Now, more and more people are reluctant to get married, first, people are generally late in maturity, feeling that they cannot bear the weight of marriage, and second, the crisis of trust has intensified.
The news of divorce and betrayal continues to refresh the eye, including some celebrities, which makes many people think that the current relationship is too fragile.
Both men and women want to find a soul mate, but the probability of a person meeting a soul mate is actually much lower than winning the lottery.
Most people wait and wait, and finally wait for their age, and then under the pressure around them, find someone similar to accompany them for a lifetime.
The fate of the older leftover women is basically married to two kinds of people in the end, of which the second type is the majority.
Equal "opponents"
Although parents have completed their responsibilities as long as they raise their children until they are 18 years old, in most people's minds, it is true that they have completed their parents' responsibilities after completing their marriage.
As long as the child is not married for a day, the parents' hearts are carried, afraid that they will die one day, leaving the child alone in the world.
Chinese people pay attention to the door to the door, the child has not been able to find the object, the parents will launch a relationship, please introduce the object to the child.
Basically, they can be favored by their parents, and the conditions are similar to those of both sides, and if the conditions are too good, they are afraid of looking down on their children, and those who are too poor will not be considered.
Many people can't find a partner for a long time, or have had a failed emotional experience, and don't want to go against their parents' wishes, and finally most likely go down this road.
Lower the requirement to marry
Boys are better, as they get older, both knowledge and charm are increasing, but girls' advantages will be lower and lower.
When you are in your twenties, there is no shortage of suitors around, and it is also common to pick a point, but after the age of 30, there will be fewer and fewer suitors around you, and even fall into the embarrassing situation of no one chasing.
Although the appearance value has begun to decline, wealth and insight are also increasing, and the requirements for the other half will become higher and higher.
In this way, it has fallen into an embarrassing situation, many excellent girls have no one to want, can not marry, want to get married can only be self-degrading requirements.
Find a person who is far below the psychological expectations to marry, some people are even more miserable, because the age is too big, and finally become the main force of the second marriage market.
Of course, if you handle it well, in fact, the second marriage is not worse than the first marriage.
Of course, there are still some who will continue to insist that they must find a suitable remarriage, but what is suitable? Maybe she didn't have the answer in her mind.
Now many people are looking for objects, just like the "Monkey Breaking Corn" that they learned when they were young, they always want to find the biggest corn, and the last one they get is not the biggest.
There's nothing wrong with riding a donkey to find a horse, but you have to be honest, don't be like an Internet celebrity, tell your boyfriend to be a bridesmaid, in fact, to get engaged to someone else.
And life is not a movie, no one will always stand in place waiting for you, many times missed is missed, never recovered.
It is better to manage your own present, treat every feeling as the best one, and naturally rejoice at the end, and there is no regret and resentment at the end.
There are also many people who say that marriage is a grave, which is completely out of nothing.
Since marriage is a graveyard, why did you want to marry each other in the first place is just a life after marriage, which does not meet your own psychological expectations, and then psychological imbalance.
People, unhappiness is often too strong desire, we have to accept the fact that most of us are ordinary people, there are no big waves in life.
Accepting your own ordinariness, accepting the other's ordinariness, getting rid of that unrealistic fantasy, and living your daily life in a down-to-earth manner is extraordinary.
Don't always compare with people, because there are always better, but good is not necessarily suitable for you, the right for yourself is the best.
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