The in-laws suspected that the daughter-in-law had an affair, and in the middle of the night, they went to the door to turn over the curtains, and after looking for no results, they went to the daughter-in-law's unit to scold, and the daughter-in-law lost her job and the family could not live. So is things really going to be the way the in-laws think? Are there any other hidden affairs between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
Xiaoling, 36, told mediators that she had originally worked for a real estate company and was recognized by her colleagues and leaders for her hard work and self-motivation, and her monthly performance was also among the best. But just two months ago things suddenly changed, not only the company's leaders have an opinion of her, colleagues are also slowly alienating her, which makes her feel anxious, worried every day, helplessly chose to resign. Xiaoling said that the reason for these things was caused by her in-laws going to the unit to insult and ruin her reputation.
The mediator and Xiaoling came to the place where the mother-in-law lived, and what explanation would Mrs. Wang give in the face of the daughter-in-law's questioning? Mrs. Wang admitted to the insults at her daughter-in-law's unit, saying that she did so because Xiaoling beat her. XiaoLing admitted that he did do something to her mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law scolded her mother, so she moved her hand in anger. In the face of Xiao Ling's statement, the mother-in-law Wang Said that if it were not for her daughter-in-law's action against her, she would never insult her daughter-in-law's mother-in-law's family. The two people's statements were different, and just when the two were arguing endlessly, Xiaoling's husband Liu Hui came over, and his accusations made Xiaoling, who was already excited, even more sad.
In the face of her husband's accusations, Xiaoling suddenly became silent. Speaking of the beating that day, Mrs. Wang still has palpitations. Xiaoling said that when she and her mother-in-law had an argument that day, the neighbors also came to persuade them that who was right and who was wrong, the neighbors could also testify to them. Unfortunately, Xiaoling's neighbor was not at home, Mrs. Wang said that her wife was also at the scene at that time, in order to prove that what she said was not false, she also called her wife Liu Laohan over. Liu Laohan confirmed that his wife did not scold his daughter-in-law first that day, but the daughter-in-law first moved to his wife, and in a hurry, his wife moved his mouth to his daughter-in-law. After coming out of the daughter-in-law's house, they rushed to the daughter-in-law's unit in a moment of anger, hoping that the company's leaders could persuade the daughter-in-law so that the daughter-in-law could restrain somewhat.
Now that Xiaoling has left the unit, Mrs. Wang said that she does not know, and she does not want her daughter-in-law to lose her job. At this time, Xiaoling insisted that all these consequences were caused by her mother-in-law. Mrs. Wang said that her daughter-in-law Xiaoling called her that day and asked her to help take care of her eight-year-old grandson, but after she came, her grandson insisted on letting her leave, and she had no choice but to leave here. Mrs. Wang had just arrived home when she received a call from her daughter-in-law, and she hurried from home again, but at this time, the daughter-in-law's face changed. Mrs. Wang said that the little grandson is more rebellious, cooking for the grandson, washing clothes and other things can still help, but the daughter-in-law pushed everything to her, which made her unable to accept the difficulty, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also had a dispute because of these things.
At this time, Xiaoling did not realize her own problem, and her husband Liu Hui outside the house also said the problem between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Liu Hui said that her sister's family also had two children, and her mother felt that her children were older and took care of her sister's family a little more, but this was strongly opposed by her wife, who believed that her mother was partial to her sister's family. In order to resolve their contradictions, the mediator decided to go to Liu Hui's sister Xiaofang, and the eldest sister Xiaofang learned that the contradiction was caused by herself, and decided to talk with the mediator with her sister-in-law Xiaoling. But as soon as the two sides met, they argued, Xiaoling said that three years ago she was admitted to the hospital due to gas poisoning, when her husband Liu Hui was working outside, she had no relatives in the city, she thought that her mother-in-law would come to take care of herself at the first time, but the result was not what she thought.
But Xiaoling's eldest sister said that she did not know how serious the gas poisoning was, and the mother-in-law said that it was not that she did not take care of her daughter-in-law, but that her daughter-in-law did not let her take care of it. In the face of the words of the eldest sister and mother-in-law, Xiaoling insisted that no matter how much her mother-in-law did now, if she did not take care of her when she was sick, she was a very bad mother-in-law. At this time, the daughter-in-law Xiaoling once again broke out the amazing past made by her in-laws, who suspected that she had an external heart, and only repeatedly came to her house in the middle of the night, and she thought that her mother-in-law's practice of rummaging around was the greatest insult and disrespect to her.
Xiaoling had run a small restaurant before, and because of the poor management, she sent a transfer message online, but this incident caused a misunderstanding in her father-in-law, thinking that she had an inexplicable relationship with other men. Father-in-law Liu Laohan said that his son was working outside a few years ago, and he overheard his daughter-in-law calling a strange man, so he suspected that his daughter-in-law had an external heart. However, after searching, he and his wife did not find anything, this practice is a kind of pain that cannot be erased for Xiaoling, that is, because of this matter, she has long been cold to her in-laws.
The in-laws have repeatedly said that now that their daughter's factory is closed, the old couple is currently living by collecting waste, and they also want to live a clean life for a few days. The mediator believed that it would be a good idea to separate the occasional exchanges. Xiaoling said that taking care of children is their own business, and they will no longer push this responsibility to the elderly. Seeing the daughter-in-law's attitude, the two elderly people also said that they should not go to the daughter-in-law's house in the middle of the night to rummage, suspect that the daughter-in-law has an affair, they should not ignore the daughter-in-law when they are hospitalized for gas poisoning, nor should they run to the daughter-in-law's unit to insult and smear the daughter-in-law, and they also regret the impact of these things on the daughter-in-law.
In the end, under the persuasion of the mediator, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was relaxed, and the family was finally reconciled. For the contradictions in this family who is who is not Xiaobian does not make any comments, Xiaobian always has a kind of unspeakable resignation, do you feel that the mediator mediated right?
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