Since ancient mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, it has been a headache, just like the two people fell into the water at the same time to save who to save first.
A few days ago, Xiaohua played a video for me, I thought it was a reminiscence between friends, who knew that Xiaohua's face was scarred, and began to cry to me about all kinds of unhappiness after marriage.
Netizens meet privately for life
Xiaohua dropped out of junior high school and met Xiao Wang on the Internet, the two met privately soon after falling in love, when they got along for the fifth month, Xiaohua suddenly proposed marriage, her decision was opposed by her parents, Xiaohua and Xiaowang are unemployed vagrants, one of the two is a junior high school graduate, one has not even finished primary school, parents are not optimistic about their future, thinking that they are just young impulsive.
Complete the wedding despite opposition
But the two people had an iron heart to get married, and repeatedly threatened to elope, the two families had to arrange a wedding for them, the wedding day was very lively, I clearly remember that mao was not easy to play "Dispel Sorrows" at that time, Xiaohua cried with pear blossoms and rain, and Xiao Wang was full of spring light.
Since they got married, the contact between me and Xiaohua has become less and less, who knows that the sudden phone call turned out to be her crying, Xiaohua said that just because of a small matter, Xiao wang started to beat her, when they fought together, the mother-in-law pressed Xiaohua to the ground, after all, the strength of a person is limited, Xiaohua is bruised in many places, and finally ran home crying.
After marriage, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cold war
Xiaohua's parents think that this is a normal small fight between husband and wife, and also accuse her of paying for her original impulses, so Xiaohua was sent back to her in-laws by her parents.
Because of this fight incident, the mother-in-law's attitude towards Xiaohua was not as good as before, no longer the attitude of booing and asking for warmth, just like the posture of being a housewife.
Xiao Wang took the opportunity to go out to work, and the family was left with Xiaohua and her in-laws, and the father-in-law only rested in the hut every day because he suffered from cerebral thrombosis, but asked about the big and small things in the family.
Xiaohua and her mother-in-law will not appear in a room at the same time, during the Cold War they also began to think about the future of life, the mother-in-law is worried about the status is not secure, the private message Xiao Wang wants to give all the money earned from part-time work to himself, Xiaohua is worried about domestic violence, and wants to drive out of the in-laws to set up another portal.
Xiaohua went to Xiao Wang's factory on the grounds that it was easy to split up after marriage, and stayed in his room to wait for him to commute to work.
The mother's family raises the fetus and divides the family property
In the environment without a mother-in-law, the two people are like glue, Xiaohua was pregnant soon after, considering the environmental problems, Xiao Wang sent Xiaohua back to his hometown, and then hurried out to earn milk powder money.
Xiaohua looked at her mother-in-law who was always sullen, under the same roof, no one would bow her head, so she packed her bags and went back to her mother's house, Xiaohua's mother loved to play mahjong, she was not at home all day, and there was only her father left in the family, but it was an excellent place for her to raise a fetus, although her mother often plundered her money.
Xiaohua and Xiaowang often video chat, every time Xiaohua hangs on the mouth of the family property, hoping to live separately from her in-laws, Xiaowang although he agrees with his mouth, he has no intention of acting, on the one hand, he is the mother who grew up with him, and on the other hand, he is the wife who accompanies him to grow old.
During this period, the two families got along relatively well, and there were no noisy incidents again, until the arrival of the children, and finally the final civil war broke out.
Cold divorce and return to singleness
Xiaohua gave birth to a girl, still living in her mother's house, although her mother was sarcastic to her, she could not help Xiaohua's money temptation, Xiao Wang went out to work, and now he had to support two families, a sick father and a child waiting to be fed.
Because of the epidemic, Xiao Wang also took the opportunity to come back to rest, planning to come back to farm and start his parents' old business.
Under xiao wang's soft and hard bubble, Xiao hua returned to her in-laws' house, and her mother-in-law also took the initiative to admit her mistakes and carefully take care of the children, but the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always been looming, and the two people often clash at the corners of their mouths.
One day because of housework problems, Xiao Wang stood on his mother's side and accused Xiao Hua, Xiao Hua slapped Xiao Wang on the head in anger, and Xiao Wang also broke out of the long-standing emotions and beat Xiao Hua again, but this time the mother-in-law stood aside just to persuade her.
Xiao Wang's face left several blood marks, and Xiao Hua was torn out of her hair and slapped several times.
Xiaohua ran back to her mother's house with the child in a rage, and this time Xiaohua's parents stood by her side and demanded that the other party apologize.
The mother-in-law has come to see the child many times, each time has been turned away, but never seen the figure of Xiao Wang, Xiao Hua was discouraged and proposed a divorce, compared to the obstruction of marriage, divorce everything came too smoothly, Xiao Hua only had the child, and then cleaned up.
The heartache of a single mother
Xiaohua is only in her early twenties, single raising children is a lot of pressure for her, because there is no job can only rely on her parents, the bride price is spent, the man refuses to pay child support, the mother does not help her take care of the child's ideas, every day is to go out to play mahjong, when the mood is not good, it will fall down.
Xiaohua often cried at night, this path was chosen by her, she thought about ending her life, but looking at the child she chose to persevere.
After the separation of the family, they lived peacefully
Xiao Wang went to the field the day after their divorce, and completely cut off contact with XiaoHua, but did not ask about the child.
Three months later, Xiao Wang met with Xiaohua under the persuasion of friends, and the two re-added contact information and began to ask about the child's recent situation every day.
I didn't expect the two people to freeze the previous suspicions and get back together, but Xiaohua proposed that it was okay to remarry, but asked her in-laws to move out and asked for 100,000 yuan as spiritual compensation.
Do you think Xiao Wang will continue to ignore the child desperately? He just changed the object of his desperation, and his parents became cannon fodder for his family reunion.
He threw his biological parents out of the house, and his mother-in-law was finally defeated, living with his sick wife in a state of limbo.
After Xiao Wang and Xiao Hua independent portal, there was no more quarrel, and soon after, they bought a car and did a little business, and their lives were thriving, and the poor two old people were forced to leave their hometown where they had worked hard for many years.