Getting married is a great joy.
A social ethics expert pointed out that in the great joy of marriage, the happiest is not the parties in the wedding, but the parents of the parties in the wedding. Because the marriage of children means that the children have grown up and can be independent, and the burden on the parents has been reduced since then, the parents of the parties in the wedding are the happiest.
One behaviorist pointed out that there are generally two kinds of happy looks, one is "laughing", that is, "joy in color"; the other is "crying", that is, "crying with joy". However, in the happy look, "laughing" can be laughed or laughed wildly; but "crying" can only be "sobbing", and must not be "tears like rain", otherwise, the happy look will undergo a "qualitative change" and will be identified as a "sad look".
Last night, some netizens uploaded such a video, the video shows a couple of newlyweds getting married, the video shows that when the daughter-in-law called "Mom" to the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law immediately changed from "sunny to cloudy" at the same time as she agreed, and she couldn't help but cry loudly, making the daughter-in-law and all the guests present feel very surprised.
So, why did this happy mother-in-law cry?
Mr. Sun, an insider, said: "This happy mother-in-law is my sister, although she looks 60 years old, in fact, she is not yet 50 years old. ”
Mr. Sun, an insider, went on to say: "My sister and my brother-in-law are both farming at home. In the early years, my brother-in-law would also go out to work when he was idle in the farm, so as to earn some economic income and subsidize the family. Seven or eight years ago, my brother-in-law suddenly suffered from lumbar disc herniation and was unable to do heavy work, so my brother-in-law never went out to work again. When my brother-in-law was unable to go out to work, the family's financial situation became increasingly difficult. ”
Mr. Sun, an insider, continued: "My sister has raised two sons in total, and the eldest son is married in the video. In order to save money to marry my son and daughter-in-law, since my brother-in-law was unable to do heavy work, my sister went to work as a dishwasher in a restaurant in town while planting crops. Anyone who has ever worked as a dishwasher knows that the dishwasher is very hard, and it is better to say in the summer, and once it is winter, the taste of soaking your hands in cold water for a long time is very uncomfortable, and moreover, due to the stimulation of cold water, the hands of the dishwasher will appear cracked, and my sister is no exception. But, for the sake of the children, my sister has been a dishwasher for seven or eight years. ”
Mr. Sun, an insider, finally said: "Although the dry cleaners are very hard, their income is not high, and they can't save a few dollars a year in addition to family expenses." But my sister had no other way but drying bowls. Last year, my sister was very happy that someone had proposed to my sister's eldest son( my eldest nephew). My sister was happy for less than a year, and my sister could not be happy anymore, and the reason was the wedding bride price. Initially, the dowry price offered by my niece and daughter-in-law's family was 260,000 yuan, and after matchmaking, the dowry dropped to 180,000 yuan. The dowry of 180,000 is nothing for a rich family, but for a poor family, it is a lot of money, and my sister's family, which is a poor family, is difficult to come up with 180,000. But in order to be able to marry my niece and daughter-in-law, my sister had to ask for money everywhere, but all our relatives could only give my sister 60,000 yuan, in addition to my sister's own 30,000 yuan, there was a gap of half. In this case, my brother-in-law had to come forward and borrow usurious loans. Know that borrowing from usury means having 'high pressure'. Based on this, my sister will be sad and crying at the wedding of her son and daughter-in-law. ”
Mr. Sun, an insider, said that the above is the reason why Xi Mother-in-law wants to cry.
When many netizens learned the reason for crying, everyone said that they had married their daughter-in-law and lost half their lives. Hi Mother-in-law is so hard! It is hoped that the relevant departments will hurry up and resolutely stop the high-priced dowry.
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