Late at night, Jin Lanxiang dialed Venus's phone and cried bitterly: Sister, my Korean mother-in-law, sister-in-law, aunt joined hands to put on small shoes for me, this day can not pass...
Venus listened, gritted his teeth in anger, and said: Sister, I will give you three moves, and you will do it to ensure that you can turn over. Not to mention, these three tricks are really spiritual, and now my sister has become the head of the family. Venus and Jin Lanxiang are sisters, and Jin Lanxiang came to the United States after graduating from high school and worked as an executive in a group company with an annual income of millions.
Later, she met a Korean boy in the United States, the two knew and loved each other until they got married, after marriage, according to korean customs, Kim Lan-hsiung and her mother-in-law and other people lived together. In South Korea, the status of women is not high, even if Kim Lanxiang is a high-level intellectual, as well as a white-collar worker who earns millions of dollars, her mother-in-law still does not want to see her. Korean mother-in-law thought tradition, over time, stunned is to turn the Mall kim Lan Xiang into a little woman at home, she works during the day, does housework at night, and is too busy to cope. Sometimes Jin Lanxiang catches up with the socializing, and when she comes back late in the evening, the mother-in-law will split her head and cover her face for a few times. In this case, Jin Lanxiang's burden can be imagined, and complaining to her husband is useless. Jin Lanxiang's husband is a big filial piety, the mother-in-law was widowed when she was young, and she suffered a lot, so when the son grew up, he tried to follow his mother as much as possible and could not bear to rebel. Therefore, the Korean mother-in-law has no fear of Kim Lan Xiang and looks for stubble every day.
Later, the mother-in-law also joined forces with Jin Lanxiang's sister-in-law, aunt, and aunt to exert pressure, and several women educated her as soon as they saw Jin Lanxiang. The mother-in-law stipulates that after getting up in the morning, she must clean the house spotlessly, then cook, and finally go to work. When she returned in the evening, Jin Lanxiang had to wash clothes, mop the floor, and wipe the table before she could eat. After Jin Lanxiang finished mopping the floor, the mother-in-law walked around on the floor wearing a pair of white socks, and if there was dust on the white socks, she asked Jin Lanxiang to mop the floor again. Every New Year's Festival, her mother-in-law also asked Kim Lan Xiang to make a jar of kimchi, she said: This is our Korean habit, you must follow the customs. Just imagine, a strong woman in the business world works overtime during the day and pickles at night, which is really a bit difficult for a strong person.
Finally, the mother-in-law asked Jin Lanxiang to quit her job and teach her husband and children at home... Jin Lanxiang couldn't imagine that she, a high-level white-collar worker and highly educated intellectual woman, was actually looked down upon by a person who had not graduated from junior high school. In a fit of rage, she actually quit her job and became a full-time wife. Unexpectedly, this move did not win the favor of the mother-in-law, the family intensified, Jin Lanxiang really couldn't stand it, and dialed his sister Venus's phone. Jin Lanxiang cried bitterly on the phone, and the more Venus listened, the more angry she became, and she asked: Sister, what does my brother-in-law do to you? Jin Lanxiang said: She is very good to me, if it were not for his sake, I would have divorced a long time ago, and I really can't live this day. Venus heard this, which calmed down and said: Sister, you don't have to divorce, I teach you three tricks, as long as you do it, guarantee to turn over and be the master:
First, you and your brother-in-law move out to live, only when you leave the land of right and wrong, not under the eyes of your mother-in-law, will you have a clean day.
Second, find a way to grasp the family's economic lifeline, can not share your savings with your family, in addition, you also have to manage your brother-in-law's salary.
Third, you can't be a full-time wife, you have to have your own career, it's not realistic to go back to work, you have to learn to invest.
These three methods are simple to say, but it is not easy to put into practice, and Jin Lanxiang still complied with it for the sake of later life.
First of all, Jin Lanxiang persuaded her husband, and then let her husband and her mother-in-law discuss, and after more than a month of negotiations, she finally moved out. Although the new house she rented was not large, Jin Lanxiang lived with her husband and felt the ease she had never felt after marriage. It is relatively simple to control the family's economic power, because in South Korea, many men's wages are directly paid to their wives' accounts, and Kim Lanxiang only needs to withdraw his pay card. The third trick is the most ruthless and crucial step, that is, to invest in financial management and grasp the economic initiative. At the suggestion of Venus, Jin Lanxiang invested all her savings for many years in the real estate project, bought three apartments, and then renovated the house into an apartment and transformed into a charter wife. A year later, Jin Lanxiang became a small rich woman, drinking tea and enjoying flowers at home every day, and collecting rent at the end of the month.
Later, Jin Lanxiang's husband simply quit his job and lived a comfortable life at home without worry. Looking at Jin Lanxiang's mother-in-law, her attitude immediately took a 180-degree turn, and she came to Jin Lanxiang's home every day and took the initiative to take on the work of cooking. And those seven aunts and eight aunts, where they still dare to re-educate Jin Lanxiang, it is too late for her to be told. Some time ago, when chasing the drama "The First Half of My Life", there was a line that made people impressed, and who said it was already unclear: "Love is easy to pass away, marriage is fragile, so I work day and night, pursuing material and spiritual independence." The secret of Jin Lanxiang's turnaround lies in the word "independence".
In the adult world, the sense of security is never given by others, but comes from yourself, may you get used to the cruelty of reality as soon as possible, be your own master, and live as the envy of others.
