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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
In reality, many men do not know what women want most, because they do not understand the woman's mind, resulting in difficulties in pursuing.
In fact, it is not so difficult to get the woman you like. The first thing a man has to do is to first figure out what the woman really thinks in her heart and see what she needs.
In fact, what women want most in their feelings is really not those non-marginal romances, but in real actions, feel the texture of love.
When you figure it out, you just need to take the initiative to give her what she wants most, and she will gradually let down her guard against you and accept your pursuit.
Once the woman gives you the opportunity, you are only one step away from love, as long as you treat her sincerely in the process of pursuing, I believe that you will soon fall in love with her.
Therefore, when men pick up women, they must not be blind, they must understand the woman's mind thoroughly, so that they can prescribe the right medicine and do more with less.
Generally speaking, pampering a woman and taking the initiative to give her the following three things can basically be done.
First, consistent preference and care
In relationships, what women want most is consistent preference and care.
When a man can give a woman a preference, no matter when, can put her in the most important position, she will naturally feel your love, and thus feel good about you.
This requires men to be serious about feelings, and if you decide to pursue a woman, then you have to pay sincerity, be responsible for her, and be loyal and single-minded.
Feelings are intolerable, once there is a flaw, even the most beautiful love, will eventually fall apart.
Therefore, when men pursue women, they should not have frequent contact with other members of the opposite sex, and in your eyes, there can only be a woman who pursues, and no other opposite sex can be tolerated.
A woman's feelings are quite sensitive, as long as you can't be single-minded, can't give her the preference she wants, even if she likes you again, she won't accept your pursuit.
Once a woman denies you, no matter how much effort you make in the future, it will be difficult to move her again.
The preference in a woman's heart is nothing more than that you are single-minded to her, willing to spend time to accompany her, really put her in your heart, care about everything about her, and make her feel at ease.
Friend Xiaolin had a boyfriend before, and the two were in love for three years, and finally broke up.
The reason is that the boyfriend did not give her the preference she wanted, so that she was always worried about gain and loss.
Once, Xiaolin personally cooked a meal for her boyfriend, and when she was ready to give it to her boyfriend, she found that her boyfriend had gone to a restaurant with a female colleague, and she wanted to stop him, but finally gave up.
Another time, the boyfriend asked her out, and as a result, he met his female classmate halfway, and the two of them actually chatted for ten minutes, completely ignoring Xiaolin on the side, which made him feel cold.
There are too many examples like this, Xiaolin is very cold every time she sees her boyfriend with other people of the opposite sex, and her boyfriend would rather spend time chatting with others than care and accompany her.
During the relationship, Xiaolin waited for her boyfriend at home every day, but even if the boyfriend left work, he did not come back on time, which not only worried her, but also made her angry.
In this way, Xiao lin's heart gradually cooled, the boyfriend could not give her a preference, she really could not afford to consume, can only break up.
In fact, if a woman does not feel loved in love, feels that men do not care at all, and always worries that you will be with other people of the opposite sex, then this relationship is doomed to failure.
A woman can tolerate a man once or twice, but it is impossible to tolerate it all the time, and when she loses patience, and the disappointment accumulates again and again, and becomes a chill, she will not love anymore.
Second, the basic material conditions
Some people say: When you are in love, you can't talk about money.
Indeed, any woman, what is most needed in the relationship is the basic material conditions, if the man can not give the woman a stable life, why should she choose you?
Some men are too paranoid in their thinking, always thinking that women are materialistic, and once they ask for it, they say that women worship gold, which is not right.
Because, if you pursue a woman with this kind of idea, the first impression on her is not good, and she will not give you the opportunity to pursue at all.
Do you love a woman, just with your mouth, she will accompany you to "eat soil"?
Therefore, men decide to pursue women, must have a correct attitude, as long as you have the attitude of paying for her, she will naturally be more favorable to you.
If you are in front of her, have no giving mentality, and do not see the attitude of loving her at all, how can she be moved by you?
A dime, really can't catch up with women, I hope men can recognize this, this is not chicken soup, but reality.
Miss Yang, a friend, and her boyfriend were in love for two years, and at first she felt that her boyfriend was a responsible man who could give her a stable life.
However, after the real love, she found that her boyfriend was not self-motivated, paid six thousand a month, did not actively work hard, and looked like he could never see hope.
To this end, Miss Yang always advises her boyfriend to let him be a little more motivated, give the money to her to manage, and the two people work hard to save money together, so that they can buy a house and get married as soon as possible.
However, the boyfriend couldn't listen to it at all, and always thought that Miss Yang was materialistic, not only did not hand in the salary card, but also was wary of her, and did not want to pay at all.
When she was in love for two years, Miss Yang proposed to buy a house with a down payment first, but her boyfriend hesitated and said that it would cost too much money to buy a house, and it was better to buy a car first.
Listening to this, Miss Yang was really cold, feeling that her boyfriend was not only unmotivated, but also had a very small pattern, and could not give her the life she wanted.
The contradictions between the two people gradually increased, and finally after arguing countless times, Miss Yang proposed to break up and turned away.
Therefore, if a man wants to chase after the woman he likes, he must have a correct attitude and do not think that the woman is materialistic, on the contrary, you must take the initiative to take responsibility and let her see the future happiness.
In this way, with a basic material life, she will be assured to entrust herself to you and go to a better future with you.
Third, be firmly chosen
Every woman is eager to be firmly chosen by men, only in this way, she does not have to worry about gain and loss, and can safely walk with you into the future.
If a man is just beginning to be nice to a woman and is willing to think about her, but after a long time together, you become indifferent and ignore her, which will definitely make her feel very insecure.
Once a woman feels that your determination to love her is not firm, she will be sensitive and suspicious, suspicious of feelings, and have no confidence to go on.
In reality, when some men pursue women, they are initially enthusiastic, and then gradually cool down, and it is easy for women to lose their sense of security and eventually leave in pain.
Even, some men in the process of falling in love, encountered a little setback, they denied love, did not have the courage to take responsibility, which is the biggest blow to women.
If you give up on her because of a little difficulty, it shows that you are not firm in love, which is the most intolerable thing for women.
If you love, you must love firmly from beginning to end, even if the road ahead is difficult, do not give up, as long as you have the determination to support a woman, she will be willing to be with you, do not give up.
Friend Xiaomin and boyfriend are in love for a year, and at the beginning of the relationship is very sweet, and each other is ready to get married.
However, the boyfriend's family learned that Xiaomin was three years older than her boyfriend and objected, making the relationship instantly difficult.
Moreover, Xiaomin's family conditions are average, while the boyfriend conditions are medium and high, the two people are not door-to-door, and the marriage cannot be balanced.
Under the constant persuasion of the family, the boyfriend's previous idea of marrying Xiao Min has become more and more weak.
In the end, the boyfriend calmly proposed to Xiaomin to break up, and in order to make up for her loss, he also took the initiative to give her 50,000 breakup fees.
However, Xiao Min did not take a penny, turned around and left, never looking back.
Xiao Min gave up her original job for her boyfriend, and also for her boyfriend, she did not hesitate to bear the hurt of pregnancy and fetal beating, and thought that she would go from love to marriage with her boyfriend, but now she was broken up, and her heart was particularly cold.
Xiao Min later said that if she broke up, she could see him clearly in advance, and if she encountered a little frustration, she would give up her man, and if she really got married, it would be a tragedy.
Therefore, in the relationship, in fact, what a woman wants most is not money and materials, but can be firmly chosen by men, as long as the man will not give up on her because of a little difficulty and frustration, she will naturally give her life to you.
People who really love each other will never give up their lovers easily, and if men do this, women will definitely live with you for a lifetime, and they will never leave you in this life.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Stal said: "Love is the history of a woman's life, but only an episode in a man's life." ”
Women in the relationship, the reason why so cautious and careful, that is, afraid of encountering people is not ladylike, after all, love and marriage, for women is of great significance, once paid is a lifetime, they can not afford to lose.
Therefore, if a man is really pursuing a woman, he must not let her suffer from gain and loss, as long as you are sincere enough and sincere enough, she will definitely let go of all her worries and firmly be with you.
To sum up, to seduce a woman and take the initiative to give her these three things, you can basically get it done.
Consistent preference and care, the basic material conditions, are firmly chosen.
I hope that men can truly understand the woman's mind, if you really love her, you may wish to take the initiative to give her what you want most.
When a woman feels your love, she will let go of all her guards and be willing to join hands with you in the future.
Truly good love, that is, meeting each other, sincerely delivering, staying together until old age, never changing the heart.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.