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In our married life, we often hear the statement that the door is right, in fact, such a statement is very applicable in marriage. Because only when the family conditions of two people are basically on a horizontal line, then two people can better enter the marriage, and before or after marriage, they will avoid a lot of contradictions.
If the family conditions of two people are too different, then it is inevitable that when they get married, the poor party will have some desire for money, and these desires will be reflected in the bride price they ask for or the dowry they ask for. But such an approach will also make the other party resentful, and even lose hope for the marriage of two people, thus destroying the marriage of two people.
In fact, if two people with too different family conditions are together, there will be no good results. Because if the economic conditions of the two families are too different, then the two people's thinking must also be different. Therefore, this will make the married life of two people unable to last. Therefore, if in life, you find that the gap between your family and your other half is too large, then you must carefully consider the things between two people.
Recently, in life, because of the insatiable greed of the mother-in-law, Hu Yaxin broke up with her boyfriend on the eve of marriage.
Love with a family gap that is too large
Hu Yaxin's family conditions are very good, because her parents have their own companies, so Hu Yaxin has been very generous in money since she was a child. Because Hu Yaxin is the only daughter in the family, her parents do not have too many restrictions on her in terms of spending money.
Therefore, Hu Yaxin has lived a princess-like life since she was a child, and because Hu Yaxin's family conditions are really too good, so Hu Yaxin's side often appears a lot of hypocritical friends, they do not really want to be friends with Hu Yaxin, but simply because of Hu Yaxin's family conditions and choose to approach her.
But although Hu Yaxin has many so-called friends and suitors around him, Hu Yaxin knows that they all choose to pursue themselves because of their family conditions, or to be friends with themselves. So she didn't want to pick one of them as her boyfriend. So she has never been in love.
Later, after going to college, Hu Yaxin found a very different person in the school. Even after knowing her family conditions, she did not show any interest in herself, which made her feel very new, so she began to pay attention to the boy.
The boy Hu Yaxin said was named Dong Guowang. He was born into a poor family, and going to college was the beginning of his change of fortune, so he wasn't interested in anything other than studying. But this also made Hu Yaxin have a strong interest in him, so after Hu Yaxin and Dong Guowang met for a while, they began to pursue him.
Although Dong Guowang chose to refuse at the beginning because of the family gap between the two people, Hu Yaxin did not choose to give up, so under her unremitting pursuit, the two people also began to fall in love.
Ready to get married after graduation
After Dong Guowang and Hu Yaxin graduated, Hu Yaxin first proposed marriage to Dong Guowang. But Dong Guowang felt that the family conditions of the two people were too different after all, even if the two people wanted to get married, Hu Yaxin's parents would not agree to marry their daughter to themselves. Therefore, he felt that he should first ask Hu Yaxin for the opinions of Hu Yaxin's parents, and then decide whether the two people should get married or not.
I didn't expect that after Dong Guowang met Hu Yaxin's parents, he didn't have the kind of difficulties he had imagined. Because Although Hu Yaxin's parents are very rich, they feel that their son-in-law's character is the most important, and the money aspect is not important, because they can provide them with financial assistance, so they have not objected to the marriage of the two people.
Therefore, after obtaining the consent of Hu Yaxin's parents, the marriage of the two people was also put on the agenda. Before getting married, the meeting between the parents of both sides is an indispensable link, so Dong Guowang also quickly intervened in his parents from the countryside. After Dong Guowang's parents knew that their daughter-in-law's family conditions were very superior, they were also very happy and very satisfied with this daughter-in-law.
After Dong Guowang's parents came, the parents of the two families also met quickly. Hu Yaxin's parents, knowing that Dong Guowang's family conditions were not good, also offered to marry a house and a car for their daughter.
Because Dong Guowang is the eldest in the family, and below him, there are two younger sisters and three younger brothers, because the younger brothers and sisters did not go to school, so they also got married early, so Dong Guowang's family is now 13 people. And after they learned that Dong Guowang had found a rich girlfriend, they all thought that they could come to the city to share a piece of the pie.
The request of the mother-in-law
After Hu Yaxin's parents said they wanted to marry their daughter to a suite, Dong Guowang's brothers and sisters were very envious of him. Because they have always lived in the countryside, they also want to go to the city to see, and soon they and Dong Guowang proposed the idea of asking his in-laws to marry a few more houses.
Because Dong Guowang has always wanted to change the conditions of his family, he did not object after his brothers and sisters put forward this idea, so Dong Guowang's mother made a request to her daughter-in-law before the two people got married.
Dong Guowang's mother quickly said to her daughter-in-law, "Daughter-in-law, add two more sets of dowry rooms, and all 13 members of our family can go to the city to enjoy happiness." Hu Yaxin was shocked to hear her mother-in-law's request, and when she saw dong Guowang indifferent, she also understood that Dong Guowang acquiesced to her mother's request, which made her reconsider the marriage between the two people, but she did not show it on the surface, but replied lightly "yes".
However, when Dong Guowang acquiesced to this request made by his mother, Hu Yaxin was already completely disappointed in him. So the next day, he directly told Dong Guowang his thoughts and canceled the marriage between the two people. Such an approach not only made Dong Guowang's mother not think of it, but also made Dong Guowang feel very surprised. But Hu Yaxin had already decided that she did not want to be with someone who was just coveting her family conditions, so she left Dong Guowang very resolutely. So in the end, Dong Guowang's family got nothing.
In life, we can often see that because in the marriage life, the family conditions of two people are too different, so many people will make a lot of excessive demands because they covet each other's family conditions. However, such a practice study completely violates the original intention of two people to be together because of love. So once the feelings of two people have deteriorated, then there is no need to continue.
Because many people in life have grown up in a very poor family environment, their desire for money is very strong. So both as they are and as their parents, they are very eager to find a rich daughter-in-law to change their lives.
But maybe they will behave very obediently before they find the rich other half, but when they find the other half, they will be exposed. So before two people get married, they will make a lot of unreasonable demands on their rich other half. And it's not just them, but even their families. But such love has completely deteriorated.
We often see in life that some people will choose to be with a rich other in order to change their family conditions. At this time, they have completely abandoned their feelings. What they want is exactly the other half, the money and wealth they bring. However, such a relationship is not only unfair to your other half, it is also completely unfair to yourself, and in such a relationship, the marriage of two people is difficult to maintain. Therefore, when we choose the other half, we must think carefully and not blind our eyes because of money, otherwise, we will not be happy in the end.
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In life, have you ever met such an insatiable mother-in-law?
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