man some personal space, but it will make him love you more.
When facing feelings, women should learn to turn over old accounts less, so that they can get more happiness. Because in love, many things should have turned the page, and should not be an obstacle to your feelings.
03.
Learn to be gentle:
The kicking cat effect tells us: don't be the transmitter of bad emotions.
Women in the relationship, to learn to be gentle, excessively strong, will only make men feel anxious, and even some men will be made very upset by women. Men like women who are tender as water. This is not false at all, a marriage expert Cheng said from the bottom of his heart that no man can escape the gentle embrace of a woman.
A woman's tenderness, that is, the power to conquer a man. In real life, a truly intelligent woman is often gentle, and every man's heart will be eager to be loved and loved, and gentleness and love are often the same frequency. The same is true of the best life for a spoiled woman.
In the emotional life, the gentle woman is the embodiment of wisdom. Because your temper can't solve the problem, it will only make the problem between you more embarrassing, so treating a man with a gentle attitude is more able to trap his heart.
A woman's happiness is often in her own hands, a truly happy woman, often know how to maintain marriage, in the emotional life, happy women are often high emotional intelligence.
The Bridan donkey effect tells us: If you truly love someone, don't be indecisive.
Marriage actually needs two people to tolerate each other, in xi'an life, no one is perfect, so this requires both people to have an inclusive heart, people this life is not long, if you want to marry life lasting insurance, then you must know how to manage love.
Loving yourself is a compulsory course for every woman in real life, and a woman who really knows how to love herself can find a better way to manage love in her married life.