People's life to experience a lot of things, although a lifetime is only a few decades, but there are many things that happen, a plain life can also become a legend, life does not make comparisons, even if it is a bleak life, it has a different color.
There was a grandmother who was over ninety years old, she experienced three marriages, and gave birth to 17 children before and after, but all of these children died prematurely, and in the long years, she was the only one who was miserable and miserable.
Jiangxi woman Su Guiying
Su Guiying's grandmother lived in the countryside below Ruichang in Jiangxi, and she married when she was 17 years old, and after marrying in that era, she was usually a husband and a godson, living in peace, where did she think that this wish had never been realized for a lifetime.
In her first marriage, just after marriage, she gave birth to a child, and the whole family was happy for the newborn, but when she was indulging in the joy of motherhood, an accident occurred, and the child after birth suddenly died.
In the face of such a blow, sad can not do, although the family also feel sad, but at that time can only give up, comfort her, let her raise her body well, the child can be born in the future.
Not long after, she was pregnant again, the child was born safely, she took good care of it, but because of a disease again, 2 children died, she was the most painful person, but her in-laws' face made her heart colder.
At that time, Kezi was a big thing, and her husband repaired her, and before she was twenty years old, she became an abandoned woman, and returned to her mother's house under the charge of Kezi.
Therefore, she felt very faceless, and her mother's family also disliked him, and finally found someone to marry her, so she began her second marriage.
After remarriage, the husband died again
In the 9 years of the second marriage, she has given birth to 9 children in succession, but it is very regrettable that no matter how to take care of, 9 children have finally died one after another, at this time, she is about 30 years old, has given birth to 11 children, but has not been able to leave one, again and again to endure the pain of childbirth, while accepting the pain of their own loss of children, life experiences hope and despair again and again.
Not quite what was going on, none of the children could be left behind, and when she was 33 years old, her second husband also fell ill and died, and in the end, she went through 2 marriages, 11 births, and finally became a childless person.
At this moment, her third husband appeared, and this man did not care about her previous experience, and resolutely married her home, regardless of the eyes of others, and was particularly kind to her.
The third marriage, their feelings are particularly good, the husband is also very distressed about her, he is reluctant to eat and drink, can she come, she herself knows that there is no way to repay, can only have a few children with her husband, to repay her husband.
But this time her child's wish was once again disappointed, after marriage, she gave birth to 6 children in succession, and finally died in infancy, almost 40 years old, 3 marriages and 17 children why did not stay, the heart was tortured.
However, the ill-fated her was not favored by the god of luck, and the blow was not just one, but also in her 40s, her best third husband, also died.
After his death, he left 2 mud houses for Su Guiying, as well as a very special yellow paper money, before he died, he began to worry about being afraid of Su Guiying's absence, no one was willing to buy paper money for her, so he helped her prepare in advance, hoping that neighbors and villagers could treat her kindly, since then, she has begun to live alone, and there is no relative around.
Decided to adopt in his 40s
Finally, after 17 consecutive losses, Su Guiying wanted to adopt a child, the first point is to meet her desire to be a mother, the second is to have someone to take care of after she is older, where to know, she adopted 3 children before and after, and finally fell short, the first two were raised for several months by the biological parents to go back, the last one to raise is the daughter, it is not easy for her to raise the daughter, the daughter wants to return to her biological parents, although she helped people raise the child in vain, After the child grew up and left, the adopted daughter only saw Su Guiying once, and after sending her 100 yuan, she never came to see her again.
Later, she also entrusted the people of the same village to send a pig heart to the old mother who raised him, and she said that it was the best thing she had ever eaten, a simple food, which was very precious to an old man like her, and it was so sad for a lifetime.
Even if the adopted daughter finally chose to leave, but Grandma Su Guiying has never had a complaint, she just hopes that the adopted daughter can come back to see herself occasionally, but unfortunately, in the end, she never came to see Grandma Su Guiying again, and since then she has really become a lonely person, she has never buried this child, how should her life be?
A lonely old lady, there is no source of experience, put in the current society can not survive, not to mention that at that time, she is also a foot-binding old lady, small foot rice are hard to do not mention work, so his old age is desolate, can only rely on the village to give relief money to live, only eat 2 meals a day, hungry to drink porridge, barely live.
Winter was the worst, and she couldn't sleep hot at all, because she didn't have the strength to burn the fire, there was no firewood, and the earthen house was cold and wet, so the house was always very cold. In the winter, she waited for the sun to come out, she could sit in the doorway and bask in the sun, and as soon as she saw the child, she would follow her eyes, and she began to grieve again, if all his children were there, the family should be particularly lively.
She had always thought about her children who had passed away, and when it came to the traditional festival, she would be particularly uncomfortable, seeing people's homes bustling, eating together, pasting couplets, and she was the only one who had been alone. She has always hoped that she can be like other old people, during the Spring Festival, her children come back to chat with her and eat a meal together, such a simple happiness, if he can achieve it, she will have no regrets in her life. The last 90 years of age finally came true.
Before dying, my wish was fulfilled
Before the Spring Festival of 15 years, a reporter heard about her tragic life, specially came to see him, at that time brought him some fruit, when Su Guiying took a banana handed by the reporter, he actually ate the original Su Guiying's grandmother had never eaten bananas in her life, and he did not understand that bananas should be peeled to eat.
The reporter reported his story, Su Guiying's cold and clear home has become a lot more lively, many people have come to care about this teacher, she also said her wish, hoping that someone will accompany the New Year, and many well-meaning people will help accompany a warm and warm year. Grandma Su Guiying burst into tears of excitement. Everyone also asked her to take care of herself and accompany her for the New Year tomorrow.
epilogue
However, it is sad that the old man has not waited for the Spring Festival to be gone, and when he leaves, he is quiet and beautiful, and the regrets in his heart will also be relieved.
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