Everyone has reverie about their future partner, tall or short, fat or thin, talented or idealistic...
But love is the most difficult thing to control, and it may suddenly come.
If people limit themselves to various rules and regulations, they will set up an invisible "wall" for themselves, and there is a lot less possibility of encountering love.
Teacher Mo, a senior red lady of Lily Network, has helped many men and women trapped in the "wall" to untie their happy knots. She shared her experience and experience, hoping that everyone can bravely go out and harvest love.
Brave pursuit Brave love
Ms. Yuan, 28 years old, was too busy at work to take care of her family's emotions and finally chose to divorce her husband, and is currently living alone with her 3-year-old daughter.
Because she has experienced the failure of a marriage, she no longer has too many expectations for love, and she naturally has some resistance to marriage in her heart.
At the strong urging of his parents, he decided to set off again and wanted to find happiness through the Lily platform.
Teacher Mo, a red lady, found a 32-year-old Mr. Liu who divorced due to a long-term separation due to work.
Originally, Mr. Liu did not agree to meet, he was worried that he could not get along with the other party's children, and he was also worried that the two sides would have some contradictions because of the children.
Teacher Mo saw Mr. Liu's concern, and based on her understanding of Ms. Yuan's personality, hobbies and living habits, she introduced her relevant situation to Mr. Liu in detail and analyzed the fit between them. This made Mr. Liu look forward to it and decided to meet.
Unexpectedly, after this meeting, Mr. Liu found that he and Ms. Yuan really had a lot of common topics, and many concepts were also the same. In the handling of the same thing, the way they chose was actually very similar, and there was a feeling of having a sharp mind in an instant. This made Mr. Liu trust The Red Lady Teacher Mo even more.
Ms. Yuan's feelings are a little different, she feels inferior, because she thinks of the academic gap, work and she has a 3-year-old child, and feels that she is far from being able to match Mr. Liu.
The day after the meeting, she politely declined Mr. Liu's invitation again through text messages. Unexpectedly, Mr. Liu is a persistent person, who will greet her every day, pay attention to her life, discuss some things about children with her, and put down his work to take care of her and her children when she is sick.
Mr. Liu's attitude is obvious, which makes Ms. Yuan feel a little wandering. The first failed marriage made her very cautious and cautious. When love comes, it will unconsciously retreat and dare not move forward.
Teacher Mo, the Red Lady, asked Ms. Yuan to meet after understanding their situation: "Loving this kind of thing is actually very mysterious, and no one in this world will be good to another person for no reason." If you are also moved, then nothing else will be an obstacle between you, you should bravely take that step and bravely pursue your own happiness. ”
After Teacher Mo's enlightenment, Ms. Yuan suddenly became enlightened, put aside some of her own concerns, took the initiative to make an appointment with Mr. Liu, and bravely walked towards him.
I once saw a saying that was written very well: "Life is the best teacher, let people grow slowly and become mature." Being able to learn lessons from the previous relationship, listen to your own heart, and firmly grasp the love you want is undoubtedly the right thing to do. Maybe life is like this, when you are brave, happiness comes! ”
Companionship is the longest confession of affection
The fragrance of the grass, the freshness of the wind, the barking of the dogs... She turned her face toward him, smiled sweetly, and looked into his eyes fixedly. "The years are quiet, and the world is stable!" This is Mr. Feng's first feeling for Miss Tang.
However, Miss Tang does not feel good, because Mr. Feng is a typical Taurus who is more pragmatic, while he is an Aquarius who is more idealistic. Originally, Miss Tang refused to meet this time, she liked to study the constellations and wanted to find an Aries who could understand and fully support herself and match her soul.
But before the red lady Teacher Mo introduced her to several Aries boys, they all felt that it was not very appropriate, after Teacher Mo's observation and analysis, she seemed to have been looking for the shadow of someone in the Aries boy, and happened not to find it.
Teacher Mo reminded her: "You now need to give yourself a chance and give others a chance." The constellation will have a certain truth, which can be used as a reference, but it is not possible to draw the ground as a prison to trap yourself and not let anyone get close. "This gives me the opportunity to meet two people now."
After getting along, Mr. Feng was also very careful to find that she did not eat coriander, lactose intolerance and other small details. Order her good takeaway when she works late overtime, worrying that she will forget to eat, and will cook porridge on the phone until she falls asleep when she is insomnia at night...
Because he has not been able to feel Miss Tang's feedback, Mr. Feng is a little discouraged, he found the red lady Teacher Mo for a long time, Teacher Mo enlightened him:
"Not everyone's personality is extroverted, not everyone is good at expressing, if you identify this person should be brave and can not give up easily." 」
There is a passage in "The Reader": "Companionship is very warm, it means that there are people in this world who are willing to give you the most beautiful thing, that is, time."
In the daily companionship, Miss Tang was touched by Mr. Feng's heart.
"It can't just be that he's been approaching me, he's taken 99 steps, and this last step is up to me to go to him!"
This is the confession of the bride to the groom at their wedding later, and it is also the words that the red bride Teacher Mo said to the bride.
Not all love should be vigorous, love should be reflected in the details of life, companionship is the longest confession of love, is the basis of happiness.
When you encounter setbacks on the road to finding love, you will gradually build a high wall in your heart, and you will not be able to walk out, and others will not be able to walk in. But sometimes things are not complicated, but should be handled simply.
Let go of some "obsessions" and happiness is within reach. I hope that everyone can cross the "wall" in their hearts and bravely pursue their own happiness.