Are there really a lot of people who can't resist the seven-year itch and get divorced? My husband and I are each other's first love, the process is a bit bumpy, in love for six years before getting married, after marriage a son and a daughter, now married for the seventh year

Are there really a lot of people who can't resist the seven-year itch and get divorced? I and my husband are each other's first love, the process is a bit bumpy, in love for six years to get married, after marriage a son and a daughter, now married for the seventh year, but after marriage the in-laws do not give children, money is not to give funding, on the husband alone to earn money to support the family, I also know that he works very hard, but I alone with two children is not easy, when i have a child we often quarrel for his parents regardless of us, the birth of a second child is more serious, I basically have depression, full-time mother, More and more feel that I live a little dignity, but also especially want to divorce, even I feel depressed, I am at home whether the child is sick or laundry and cooking has never been put on the handle, the child can only hold for a few months, I am holding the child to eat and drink Lasa, cooking is also holding the child, who thinks about my suffering? When the child got pneumonia, I basically didn't sleep much for half a month, the second child life was more miserable, the second child was my husband wanted a daughter, I gambled in order to meet the wish of my husband to have a daughter, I didn't expect it to be a daughter, it was originally a happy thing, but the two children gradually grew bigger, more troublesome, two children fight every day, sometimes the boss needs to help homework after school, he still needs to take his sister, his sister even makes trouble, his mood is particularly bad, he wants to be angry with the child, and he feels that the child is pitiful, the child does not recruit you to provoke you, Isn't it your own choice to have everything today? Blame someone else? Complaining to my husband that he doesn't like to listen, and even says every day that I am neurotic? He always said that his work is not easy to come home I also told him that his parents are not good, he listened annoyed, and threw a tantrum at me? Could it really be that I'm insane, looking for something? I think he doesn't understand me more and more, I also feel very tired, I am still far married, there are no relatives here, no friends, especially want to divorce, I can't drive, often my husband does not take a holiday I can't go out, even if the child is sick, I can only wait for my husband to come back and take the child to see a doctor, I often think about why my in-laws don't give me a child, can help me build a handle I will not be so miserable, although the child is born by myself, I have the obligation to bring, but you as a grandparent should not help out a force? Is it just waiting for the old man to give you a pension? Like me in this situation? What to do? Divorced? I don't want to, how much harm to the children, and I also don't want my children, don't divorce it, all day long with my husband for the sake of the children for the in-laws to quarrel, he treats me all day as a neurosis, especially now we can't communicate more and more, can't say two sentences to quarrel, I'm really tired, I can't sleep every day, I have to boil my body, I can't eat and sleep, and I'm getting emaciated!