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When Huang Zhizhong was 13 years old, he was discovered by a sports coach and was able to join the basketball team, starting a new journey in life.
However, fate always seemed to play tricks on him, and his height problem prevented him from continuing to engage in basketball, so he had no choice but to leave the sports world and devote himself to acting.
In 1991, he was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama with great ambitions, and he tasted the sweet fruits of life for the first time while he was in school.
However, after graduation, he was assigned to work at the China Children's Art Theater, and his physical limitations made him at a loss, and he fell into a low point in his life for a while.
It was at that challenging moment - in 1997, he met He Yin, who was also an actor, during the filming of the TV series "Mainlander", and the two fell in love, and soon after entered the palace of marriage and gave birth to a lovely boy, Huang Boyuan.
This sweet couple, who were once praised by everyone, did not expect that they would end up in divorce.
The breakdown of his marriage plunged Huang Zhizhong's life into unprecedented confusion. Just as he continued to strive for breakthroughs in his acting career, the emotional world once again hit him hard.
It all stems from the bad hype in the media. Those shrewd media were busy grabbing eyeballs and focusing the public's attention, and began to hype up the scandal between Huang Zhizhong and actress Ke Lan.
Ke Lan is three years younger than Huang Zhizhong, she is not only from a famous family, but also a well-known Hong Kong host and powerful actor.
As early as 2005, Ke Lan co-starred with Huang Zhizhong in the TV series "Close to You and Warm Me". Subsequently, their wonderful performances in "The Right Way in the World is the Vicissitudes of Life" and "Chinese Expeditionary Force" won warm praise from the audience.
Due to the extremely high degree of tacit understanding between them, public opinion has speculated whether they have exceeded the boundaries of ordinary friends.
These gossips undoubtedly brought great distress and pain to He Yin. Huang Zhizhong once said frankly that the moment he first met Ke Lan, he firmly believed that this beautiful and elegant woman would become the other half of his life.
In the face of the huge pressure of public opinion, after he broke up with He Yin in 2011, he finally mustered up the courage to launch a fierce offensive against his beloved Ke Lan.
After years of tacit cooperation, Ke Lan also developed a deep affection for Huang Zhizhong. So, in 2013, they formalized their relationship. Ke Lan has an open-minded attitude towards this relationship, and has never tried to monopolize Huang Zhizhong, but often reminds him to spend more time with his son.
Initially, his son Huang Boyuan was estranged from his father, who had been divorced for many years and had been absent from family life for a long time, and even showed extreme indifference to him. However, Huang Zhizhong remained steadfast by his son's side, and sometimes even invited him to live at home.
As time passed, the son gradually let down his guard against his father and forgave him for his absence and alienation.
Although this difficult relationship is moving, Huang Zhizhong's persistent pursuit of marriage has not wavered. In 2019, he solemnly proposed to Ke Lan, eager to join hands with Ke Lan to enter the marriage hall and move towards a better future.
It's a pity that Ke Lan doesn't want to be bound by love, she only hopes to keep the free and unrestrained sweet love time between the two and continue to enjoy this beauty.
However, as time passes, Huang Zhizhong's longing for family deepens day by day. In the end, in 2020, the former couple had to end up with regrets. Today's Huang Zhizhong, although he has made brilliant achievements in his career, the loneliness in his heart is still difficult to suppress.
The emotional wounds of the past seem to have not fully healed, and he is still looking for his true love and warm family.
If we want to trace the fate between Huang Zhizhong and He Yin, we need to go back to that special year of 1997. At that time, Huang Zhizhong was filming the TV series "Mainlander", where he met He Yin, a young actress who was at the peak of her career at that time.
He Yin is two years older than Huang Zhizhong and was born in Chengdu in 1967 in an ordinary family. After graduating from high school, she was successfully admitted to Chengdu Preschool Normal School, and has been engaged in the preschool teacher industry since graduation.
In 1989, He Yin was selected as the starring role of the TV series "Jianghu Enmity Record" with his excellent appearance and unique temperament, and since then he has officially stepped into this road of acting full of challenges and opportunities.
At that time, Huang Zhizhong was still a little-known rookie actor. He came from an ordinary family in Tianjin, and his father died early in his childhood. At the age of 13, he was discovered by a sports coach for his outstanding athletic talent and joined the basketball team, but failed to achieve his dream of professional basketball due to his height.
In 1991, he was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama with enthusiasm and began his acting career.
It was during the filming of "Mainlander" that Huang Zhizhong met He Yin and fell in love. At that time, He Yin was already a well-known star in the entertainment industry, while Huang Zhizhong was just a fledgling newcomer.
However, He Yin was attracted by Huang Zhizhong's handsome and indomitable temperament, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up.
After a short period of love, Huang Zhizhong decided to show his sincerity and personally went to Chengdu to meet He Yin's parents and begged them to marry his daughter to him. In order to win the trust of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Huang Zhizhong even cooked himself and showed his exquisite cooking skills.
Seeing Huang Zhizhong's sincere performance, the He family's parents finally let go of the doubts in their hearts and accepted the future son-in-law.
On October 26, 1997, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin walked into the wedding hall hand in hand in the capital Beijing. However, given the poor financial situation at the time, the two did not have a lavish wedding, but rented a modest residence outside the Fifth Ring Road.
After marriage, Huang Zhizhong devoted himself to the career struggle in the capital, while He Yin frequently traveled back and forth between the unit and Beijing in his spare time.
With the change of focus in life, the relationship between the two gradually faded. Until September 2002, the birth of a lively and lovely boy, Huang Boyuan, injected new vitality and hope into their lives.
At the moment of their son's arrival, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin finally purchased a warm cottage of their own in Beijing.
Despite a slight upturn in their careers, their attention has been fully focused on this small family that has just been formed. The arrival of their son rekindled the once exhausted couple's hopes for the future, and they sincerely hoped to create a happy family atmosphere for their son.
A family life that was supposed to be full of happiness has become precarious due to the emergence of a marital crisis. This crisis stems from the media's constant hype of rumors between Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan, and various speculations and reports undoubtedly brought huge psychological trauma to He Yin, becoming the last straw that crushed this marriage.
What's more serious is that as a middle-aged couple, they also can't avoid the so-called "aesthetic fatigue" and the troubles of the run-in period of life. In the face of the hardships of raising children and the emotional estrangement caused by long-term separation, conflicts and disputes are inevitable.
Whenever there was a heated argument between his parents, his young son, Huang Boyuan, would panic and hide in his room in tears. Despite his young age, he has been forced to endure the harsh realities of the adult world.
After the quarrel, Huang Boyuan's eyes were always red and swollen, and his eyes were full of fear, afraid of witnessing the breakdown of his family again.
In this way, after endless cold wars and quarrels, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin finally made the decision to break up. They officially went through the divorce procedures, and their son Huang Boyuan finally chose to live with his mother He Yin.
In the face of reality, for Huang Zhizhong, he no longer has the opportunity to visit his beloved children as he used to, and only in the rare appointment moment can he get together with his son briefly and hug him to the fullest.
Divorce is undoubtedly a heavy blow to He Yin, this marriage, which is full of countless efforts and expectations, ended silently, and she is trying to restrain the loss and pain in her heart
As a single mother raising children alone, she devotes herself to her career and the care of her children, trying to escape the gloom of life.
However, for Huang Boyuan, the fact that his father was absent for a long time left a deep rift in his heart, and no matter how his father visited him intermittently, it was difficult to heal the huge gap between father and son.
The once happy and warm little family fell apart in the face of the cruel reality, and the shadow of divorce shrouded He Yin's heart, but life still needs to move forward In addition to her busy work, she gradually walked out of the painful experience of losing her marriage.
At a showbiz ceremony in 2012, He Yin met a young and promising movie star - Xu Yunfan, who was born in 1976, is from an ordinary family in Changchun, Jilin Province, He has a tall figure of 1.77 meters, handsome and chic, and his sunny temperament is refreshing.
He not only graduated from the prestigious Beijing Film Academy, but also participated in many widely acclaimed film and television works, such as "Nurhachi", "Red Leaves in the Distant Mountains", "Mother and Son", etc., which have already emerged in the entertainment industry and attracted much attention.
Initially, He Yin was a little hesitant about Xu Yunfan's enthusiastic pursuit, after all, her son Huang Boyuan was 10 years old, and she was worried that the new family relationship might bring harm to the child.
However, Xu Yunfan assured her with the most sincere attitude: "I love you deeply, and at the same time fully accept your son, as long as you are willing to open your heart, I will do my best to integrate into this family"
Hearing this, He Yin was deeply moved, and began to slowly accept Xu Yunfan into his own life, Xu Yunfan cared for this family, and actively participated in every detail of daily life, he took care of his son Huang Boyuan, and established a deep parent-child relationship with him.
They gather together and indulge in the joy of online games; On a hot summer day, they swim in the cool pool to release their energy.
And Xu Yunfan, with his extremely warm enthusiasm and warmth, ignited every corner of this small family! Similarly, Huang Boyuan also accepted this new partner in an imperceptible process, treating him as his brotherly affection.