Married life is originally a thing that makes everyone yearn for, because everyone hopes to get a happy married life in their own life, with a happy married life, a person's life is perfect, and they can live in happiness in the second half of their lives.
However, a happy married life is not available to everyone, because in today's complex social conditions, marriage is not simply a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, especially in the case of more brothers and sisters, this problem is particularly complicated.
In today's society, many families have multiple children, under the conditions of the species, it has promoted such a phenomenon, that is, "brother support demon", which means that even if a woman marries out, her mind is still in the original home, using her husband's money to satisfy her brother.
The brother-in-law is getting married
Zhao Hai is now almost thirty years old, and has been married for four or five years, when Zhao Hai was still the current wife Li Mei, who met through blind dates, the two people were relatively tight at home at that time, so the two people soon got married.
Li Mei also has a younger brother Li Yong, three years younger than Li Mei, and now he is twenty-six, originally Zhao Hai knew that there was a brother-in-law when he got married, but he did not think so much, because it is normal for a family to have younger brothers and sisters and the like, but when he got married, Zhao Hai knew that his wife was a "brother-in-law demon".
Li Mei's family is more traditional, has always been a son preference, plus Li Yong is still the youngest child in the family, so Li Mei has been indoctrinated from a young age to think well about her brother.
After Li Mei got married, Li Yong also did not work well, all day idle, not enough money to ask his parents to want, or ask Li Mei to ask, Li Mei of course to give, once to give several thousand, even if Zhao Hai's heart is uncomfortable, did not think about this matter, after all, this kind of thing is not big, said small is not small, not how to make trouble, he himself thinks, after the brother-in-law is married, it will be good, now let's bear with it.
So this led to this phenomenon, Li Yong is now twenty-six years old, not good at school, unstable in work, has not been a suitable marriage partner, and finally Zhao Haituo's friends found a good job for his brother-in-law.
It is precisely because of this job that Li Yong recently talked about a girlfriend, which Li Mei's family is very concerned about, thinking that it is best to be able to get married.
With the joint efforts of the two families, the appointment of relatives was soon put on the line, but it was precisely because of this marriage of the brother-in-law that all zhao hai's fantasies and his own marriage were ruined.
Ask your sister for a room
On this day, the two families were discussing the matter of marriage again, and the other's mother spoke: "The matter of the bride price is good to discuss, but after all, two people must have a place to live in the future, so the house is a must, and now the young people want to live with their parents, so they want to buy a marriage house, the loan does not matter, let them pay back the two families together, and you can see it." “
Li Mei's mother quickly said: "Of course, this is what we should do, you can rest assured, turn around and get married, the little two can live in a new house." ”
In this way, the two families discussed almost the same, the other family left satisfied, and when they went far, Li Mei's mother said sadly: "Old man, you said, where do we go to get a marriage room for us, the family does not have so much money." ”
For a while, Li Mei's father was also worried, and at this time Li Yong spoke: "This is not simple, ask my sister to ask, my brother-in-law is not very rich, at that time when my sister married in the past, we did not want a room, and now it is also appropriate to supplement us." ”
Li Mei's mother clapped her hands: "Yes, tomorrow I will call your sister and brother-in-law to talk about this matter." ”
The next day, Li Mei's mother made a table of good dishes, called Li Mei and Zhao Hai to the house, and when they got home, Li Mei saw a table of good dishes and said, "Oh, Mom, is there any happy event, how to make so many good things." ”
Mother said, "It's not that you're coming back, you haven't come back once for a long time, and you can't make more delicious food for you." ”
However, Zhao Hai had a bad premonition in his heart, and the truth was the same, when eating, his mother-in-law spoke: "Your brother is about to get married, that is, the other party asks for a marriage room." ”
Zhao Hai guessed about it, but continued to pretend not to know and said, "Very good, today's young people don't like to live with their parents, and the younger two live freely by themselves." ”
The mother-in-law also said: "But the situation at home is not very good now, and it is a little insufficient to buy a house." Zhao Hai immediately took over the stubble, in order not to let his wife open his mouth: "It doesn't matter, now there are a few people who can buy a house, the loan is ok, I have friends in the bank, turn around and introduce it to Xiao Yong." ”
At this time, Li Yong was anxious, and directly said: "Oh, I don't even have the money for the down payment, sister, you send me a marriage room directly, pay the down payment on the line, I will pay after I get married, or I will not be able to get married again." ”
Be at the end of one's forbearance
At this point, Li Mei finally interjected and said: "Okay, how much money do you need to pay the down payment, come back to you." Li Yong was late, Li Mei agreed, he could only helplessly say: "Wife, the current house is very expensive, even if you only pay the down payment, there must be three or four hundred thousand." ”
Li Mei said very usually: "It doesn't matter, our savings are not more than three hundred thousand, if it is not enough, go to borrow friends' good, this is my brother's closest to marriage, this time I don't know when it will be when I will turn back." ”
Li Yong also followed up with the helper and said, "Yes, when my sister was in the middle of the year, she didn't ask you for a house, now it's time to make up for it." ”
Zhao Hai looked at the wife of the "Fu Di Devil" and this brother-in-law with a dead face, and said wordlessly: "Why ask me for a house, they ask you to have a house for you to live with them, and it is not for them, what I say is the same as what I owe your family, these hundreds of thousands of dollars are also what I have worked hard to save for several years, how to say that I will send you, it is impossible, absolutely impossible." ”
At this time, the mother-in-law also spoke: "Uncle, since you have said so, I will tell you clearly, I will ask you whether you agree, if you do not agree, daughter, we divorce." The mother-in-law looked at her daughter.
Zhao Haiqi also came up to his wife and asked, "You said, whose side are you on in this matter?" Li Mei said: "Or give it to my brother, after all, it is not easy to get married, we will earn it later." ”
Zhao Hai was shaken by this "brother demon" wife and said, "Okay, I can see through it, your family has come to blackmail me, my money is not money, divorce, the marriage room cannot send you." ”
My mother-in-law said, "Okay, divorce is divorce, don't regret it." Li Mei did not speak either, but acknowledged what her mother said. Zhao Hai immediately left, and then divorced the next day.
Li Mei divorced, but the matter of the marriage room is still not resolved, Li Yong's marriage has also blown, at this time Li Mei and her brother are single, this time the mother reacted, she is losing the wife and folding soldiers, every day looking at the two children in the family, there is only regret in her heart.
Brothers and sisters have been together since childhood, even if they have been married and started a family, they also have deep feelings for each other, and in daily life, those who can help will certainly not hesitate to help.
However, he is also a person with a family, what busyness is a certain scale, absolutely can not do beyond their own ability to do things, to fully consider the conditions of their own family, in the premise of not harming their own family to give each other enough help.
Must not be like Li Mei, become a "brother-in-law demon" without his own thoughts, do not consider the actual situation of his own family, do not care about his husband's ideas, all the requirements of his brother are agreed, with his husband's efforts for more than ten years to meet his brother's requirements, so, not unexpectedly, the final result is that the husband can't stand it and proposes a divorce.
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What will you do when you meet the wife of the "Brother Demon"?
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