One night, Venus was suddenly woken up by the anxious phone, a woman's cry came from the other end of the phone, it turned out that Venus's eldest sister had just married into South Korea, and was bullied by her mother-in-law, sister-in-law and sister-in-law.
Venus has two children at the edge of the family, and there is an older sister Jin Lanxiang, who is 3 years older than her, and the sister has been very doting on Venus since childhood. When Venus decided to have surgery, her sister was the first to stand up for her.
Venus when doing surgery. My sister was pregnant. Because I was in a hurry. I was born prematurely and gave birth to a son.
Venus has loved literature and art since childhood. But her sister studied very well. With excellent results, he also studied in the United States. During her study abroad, she met her true destiny.
But the other party is a Korean. At first, Jin Lanxiang was a little hesitant. She was afraid this man was too macho. Only to be with him did I find that men were quite gentle with him.
It didn't take long for the eldest sister to marry a man.
But she didn't think about it. The custom of Koreans is that newly married daughters-in-law need to live in their mother-in-law's house and serve their mother-in-law's life.
This habit of life is very different from that in China. Many newly married Korean daughters-in-law are regarded as inferior by their mothers-in-law.
My sister graduated from a famous american school, with an annual salary of millions, and she can make money. I earn more than my husband, so my mother-in-law is still not satisfied.
How can such a work sister give up? During that time, life was very hard, and I had to take care of my family and work and socialize.
Sometimes I go home drunk! The mother-in-law saw that the anger did not come out of nowhere. Every time it's a bad word.
Sometimes when you are busy at work, you naturally neglect the care of your mother-in-law and husband.
Venus's sister, who thought her husband could understand. But the husband is a great filial piety. Everything depends on the mother's thoughts.
The brother-in-law's father died early. At that time, the mother-in-law was still very young, did not remarry, and single-handedly raised three children to adulthood. So, even if the mother blames the wife. Venus's brother-in-law didn't want to meddle either.
But the eldest sister still goes her own way, and every time she socializes, she will go home late. It is useless for a mother-in-law to see a daughter-in-law scolding her daughter-in-law.
He began to recruit his daughter, the sister-in-law. Get together and teach the eldest sister together.
One day, my mother-in-law made a rule: the daughter-in-law who married into our family had to clean the house every morning to be eligible to eat.
Koreans have a habit of making kimchi. The eldest sister Jin Lanxiang does not do it. The mother-in-law is to force the eldest sister to learn to make kimchi and let her make a family amount for several months.
During that time, the eldest sister was busy socializing during the day and how to deal with her mother-in-law at night. She had done everything she could, but her mother-in-law was still not satisfied.
One weekend, when the eldest sister-in-law saw Jin Lanxiang, she began to talk about the wind and cool: a woman was outside. It is useless to make so much money, or to serve the mother-in-law and children at home. is the most correct choice. Then the whole family supported the sister-in-law's statement.
How could the eldest sister bear this kind of anger? I grew up spoiled by my parents.
But I can't stand the seven aunts and eight aunts blowing the wind in your ears every day. Finally, the eldest sister resigned her job under pressure.
But this is a resignation and has not been affirmed by the mother-in-law. The eldest sister has been at home longer, giving the mother-in-law more opportunities to find stubble.
Every day, the eldest sister got up very early and dragged all the land in the house. Excessive mother-in-law wearing white socks stepped on the floor. If the white socks are dirty, start scolding: you useless things, and then wash my socks.
Every day when my son came back from work, the first thing my mother-in-law did was to start suing my eldest sister. Say what she doesn't do, what she eats is not enough.
The eldest sister lived a life without dignity at home. She couldn't stand it any longer. Only to find Venus a spit for a quick.
The eldest sister said to Venus with tears: What do you say your sister should do?
After Venus heard what happened to the eldest sister, her fiery temper immediately came up. She asked a central question: Has your brother-in-law's attitude toward you changed?
The eldest sister said: There is no change, still like my first love. If it hadn't been for him being so nice to me, I would have been divorced a long time ago.
Venus blinked and thought for a moment, and told the eldest sister: If you follow the three tricks I gave you, I will ensure that you turn over.
Let's take a look at Venus and know which three moves.
Venus told the eldest sister that the first trick must be to move out of this home. The farther you move, the better, and it's best to keep your mother-in-law from going to your house.
But when the eldest sister told her husband about this idea. How could the Great Filial Son leave his mother's residence?
And the brother-in-law thought about it, if they didn't move out, their marriage would probably come to an end. So I agreed.
In order to move out as soon as possible. The eldest sister casually found a small house and moved over. After moving over, my heart was also much happier.
Trick 2. Venus learns that the eldest sister has quit her job and has no financial resources, and tells her to firmly hold her brother-in-law's salary card. No matter what happens in the future, you will have money in your own hands.
Trick 3. Venus tells her sister that you are now a housewife. Can work part-time as a real estate agent. Spend all your money investing in real estate. Then rent out the house and live on food and rent.
After these three moves, the eldest sister not only regained her freedom, but also had a better relationship with her brother-in-law. He also lived the life of a rich woman.
One bite to operate down. The mother-in-law finally affirmed the daughter-in-law. Attitudes also changed 180 degrees.
Through property investment and rent collection. The eldest sister quickly completed the accumulation of the family's assets. The brother-in-law didn't have to work so hard. Retired early.
The story of Venus and the eldest sister tells us. Even independent women become powerless in the face of family chores.
But to come up with a solution. A woman's greatest sense of security is family. The second greatest sense of security is the accumulation of material and wealth.
Sometimes women who make money will be more loved by men. In the end, there is a win-win situation
What good advice do you have for housewives who don't have income?
![Venus's eldest sister is married to a Korean, and her mother-in-law and sister-in-law have all kinds of difficulties, and wash their faces with tears every time they call[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)