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Author: Annoying
Shenzhen, Guangdong.
The Baogang Police Station of the Longgang Branch of the Municipal Public Security Bureau received an alarm that a woman was beaten by her husband at home, and the patrol members and the precinct security officer rushed over.
After the police arrived at the scene, they asked the police who had been beaten by the father of his wife. The wife's eyes were swollen, and the father came up and said, "Domestic violence, you don't know people in the face when you look at them." ”
The police asked who had beaten the person, and the husband in pajamas stepped forward, pointed at the old man and another person, and insisted on taking them to the police station together, because "the two of them just beat me too."
The police gave a word to the back: "I don't need you to assign me!" Listen to me first! ”
"Are you a man, look at you!" Take him to the police station first! ”
It was Yang Changjiang, a police officer at the Baogang police station, who said these words because he saw his husband beat his wife like that, so his temper was relatively impatient at that time.
Subsequently, the husband who beat the man was taken to the police car.
On the police car, the old man told the police that the two had been married for more than ten years, and their daughter did not dare to tell herself, hid in the room and did not dare to open the door, saying that she was uncomfortable and wanted to rest.
After arriving at the police station, the husband denied hitting his wife, saying that the wife's eye injury was accidentally hit on the corner of the table during the dispute.
But based on police investigative experience and trauma, the husband was lying.
Lying is not possible, and the husband argues that the two are beating each other.
As a last resort, the police conducted a judicial examination procedure.
The husband is being interrogated over there, and this side is doing the wife's work.
The police told her that if her husband did not realize his mistake, he would negotiate a solution, and he would continue to beat her when he returned home.
But when it came time for the judicial examination, the wife was still shaken.
In the transcript, the wife said that the injury was hit by her husband, and when the police asked her to further fix the evidence, the wife changed her mouth to say that the injury was hit by herself.
It turned out that the wife thought of three children, whether she was divorced now, and if the husband was really detained, it would have a certain impact on the children.
From this, the police can see that this wife is relatively kind and weak, and does not know how to use the law to protect herself.
But there is a saying that only the foot knows whether the shoe fits well.
How the mode of getting along between their husband and wife, and how deep the feelings for each other are, only the wife herself can feel it.
The wife has always stressed to the police that she only wants to teach her husband a lesson, and if he realizes his mistake, she will forgive him.
The police prescribed a forensic appraisal to her wife, but she did not go to the appraisal, because after the appraisal, if it constituted a minor injury or more, her husband would face public detention or above punishment.
But in any case, the police will not let the husband go home with his wife that night.
According to Article 43 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on Administrative Penalties for Public Security, the police summoned her husband.
The next morning, the wife rushed to the police station, took the initiative to find the police and said that she did not want to pursue this matter, and they went back to negotiate and deal with it.
If the person concerned indicates that he will not be held responsible, and the relationship between the two spouses is still there, the police need to fully consider the parties' ideas.
As a result, the police gave the couple a conciliation letter.
The relationship between family members is different from other relationships, family affection and love are the bonds that maintain, how to accurately assess the situation, how to properly protect the weak, the level of law enforcement of the police is very high.
The police's follow-up of this domestic violence case has not ended, including feedback on the street poll meeting and the women's federation, so that these departments can follow up.
So far, it has not caused any other problems.
This is a very typical case of domestic violence.
The husband beat his wife, the mother's family protected her daughter, called the police, and finally the wife, out of consideration for the child, decided to forgive the husband and not pursue the case.
Throughout the process, the police and the law gave the wife the protection she needed.
This episode of CCTV's "Skynet" column actually wants to tell the weak in domestic violence incidents that they must learn to say "no" to domestic violence and must learn to use the weapon of law to protect themselves.
So, do domestic violence cases often end in a settlement? Not really.
I remembered a news item from last year.
On July 30, 2021, in Shangqiu, Henan Province, the latest progress in the matter of the woman Xiaoyan (flower name) jumping from the second floor and becoming disabled after being abused by domestic violence, the court sentenced her ex-husband Dou Mou to two years in prison.
This domestic violence incident has caused great repercussions on the Internet and has also been on the hot search.
At 13:38 p.m. on August 13, 2019, Xiao Yan jumped from the second floor of the clothing store she ran and was seriously injured on the spot.
The fact that the incident occurred and was not divorced for a year is actually a misinformation.
Just when the neighbor came forward to rescue Xiao Yan, Dou Mou, who was Xiao Yan's husband at the time, walked out of the store and said a word in his mouth.
The neighbor recalled that she heard a sentence he said - "Can you still not", which means that you have fallen down from the stairs, can you still get away with it?
The neighbor felt that this person was very cold, without a little pain, "When I saw this scene, I felt a chill in my heart." ”
Xiao Yan and Dou Mou were introduced to love and married through friends. However, not long after the marriage, the married life of the two people lit up with red lights.
She suffered three more serious domestic violence after marriage, and the trigger was all because of Dou's gambling.
On August 7, 2019, Dou's mother found Dou at the poker table and reprimanded him on the spot. Dou mou felt that his mother knew that he was playing cards because xiao yan sued, and his anger broke out again.
Dou mou called Xiao Yan directly in front of his mother in the card field, "Said I should die, said to go back to the store and beat me to death." ”
Then Xiao Yan received a WeChat message from her mother-in-law: close the door and run.
Xiao Yan closed the door of the store and ran back to her mother's house, and she did not dare to go to the store again for a few days after that, and she was usually accompanied by her family when she went out. She also plans to apply for a "personal safety protection order."
A few days later, Xiaoyan heard that Dou had gone to Zhengzhou, so on August 13, 2019, she returned to the clothing store alone.
Xiao Yan often regretted it later, regretting that she went to the store alone that day.
At more than 1 p.m. on the same day, Dou suddenly broke into the clothing store and began to beat Xiao Yan.
Then there was the scene of Xiao Yan jumping off the building.
Subsequently, with the help of neighbors, Xiaoyan called the police.
The final appraisal result was that the degree of fracture and injury to Xiao Yan's left eye constituted a minor injury of the first degree, so Dou was suspected of intentional injury and was criminally filed.
The final result was that Xiao Yan filed for divorce with the court, and less than two months later, the divorce judgment was obtained, the child was sentenced to Xiao Yan's support, and the clothing store was determined to be Xiao Yan's premarital property.
Domestic abuser Dou mou was sentenced to two years in prison.
This is a classic case in which a domestic abuser successfully protects himself through legal weapons. The victim Xiaoyan did not choose to let go of her abusive husband for the sake of her children, and successfully rescued herself from a failed marriage.
I believe that everyone also remembers the "Yuya domestic violence incident" that caused a sensation in the country in 2019.
The final result of the treatment was that Yuya got his own personal safety protection order, and the Chongqing Jiangbei District Public Security Bureau also imposed administrative detention for 20 days and fined Tuotuo for two illegal acts of intentionally injuring and threatening the personal safety of others.
Now open her Weibo, send some beautiful photos of herself from time to time, and also give The Olympic athletes a thumbs up, or forward the message of Henan Rainstorm Mutual Aid.
Her life was already back on track.
This is also a successful case of using legal weapons to say "no" to domestic violence.
Some people may wonder, is there also domestic violence between male and female friends? The answer is yes.
Article 37 of the Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China provides that acts of violence committed between persons living together other than family members shall be carried out with reference to the provisions of this Law.
In other words, the violence between male and female friends is also illegal, and they can also call the police to protect themselves.
On March 1, 2016, the Anti-Domestic Violence Law came into effect.
When it comes to this law, we have to mention one person, Sun Xiaomei, a professor in the Department of Women's Studies at China Women's College.
Intervention in domestic violence at the institutional level, this road Sun Xiaomei has insisted on for more than 20 years, which allows her to witness the birth of China's Anti-Domestic Violence Law.
She has been concerned with domestic violence and anti-domestic violence since the 1990s.
In 1990, Sun Xiaomei participated in the Sino-US Women's Seminar, "At that time, China only had the term of beating and abusing his wife, and there was no word for domestic violence", and Sun Xiaomei and colleagues translated Domustic violence for the first time as "domestic violence".
Since then, Sun Xiaomei has begun to pay attention to domestic violence.
In 1993, Sun Xiaomei conducted a project to visit 30 rural and 30 urban women who had suffered domestic violence.
The survey found that these victims have no concept of domestic violence at all, and many people feel that they have been playing all their lives, getting used to it, and have nothing to say.
They were also surprised that Sun Xiaomei had come to investigate them, and asked her, Don't you go to work? They believe that investigating domestic violence is not a job.
One of the women, on the surface, looked very good, but in fact, the chest was injured before and after. After being beaten, I don't go to the hospital and slowly recuperate.
This strengthens Sun Xiaomei's determination to do something for these domestic abusers.
In 2008, she was elected as a deputy to the 11th National People's Congress. In 2009 and 2011, Sun Xiaomei submitted bills and suggestions to the second and third sessions of the Tenth National People's Congress respectively, but the primary task at that time was to amend the law, and the content of domestic violence could be reflected in various laws, and the provisions related to domestic violence in other laws could be amended.
Sun Xiaomei did not stop. CCTV reporter asked her, frustrated? She replied, "No. As a deputy to the National People's Congress, you represent the interests of the common people, and you can only move forward step by step. ”
In 2012, Sun Xiaomei's persistence finally ushered in the dawn. In that year, the Standing Committee of the National People's Congress included the Anti-Domestic Violence Law as a preparatory item in its legislative work plan. From then until the law was officially introduced, it took less than 3 years.
For more than 20 years, Sun Xiaomei has gone from discovering a problem to attracting the attention of relevant departments to finally implementing the law in black and white, she feels very "happy" and at the same time feels a sense of responsibility.
Until now, she has been concerned about the practical aspects of the anti-domestic violence law.
Of course, the target of domestic violence is not limited to women, but may also be men, children, and the elderly.
We are glad that we have seen successful cases of the anti-domestic violence law in the process of implementation, and it will surely become an umbrella for more victims of domestic violence.
If you are suffering from domestic violence, remember that domestic violence is not a domestic affair, it is a violation of the law, and if necessary, you must take up legal weapons to protect yourself.
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