The writer Bondarev once said: The root of all human suffering stems from the lack of a sense of boundary.
Because of the lack of a sense of boundaries, many people will take the kindness of others for granted, and even in many cases, they think that the other party owes themselves.
As the writer Bi Shumin said: Rejection is a right, you are so good at talking, who can understand you? Because you don't know how to refuse, others treat you as an ATM, and everyone wants to take advantage.
01, the son-in-law demolished and demolished 2 million yuan, bought a big house
Netizen Ye Ming (pseudonym) never dared to overestimate human nature. But he did not expect that he had underestimated the human heart. Some people, the better you treat her, the more righteous she is to demand more.
When Ye Ming's parents' home had not yet been demolished, Ye Ming's wife became a brother-in-law demon. Before she got married, her wife began to subsidize the family with her own salary and help her parents raise her brother. At that time, he was not yet married, and Ye Ming had no position to accuse his wife of not being.
But when the two people are married and have their own children, the wife still takes the salary to subsidize the mother's family as always, and helps the brother-in-law to buy a house and a car to pay off the mortgage, Ye Ming's heart is very uncomfortable.
But he did not fall out with him, but moved with his wife to reason, and knew that he was in love, but his wife agreed on the front foot, and the back foot encountered the mother's family but still went his own way. For this reason, the couple has not less contradictions and disputes. Only every time, it was his wife who had the upper hand, and Ye Ming had to turn a blind eye.
Ye Ming thought that he and his wife would never have the opportunity to live in a big house in this life, after all, according to his wife's support for his brother, his small family would not be able to keep it at all, let alone have any future.
However, Ye Ming's parents' hometown was demolished, and although there was no house, it was divided into two million. His parents gave him a son, and the money was given to Ye Ming intact. Ye Ming took this money and directly bought a big house with full payment, and took his parents to live with him and shared the heavens.
02, the mother-in-law asked for the monthly filial piety fee to rise to 5,000
Knowing that the son-in-law had also taken the two relatives to the big house to go to the pension, the parents-in-law were also eager to move, but they also knew that it was useless to tell their daughter, and the son-in-law Ye Ming nodded. And they also called Ye Ming several times without ambiguity, but ye Ming declined.
The unwilling mother-in-law finally gave up the idea of living together, proposing that the daughter's monthly filial piety fee should be increased from 3,000 to 5,000, so that if she saved a few years, her son could also buy a big house and bring their parents to share the world.
But as soon as the daughter heard that her parents wanted to raise the filial piety fee, it would rise to 2,000, and she did not dare to speak. 3,000 yuan per month was already the limit of what she could take out every month, and in this way, she still carried it out secretly behind Ye Ming's back. Once ye Ming found out, he might have to divorce himself.
But the parents did not listen, and they did not think that their daughters were not angry, and even a man could not hold it. Therefore, they directly bypassed their daughters, made such a request with Ye Ming, and said with a straight face, your family demolition and relocation has been divided into 2 million, and we are not asking for 5,000 per month.
Ye Ming thought he had heard a joke, 2 million was his parents', and he was also stained with the light of his parents, so he could take a shortcut and buy a house to raise children. But the in-laws have nothing to do with his parents, so why should the parents-in-law ask for a share of the pie?
03, the son-in-law took the opportunity to cut off his wife's poverty alleviation road
Ye Ming did not directly refuse, but looked at his wife, he calmly told his wife: Either we divorce, I will give you a one-time 500,000, this money you love how to subsidize your parents how to subsidize. Or you and your parents will immediately break off relations and never help the poor again.
Ye Ming's two choices, the wife is very difficult. Because whichever you choose means giving up the other. But the wife also knows very well that without Ye Ming, perhaps no other man will be so tolerant of his monthly salary to subsidize his mother's family.
The wife has not yet considered it, but the parents-in-law next to her urged her to say, first promise to divorce, get 500,000 and then say, anyway, you have two children, will he really divorce you? Even if you divorce, as long as you get the custody of your two children, ye Ming will not have to compromise and remarry you in the end?
The wife thought that she had heard wrongly, but her in-laws kept brainwashing her next to her, and the wife dared to believe that this was her parents who had always obeyed her orders. In the face of money, her married daughter is the water that is spilled, and for the sake of her son, her parents can even give up her marriage and happiness.
The wife's whole body was in pain, and she seemed to want to understand. Without waiting for Ye Ming to speak, his wife directly opened her mouth, not to mention 500,000, that is, the monthly 3,000 filial piety fee has also been broken, and I have spent at least 300,000 on you over the years. Even if I honored my parents and bought it out at one time, the expenses of my parents and brother had nothing to do with me.
The parents-in-law left with a scolding grin, and before leaving, they blamed Ye Ming for stirring up dissension and destroying the feelings of their parents and daughters. But Ye Ming did not think so, his wife was a daughter, she had already paid too much for her mother's family, and now she had only made the right choice for her marriage.
It's just that Ye Ming is also hesitating, although his wife has changed her past in front of her parents-in-law and chosen the family. But the wife is so foolish and filial, can she really wake up in time and no longer use the money of her own small family to subsidize her mother?
Today's Topic:
Do you think Ye Ming's wife really changed her mind?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!