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In 1995, the operating room of Xiangshan Hospital in Beijing was particularly quiet and solemn. Venus lay quietly on the snow-white operating table, her eyes closed, and her heart surging with an exciting tide.
Today, she will take a crucial step towards the dream she has been pursuing for years – to completely subvert her gender with this major surgery!
Going back in time, Venus looked back to the past moments that had been in the past, and looked at the tortuous and brilliant road he had walked, and couldn't help but feel emotional. Since childhood, she has had a passionate love for dance.
The spotless image of Venus in childhood is due to the hard work of his mother. It is the mother's perseverance and fearless courage that has forged Venus's unique and extraordinary quality of life.
At the age of four, Venus took to the stage for the first time, showcasing her innate talent for dance. Later, in the school's Korean literature and art propaganda team, her leisurely dancing has already made everyone fall in love.
Although there were 18 girls in the team, only Venus and another boy, who everyone affectionately called Venus "Little Daughter-in-law", did not bother about this, but waited with anticrisy for the teacher to apply her blush and make her more beautiful and moving.
As a teenager, Venus had a unique dream in her heart, longing to one day become a real girl after being struck by lightning. However, fate is always so cruel and dramatic, and no lightning bolt can change the fate of Venus, but she is married to a woman named Kemporin.
This contractual marriage opened a new chapter in Venus's life. Since then, Venus has embarked on a new peak in her artistic career. She not only became famous in the 1985 "Taoli Cup" dance competition, but also won the honor of being sent by the state to study modern dance in the United States, and won the "Best Choreography Award" at the American Dance Festival.
It was while studying in the United States that Venus met Kempolin and her boyfriend Eric, who were also studying dance here. In the early 1980s, Jin Xing went to the United States to further his modern dance studies as an outstanding dancer sent by the state.
During her time in New York, she met Kempolin, who was also studying dance in the United States, and her boyfriend Eric.
In view of the high housing prices and rents in New York, the three friends decided to let Venus and Kemporin enter the marriage hall hand in hand, so that Kemporin and her boyfriend could make full use of the spacious and comfortable home of Venus.
On the day of the wedding, to everyone's surprise, it was Kempolin's boyfriend Eric who presided over the overall situation. Venus has always had reservations about women, but Kempolen and Eric have infinite trust in her, believing that she will never do anything against them.
Soon after their marriage, Venus threw herself into touring the globe, and the chances of meeting Kempolin and Eric became scarce.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, it has been ten years of spring and autumn. Around 1995, Venus finally returned to her homeland after a long absence, and firmly decided to undergo gender reassignment surgery to achieve the perfect integration of her biological gender and inner identity.
After the successful completion of the operation, Venus ushered in a new chapter in her life.
However, at this moment, Kemporin suddenly revealed to Venus that she was pregnant and that the fetus did not originate from Venus's bloodline. It turned out that for many years, Kempolin had always maintained a deep love affair with Eric, and now she decided to build her own warm little home with him.
After learning the news, Venus immediately set off for the United States and quickly went through the divorce procedures with Kempolin. Kenporin is pregnant and marries the love of her heart, Eric, and begins a new life journey.
After the divorce, Venus never heard from them again, but years later, rumors spread that Kemporin was now living happily ever after.
On the day of the Qingming Festival in 1995, Jin Xing bravely lay on the white and flawless operating table of Xiangshan Hospital. Prior to the surgery, she had successfully passed a series of psychological tests designed by her doctors.
The test covered more than 1,000 questions, and Venus scored an astonishing 94 points, far exceeding the surgical standard of 80 points. Such an outstanding performance made the doctor say to her without hesitation: "Go ahead and be bold, we are confident that you will overcome all challenges." ”
Sex reassignment surgery is a long and painful process that can be a severe test of courage. Venus's surgery lasted 16 hours, which can be described as arduous.
The moment Venus wakes up from a coma after a difficult operation, the doctors cheer and excitedly announce to her that the operation is perfect and impeccable! However, there is always so much drama in life, and unfortunately, due to the serious mistake of the nurse, part of the nerve in Venus's left calf was compressed, resulting in the necrosis of the nerves in the entire calf and even the foot.
Although she will try to recover in the years to come, she may still not be able to get rid of her permanent disability, which is a heavy blow to any dancer who loves the art of dance.
In the face of such a cruel reality, Venus has shown extraordinary calmness and tenacity. She gritted her teeth and said in a firm tone: "As long as life remains, as long as there is hope to reshape this leg, no matter what the cost, I will go all out and never give up."
Over the next few months, Venus endured unimaginable pain and suffering. She went all out to rehab and finally revitalized the calf, which had been unconscious.
In just over four months after she was discharged from the hospital, she dragged her legs back to the stage, and in just three months, she once again stood on the scene of the famous modern dance repertoire, performing the classic "Red and Black".
Returning to the stage means that Venus must bravely face doubts and criticism from all walks of life. Although there are many people who express understanding and support, there are more voices of confusion and opposition.
Initially, Venus also tried to respond to these doubts with explanations and defenses, but over time, she gradually realized that this practice would not solve the problem.
After careful consideration, Venus made an important decision: she would first have to achieve excellence in her career and become a highly respected figure, and only then would society be able to gradually accept her uniqueness.
As it turned out, Venus made the right decision. On the stage of dance art, she continues to write her own glorious chapter. Her unique dancing skills and unparalleled choreographic talent have once again allowed her to reach new heights.
What's even more amazing is that Jin Xing has also successfully set foot in the field of variety shows, opening up a whole new world for himself.
TV screens bring new attention and glory to Venus, but they are also accompanied by more criticism and controversy. However, at the same time, Venus is gradually establishing its own unique personal style and has become a landscape that cannot be ignored.
She never sought to justify the peculiarities of her own experience, and the comments of others could not shake her calm and determined heart. Behind her elegant and deep temperament, what is hidden is her incomparable confidence in life and her indifferent calmness.
Whether on the stage or in front of the screen, her unique dancing and bold remarks are unmatched, and it is in this way that Venus has embarked on a unique life path of her own, and her straightforward and honest character traits have become her distinctive personality label.
Even in the face of setbacks, she was able to maintain that admirable pride and perseverance in self-confidence. Every step is a solid footprint, and Venus continues to climb to higher artistic peaks with her unremitting efforts and tenacious perseverance.
While her career is thriving, Venus's private life is full of twists and turns. After the divorce, she was lonely, and her heart was full of emptiness and loneliness. In order to give her life a new lease of life, Venus decided to adopt three adorable children.
With the children by her side, life on Venus is finally no longer a lonely journey. However, she was not satisfied, and deep down she still longed to find that soul mate who could connect with her soul and spend the rest of her life together.
In February 2004, as fate would have it, Venus met the German man, Hans, on a flight from Paris to Shanghai. The two fell in love at first sight and hated each other late. Just one year later, on February 1, 2005, Venus and Hans entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
However, Venus and Hans's marriage was not all smooth sailing. Less than a year later, due to the children's adoption certificates and household registration issues, they chose to go their separate ways and start a new life.
However, these difficulties have not stopped Venus from pursuing true love. After properly settling the children's affairs, Venus and Hans entered into marriage again on August 18, 2018, and the two reconciled.
Today, Venus has a warm and harmonious family, and the company of her husband and three children makes her life full of happiness. She lives the life she has longed for, and Kempolin has long since left her world to start a new happy life.