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There are always people in this world who can interpret the word selfishness to the fullest. There is no feeling between husband and wife, rather than embarrassing each other, it is better to get together and disperse, after all, there was once a relationship, the most beautiful word in the world is only encounter, but there are always some people who make us regret knowing them.
In this world, it is a combination of points and unions, even a couple can not go to the end, but life is varied, some couples can get along calmly even after the divorce and then meet, just like facing an ordinary friend, and some couples are eager to directly tear each other apart when they meet again, and even feel that the most wrong decision they have made in this life is to marry this man, a day husband and wife Hundred Days, there are always some people who even have to exhaust such a little love.
The attitude of feelings between men and women is not the same, women tend to be more delicate, but rough does not mean perfunctory, there is no heart can be intuitively felt, there is no thing in this world is reasonable, because they are in a weak others have to let themselves, there is no such reason, the same is true between husband and wife, things should be rational and objective, rather than earning a weak I am reasonable.
He Qing's husband Wang Yi is the kind of phoenix man that other people say, He Qing feels that if you use a word to describe your husband, it is not atmospheric, because the living habits and living conditions from childhood determine his limitations in this regard, even after his career is successful, he will still give people this feeling, but what makes It difficult for He Qing to accept is that her husband actually has machismo, and the woman who opens her mouth and closes her mouth is that the woman should stay at home and teach her son, and the two people who do not agree with He Qing finally chose to divorce.
01. Married to a boyfriend I met in college.
He Qing has a failed marriage, but fortunately, she has left the man with the child now, but some things are like nightmares, always invisibly wrapped around you.
He Qing and Wang Yi met in college, to talk about their encounter there is some strange, that is the School of a certain year of Halloween, Wang Yi is a student of the English Department, with their foreign teachers together to make up and dress up Halloween, He Qing heard about it and then pulled friends together to join in the fun, want to see what strange makeup they can draw, did not expect to be frightened by Wang Yi, fell after the sprained wrist, Wang Yi accompanied her to the school hospital, even if the two people know each other, the things behind everyone can predict, Chatting with each other to create a good feeling and then starting to communicate, how can not escape these three steps.
When the two people were in college, they were divided and merged, He Qing always felt that he and Wang Yi did not understand, Wang Yi this person is easy to drill the tip of the bull's horn, but also fell in love with the gang on the line, he even because He Qing casually said to him that you should study well, even with a joking tone, he felt that He Qing was mocking him, was disgusting him, he Qing had to apologize to him, He Qing apologized to him, after He Qing apologized, he always took these things out to say, and even trembled with He Qingqi in public places. Wang Yi himself did not feel that he had done anything wrong, he even felt that he was doing it for He Qinghao, so that she could suffer less losses after entering society.
Wang Yi even quarreled with the staff because the coriander in his bowl was less than other people, He Qing couldn't stop it, he could only keep apologizing to people, the angry He Qing rice did not eat, Wang Yi still said that if you don't eat it, you will be hungry, don't tell me at that time, many times He Qing does not feel Wang Yi's love for her, but it may be used to this man's heart and lungs, so a loss of warmth will make He Qing very moved, even if it is a small ring, a rose, He Qing can put down all the discomfort in his heart, and then start to treat her like before, and then the two people began to quarrel and break up and reconcile, He Qing's girlfriends didn't bother to care about the two of them after that, because you bitterly said a comfort, the result is useless, then simply do not take this effort, He Qing also knows that this habit of his is not good, but there is something in his heart that always wants to find someone to tell, and there is no one who wants to go except for his girlfriend, and every time his girlfriend is to persuade the two of them to break up, In the end, the girlfriend still went to be a bridesmaid, and ate a meal with a helpless face.
02. The husband's machismo.
He Qing and Wang Yi's family is more like two worlds, He Qing's family is very solid, this is the result of her father's hard work for decades, He Qing's family is from poor to rich, so she does not have any delicate atmosphere, but Wang Yi is different, his parents are ordinary workers, his mother was later dismissed because of layoffs, all the burdens of the family are on the shoulders of the father, a person has to support a large family, plus his father can only do some physical work, the family's life is very poor, Even the matter of letting Wang Yi go to school was still persuaded by the people around him, his father had long wanted him to drop out of school and go out to work to subsidize the family, Wang Yi did not want to be trapped by such embarrassment forever, so he studied hard, but others were still smart, and finally he was admitted to college as he wished.
In fact, before graduation, the two of them discussed the matter of marriage, and after graduation Wang Yi's work was still He Qing's father to help find, after some achievements in his career, He Qing felt that Wang Yi was swollen, and when he talked to her, the tone was more impatient, he always told her that women are useless, and they can't create much value for this society, in addition to giving birth to children, what else can you do, He Qing is a college student who has read books, not a small woman wrapped in small feet, She could not accept such a derogation coming out of her husband's mouth, immediately returned to her mother's house, and later Wang Yi begged people back, but this person was still quite hypocritical, and after going back, she took off her disguise, so that He Qing would run around less outside in the future, it was really not shameful enough, He Qing angrily theorized with him that everything you have now is because of my family, how do you mean to say such things. "If your family has money, you have to help me, who makes my family poor, who let you marry me, and if you don't let you be a housewife at home, you will be grateful to Dade." 」
This is what Makes He Qing the most unacceptable, and originally said that the first child born should be surnamed He Qing, but after the birth of the child, Wang Yi repented, and even wanted to secretly change the child's surname, and said that with He Qing's surname was to lose the face of their old Wang family, but at this time He Qing had already woken up, she told him about divorce in Wang Yi's chatter, and this time Wang Yi failed to coax people back.
After the divorce, He Qing did not want to have any contact with Wang Yi, even the maintenance fee did not need him out, she could support her own children, only a knife and two between the two people, a peaceful life after 5 years He Qing did not remarry, just heard that Wang Yi had a new wife, but it was not her business, originally He Qing had almost forgotten about this person, but in the middle of the night one day received a call from her ex-husband "Quickly give me 100,000, your mother-in-law is sick." ”
Listening to his blunt tone here, He Qing is really helpless, who knows if he is lying to her, he has always been like this, "We have divorced and there is no longer any relationship, your own things to find their own way." He Qing hung up his phone and directly chose to black out.
If you can know each other and then stay together, this is the marriage destined by heaven, marriage is originally a beautiful thing, but those bloody realities also make us pay more and more attention to material interests in the face of marriage, feelings have become an unimportant thing, this is actually an inverted thing, but it seems to have slowly become a general trend, and how can people not sigh.
But also to remind the majority of women not to be blinded by feelings, but can not recognize a person's core, do not let themselves because of a momentary soft heart to destroy their own life, after all, not everyone can start from scratch, you wasted youth can never be found again, there are some things that can not be forced, the three views of the two people can not have forever.
One of the most important things in marriage is respect, respect from the bottom of the heart, no one will always put demeaning words on the lips of others, if you are such a person then you should reflect on yourself, rather than blaming all the mistakes on others.
Author Nannan, focus on the field of emotions to create and share, with emotions to communicate with you and my soul, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.