There are too many parents in this world who do not know the height of the sky, do not know the weight of the weight, ruin the happiness of their children and do not know themselves, and even want to occupy other people's things, such people are not only selfish, but also unreasonable, we must deal with such people less, let alone become a family with such people.
When peasant parents cultivate an excellent son, their son can be called a phoenix man, in fact, the son is just getting rid of the original poor life, living stronger than before, but the parents feel that their son is better than anyone, better than anyone, they are proud to have such a son, such parents do not know how to be modest, do not know how to be low-key, but also do not recognize themselves, what they do will harm their sons.
When the phoenix man got married, most of their parents were reluctant to give the woman a bride price, and even wanted to strangle the woman to death, let the woman obey the arrangement of her own family, and even wanted to occupy the woman's dowry, but in the end she was punished.
01.
The girlfriend was pregnant before marriage
Xiao Gang is a phoenix man, he is the only man in the family, his parents have high expectations for him, Xiao Gang was admitted to college, the day he left his rural hometown to go to school in the city, his parents said that the family would count on him in the future.
After Xiao Gang went to college, he worked very hard in his studies and gained a lot in terms of feelings, and he fell in love with an only child, and the two decided to get married as soon as they graduated, because his girlfriend's parents had money and connections, and they could definitely help him.
In the senior year, Xiao Gang and his girlfriend went out for an internship together, they rented a house outside the school, began to live together, shortly before graduation, the girlfriend found out that she was pregnant, the girlfriend who learned the news was very panicked, but Xiao Gang said that they were about to graduate, as soon as they graduated, they went to get a marriage license, do a wedding, and give birth to the child in a bright and honest manner.
The girlfriend's parents were very angry after learning about this matter, but the matter has come to this point, and they can only start to organize the wedding, and the girlfriend's parents bought a house early as a dowry for the girlfriend, so the two of them are not married, and they live in the girlfriend's dowry room.
When his parents learned that Xiao Gang was going to get married, they were a little surprised, and when they heard that his girlfriend was pregnant, they were very happy, saying that the bride price money was also saved, and they also got a house in vain.
Xiao Gang's parents immediately rushed from the countryside to the city, saying that they were helping them to organize the wedding, but in fact, they wanted to occupy the dowry house of their daughter-in-law.
After Xiao Gang's parents and his girlfriend's parents met, they said that they were both in love, the girlfriend's belly was already pregnant with a child, and it was necessary to do the wedding as soon as possible.
The girlfriend's parents disagreed, saying that they only had this one daughter, the wedding could not be from Jane, the bride price must also be given, the wedding was run by their family, and Xiao Gang asked for a 200,000 bride price.
Xiao Gang's parents were anxious as soon as they heard it, saying that if the girlfriend insisted on a 200,000 dowry, then the marriage would be exempt from discussion, and their family could not get it out.
02.
The mother wants to take over her girlfriend's dowry room
The girlfriend's parents were very angry, so they directly brought the girlfriend home, said about marriage, and talked about it later, Xiao Gang's parents thought to themselves, the woman is not in a hurry, they don't need to be in a hurry.
After returning home, Xiao Gang asked his parents why they said that, the two people have decided to get married, can not come up with such a colorful gift, can discuss it again, there is no need to talk so dead, the mother said to Xiao Gang, "She is pregnant, can she still run?" You have to calm down, it is they who should be anxious. ”
The girlfriend went back to her parents' house, Xiao Gang took her parents to live in the girlfriend's dowry room, Xiao Gang's mother thought, if the woman is willing to get married without a bride price, then they will happily do the wedding, if the woman does not agree, do not want to get married, then this dowry room also do not want.
After more than a month, his girlfriend took the initiative to call Xiao Gang and asked him how to deal with this matter? Drag on, the stomach will be bigger, Xiao Gang said he was willing to give a bride price, but could not take out 200,000, the girlfriend asked him how much he could take out, Xiao Gang said that he would find a way to make up 100,000 yuan, but did not expect that the conversation between the two of them was overheard by his mother.
The mother rushed in and grabbed the phone and said to the girlfriend over there, "I tell you, our family does not pay a penny of dowry, you are willing to marry, if you do not want to marry, do not marry, and you do not want to marry, your dowry room, is my son's, even if it is to make up for my son's loss." ”
Listening to what her mother said, her girlfriend was very angry and quarreled with her mother on the phone, and her girlfriend said to her mother, "What qualifications do you have to say such a thing?" Who doesn't give a bride price when they marry a daughter-in-law? And that's my dowry room, if I marry your son, your son can live in that suite, if I don't want to marry your son, you have to move out, what is your son's loss? Why should I make up for his loss? ”
Xiao Gang hurriedly grabbed the phone, and then hung up the phone, he was afraid that if his mother continued to talk, the marriage would be completely yellow.
03.
Retribution
The mother said to Xiao Gang, "I haven't finished speaking yet, why did you hang up the phone?" What are you afraid of, she is pregnant with a child in her belly, she will certainly not be able to run, we will have to strangle her to death now, and after marriage, she will be at the mercy of our mothers and mothers. ”
"Mom, we're not doing it right, you don't have to say it again, if you say it again, my wife is gone, my children are gone, and the house is gone."
"Do you have anything to worry about, if she doesn't want to marry you, don't marry, but this house, mom will definitely grab it for you, we live here, see what she can do with us?"
Xiao Gang's mother occupied the dowry room of her daughter-in-law and was punished.
A few days later, the girlfriend's family came to the dowry room, saying that it was to solve the problem, the mother thought that they promised not to get married without a bride price, but unexpectedly, the girlfriend said that she had knocked off the child in her belly, and the marriage was canceled, so that xiaogang's family moved out of her dowry room.
Listening to what his girlfriend said, Xiao Gang was stunned, the child was beaten off, and the marriage was canceled, how is this good? The mother said to her girlfriend, "Why did you beat up the child without the consent of our family, you are too irresponsible, OK, if you don't want to marry, don't marry, our family is not rare for you to marry in, but you don't want this house, you have to make up for my son's loss." ”
The girlfriend's mother smiled and said, "Your son has no loss, but my daughter has been beaten because of this, the loss is big, this house is my dowry for my daughter, since they are not married, you are not eligible to live here, within three days to move me out, otherwise I will call the police." ”
Listening to what his girlfriend's mother said, Xiao Gang's mother was stunned, and after the girlfriend's family left, the mother said to Xiao Gang, "Son, don't be afraid, they don't dare to call the police, besides, how can the police take care of this kind of thing?" ”
"Mom, don't you say it, pack up your things, let's move out quickly, this house is not our name on the property certificate, we live here is not appropriate, you don't have to make trouble, my marriage is yellow, what else are you making trouble?" Stop hurting me. ”
The next day, Xiao Gang's family moved out.
As a phoenix man, it is indeed not easy to go from a poor small mountain village to a big city, although his achievements may not be as good as those of his peers in the city, but it is not easy to achieve these achievements of his, people should not be prejudiced against the phoenix man, and as a phoenix man, they should not be complacent because of a little achievement, they can't recognize themselves, and their parents should not become blind.
For girlfriends who have been in love for many years and are unmarried and pregnant, phoenix men should know how to respect their girlfriends, and phoenix men's parents should also prepare what they need to get married as soon as possible, so that the two of them can get married as soon as possible, and they cannot force women to agree to some unreasonable requests because the woman is pregnant, and even unwilling to give a bride price, which is not advisable.
The phoenix man's parents feel that their son is very good, but in fact, the woman is also very good, more than enough for your son, but it is because they do not know that the sky is high and there is no one in sight, resulting in the woman's discouragement of this relationship, thus ruining the son's marriage, the family has been punished, really deserved.