Parents prefer sons to daughters, turning their daughters into a brother-in-law demon, this is simply terrible, because their family's ideological concepts are distorted, parents are willing to pay for their sons, daughters are willing to pay for their brothers, such payment is unequal, when a man wants to integrate into such a family, with such a family, it is difficult.
When the girl becomes a brother demon, she only knows to listen to her parents, to pay for her brother, she does not mind being a cash machine for her parents and brother, and after marrying her husband, her husband will become the cash machine of their family, so a man who wants to integrate into such a family needs to rely on money to open up this road for him, but in fact, he has paid a lot for his wife, for his wife's family, and may not be able to become their family.
When a man finds that he is just a cash machine for his wife and her family, he will become discouraged and unwilling to give so stupidly, not only does his wife's family not regard him as a family, even the wife does not care about his feelings, so he is not willing to continue to maintain such a marriage.
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The ex-wife was a brother-in-law demon
Not long ago, Li Tao just ended his marriage, to tell the truth, he still loves his ex-wife, but he just can't stand the troubles of her mother's family, and his ex-wife is a brother-in-law demon, for so many years, he has solved too many troubles for her mother's family for his wife, he is really tired.
Li Tao and his ex-wife met at a cocktail party, when the cocktail party was very important to Li Tao, deciding whether he could get a big order for the next quarter, and the ex-wife went to that cocktail party for the project, to be honest, Li Tao was not good at socializing, so he felt very restrained when he arrived at the cocktail party, while his ex-wife was in such an occasion.
The ex-wife stayed at the cocktail party site for more than an hour, and hurriedly left, Li Tao imagined that she was such a enterprising woman, should stay until the end, and Li Tao also reached a consensus with the partners, the order was in hand, so he also planned to leave, and when he went out, the two people bumped into each other.
Out of gentlemanly demeanor, Li Tao first apologized, the ex-wife did not care about this matter, she seemed to be very busy, rushing to do something, but there was no taxi, Li Tao offered to send her to the place she wanted to go, the ex-wife said to go to a large shopping mall, she was going to buy basketball shoes for her brother.
Li Tao asked why do you have to buy shoes at night? The ex-wife said she received a call from her brother, whose basketball shoes were broken, and that there was a basketball game tomorrow, so she had to buy them.
At that time, Li Tao was very fond of his ex-wife, he did not expect that his ex-wife was so good to his family, and after sending his ex-wife to the large shopping mall where she was going, Li Tao also asked for a phone number from his ex-wife.
Li Tao had never been in love before, met his ex-wife by chance, and had a good feeling for his ex-wife in his heart, so he began to actively pursue his ex-wife.
And the ex-wife said that she can't put too much energy into love, she needs to earn money to support the family, so in her life, the family is the most important, the second important thing is work, Li Tao said, this is nothing, the two people get along comfortably on the line, at that time Li Tao did not realize that the ex-wife is a brother-in-law demon.
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Confused about the behavior of the mother-in-law and brother-in-law
Li Tao talked about love with his ex-wife for more than a year, and his ex-wife agreed to take Li Tao home to meet his parents, and the first time he went to his ex-wife's home, Li Tao was startled.
Li Tao thought that his ex-wife's brother was still in junior high school or high school, but he did not expect that he was about to graduate from college, and now which college student would not shop online? How could he call his sister in the middle of the night and ask her to buy basketball shoes for herself?
In the process of eating, the mother-in-law is the whole time to the brother-in-law to pick vegetables, the dinner table is placed on the meat dish, the mother-in-law said that the brother-in-law only loves to eat meat, do not love to eat vegetables, watching the brother-in-law put a piece of fat meat into the mouth, Li Tao can not eat the meal, and the brother-in-law's weight is also terrible, one meter seven height, almost more than 200 pounds.
In the process of eating, the mother-in-law said to the brother-in-law, "Son, you eat slowly, don't worry, these are all yours, if not enough, your mother will make it for you, you will rest for a while when you are tired, but don't be tired!" ”
Li Tao first heard that eating can still be tired, that meal was very embarrassing, After Li Tao and his ex-wife came out of his mother-in-law's house, his mother-in-law chased him out and let his ex-wife buy ten pounds of pork when he came back, saying that the family was almost out of meat, and the brother-in-law could not do without meat.
Li Tao originally wanted to send his ex-wife to the company, but unexpectedly, his ex-wife asked Li Tao to send her to the farmer's market, saying that she was going to buy pork, and his ex-wife went to the farmer's market to buy more than a dozen pounds of pork, Li Tao thought to himself, always can't take these pork to work, the ex-wife said she had to send the meat home first.
Although he was confused about the behavior of his mother-in-law and brother-in-law, Li Tao really loved his ex-wife at that time, so he proposed to his ex-wife, and his ex-wife also agreed, and when he got married, he gave his ex-wife a dowry of 200,000 yuan, and the ex-wife did not keep a penny, and gave all the money to his mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law used the money to buy a car for his brother-in-law.
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Used as a cash machine by his ex-wife's family
After marrying his ex-wife, as soon as his mother-in-law's family had an affair, Li Tao rushed over to help, he simply became a long-term worker in his ex-wife's family, sometimes it was just a small matter of changing the light bulb, the brother-in-law could also change, but the mother-in-law was reluctant to call her son, callEd Li Tao, let Li Tao go to the house to change the light bulb for her, Li Tao had to drive to her mother-in-law's house to help her change the light bulb.
The brother-in-law is fat, the clothes can not be worn for a long time, and the clothes he wears must be brand-name, and even buy limited edition sportswear, these expenses ex-wife are all wrapped up, every month in the brother-in-law to spend seven or eight thousand, the ex-wife is willing to spend money on the brother-in-law, Li Tao can say more?
One day, Li Tao was at work, his mother-in-law suddenly called him, saying that he was hospitalized, let Li Tao go to see her, Li Tao thought that he had to take money again, these years, as soon as his mother-in-law fell ill, he gave money to let his mother-in-law buy some nutritional products by herself.
Mother-in-law Li Tao gave 20,000 nutrition fees, but the next day he brushed the circle of friends sent by his brother-in-law, and the brother-in-law took a photo, there were 20,000 yuan in the photo, he said how to spend this money? Buy clothes or shoes?
Li Tao is not unaware, every time his mother-in-law is sick, he gives his mother-in-law's nutrition fees, his mother-in-law gives his brother-in-law, let the brother-in-law use it as pocket money, obviously those money are all saved by his own hard work, he is not willing to spend, but the mother-in-law gave it to the brother-in-law without saying a word, for the brother-in-law, that little money is nothing at all, it does not take long, he will spend it.
Li Tao is really unwilling to continue to maintain this marriage, for so many years, he feels that he has not integrated into his ex-wife's family at all, and his ex-wife, mother-in-law and brother-in-law do not treat him as a family member at all, and his ex-wife is willing to be a brother-in-law demon, she will be herself, Li Tao does not want to be regarded as a fool anymore.
After brushing the circle of friends of his brother-in-law, Li Tao ended his 7-year marriage, he was unwilling to go to the cash machine of his wife's family, and he wanted to live a normal family life.
Parents prefer sons to daughters, it is unfair to the daughter, but it will also harm the son, long-term doting on the son, will only make the son become a tumor in society, he has not experienced a little wind and rain, there is no ability to withstand pressure and setbacks, only know to seek the protection of parents, seek the help of brothers and sisters, which is very unfavorable to a man.
Girls should be grateful for the parenting grace of their parents, but they still have to love themselves a little more, of course, you must repay the parenting grace of your parents, and you should also help your brothers and sisters, but the premise is that your own life cannot be too affected, and you cannot let your partner be dissatisfied with your mother's family.
As a brother-in-law demon girl, her heart is most worried about her parents and brother, it is precisely because of these concerns, she can't help but refuse the requirements of her parents and brothers, and she can't afford to take care of her own life and her partner's feelings first, but everyone has concerns in their hearts, these worries should become our strength, not become our stumbling blocks, live their own lives well, and have the ability to help their relatives.