#2023年度创作挑战#
The "certain girl" often said in the entertainment industry has always had a high gold content, representing the importance and promotion of popular actresses by choreographers and directors.
And Qiong Yao, who created a contemporary bitter drama, the first "Qiong girl" to receive this honor was He Yin.
When Qiong Yao was preparing for the filming of "Grass by the Green River", she did not hesitate to give the role of the female No. 1 pomegranate to this newcomer.
This also made He Yin famous in one fell swoop.
However, He Yin suffered an emotional Waterloo at the peak of his career.
After she married Huang Zhizhong, who is also an actor, she thought that she would eventually become a family, but she didn't know that Huang Zhizhong filed for divorce after his successful career.
The blow to He Yin can be imagined. She had to leave the entertainment industry for a while and face the burden of raising young children alone.
Just when He Yin was emotionally hurt, a man was born - he was Xu Yunfan.
01
Xu Yunfan was born in Changchun City and is an ordinary boy with a dream of film.
Perhaps it was the relationship between his parents who worked and went out all the year round, but he grew up alone in the company of TV and movies, and developed a strong interest in acting since he was a child.
Whenever his parents asked about his future plans, he always said "I want to be an actor" without hesitation.
The family is not optimistic about this actor's profession and feels that it is not reliable at all, but Xu Yunfan is determined to go all out in this direction.
After graduating from high school, he left his hometown of Changchun and came to Beijing alone, and finally entered the acting department of Beijing Film Academy as he wished, starting his official sprint to the film dream.
The four years of college were happy for Xu Yunfan, and immersing himself in acting and film creation was the source of his growth.
The younger students all said that Xu Yunfan is a talented performance "athlete", whether it is a sitcom or a tragic life, he can easily shuttle and change.
However, when he graduated, he did not rush to jump into the tide of the entertainment industry, but chose to go to Canada and spent many years of fulfilling time in a foreign country.
After returning to China, Xu Yunfan was not in a hurry to release a film, eager to become famous overnight.
He clearly knows that the accumulation of acting and acting experience requires a long adjustment and run-in, and there are no shortcuts.
So he started his acting career modestly and low-key, no matter how small the supporting role, he would devote all his strength, scrutinizing and caring for him over and over again, until he entered the play perfectly.
At first, Xu Yunfan could only play inconsequential roles in some campus short films or small online dramas, with a meager salary, but he never complained.
Slowly, his role and popularity also increased, and later, he was able to frequently appear in some big-budget traditional film and television works, and began to have his own small popularity.
In this long tempering, Xu Yunfan gradually accumulated his own acting skills, and also laid a foundation for his emergence in the business world.
02
When the movie dream was slowly taking shape, Xu Yunfan's married life was criticized.
That year he met He Yin, an actress who had been in the limelight for a while and gradually faded out of sight.
He Yin not only has a young son, but also has been questioned because of the shadow of a failed marriage in the past.
Xu Yunfan saw through the desire in her heart at a glance to be understood and cherished.
The encounter between the two is unbelievable but reasonable.
After filming one day, Xu Yunfan passed by the backstage and saw He Yin sitting alone in the dressing room, looking lonely.
He couldn't help but step forward to talk, He Yin was a little resistant at first, but soon opened his heart and confided his heart.
The two are like two steps that have finally aligned with the height, from unfamiliar to familiar, from understanding dependence, their relationship has become closer and closer.
So, on a starry night, Xu Yunfan solemnly proposed to He Yin, promising to support her forever and become the pillar behind her.
"Are you crazy, find a woman with so much baggage!" How can this marriage last long?" When the news of this marriage came out, Xu Yunfan received interrogations from all directions.
Friends and relatives even bluntly advised him to think twice. But he didn't flinch at all, but took care of his newlywed wife more attentively.
Not only that, but he also went against the norm, treating He Yin's son as his own, and devoted himself to this responsibility as a father.
Gradually, when the world saw his sincerity, they no longer speculated about his marriage choice.
03
Speaking of He Yin, it is inevitable to mention her turbulent first love and marriage.
19-year-old He Yin was originally an ordinary girl in the northern countryside, but she was discovered by a talent scout by chance and invited to star in the first play "Jianghu Enmity and Enmity".
Although she has no acting experience, under the careful guidance of the director, He Yin successfully mastered the second female "Spring Flower" in the play and became a blockbuster.
He Yin recalled the situation at that time, which still made her excited: a senior actor told her: "Our industry is a test of acting skills, but it is more important whether you can concentrate without distractions." This sentence has always inspired He Yin to constantly break through himself.
Sure enough, in the "Grass by the Green River" that she participated in next, she completely forgot to enter the role of pomegranate, traveled lightly, showed vitality, and won the unanimous recognition of the director and the audience. Since then, he has made a name for himself in the entertainment industry.
During her appearance in "Mainlander", He Yin met Huang Zhizhong, who was also struggling to move forward on the road of chasing his dreams. The two fell in love at first sight and soon entered into marriage.
At that time, Huang Zhizhong was still unknown, he was grateful to He Yin for his understanding and support, and therefore worked harder in his career.
With He Yin's full help, Huang Zhizhong finally successfully transformed into several works and gradually became a popular student.
While gaining fame and fortune, Huang Zhizhong gradually drifted away, which invisibly cast a shadow on the relationship between the two.
In such a tense situation, Huang Zhizhong met and got very close to the young actor Ke Lan. Colan was smart and generous, and soon replaced He Yin's position in Huang Zhizhong's heart.
In the end, Huang Zhizhong filed for divorce from He Yin. Although He Yin tried his best to keep it, he still failed to save the relationship breakdown.
signed her name on the divorce agreement, which also marked the official end of her 13-year marriage with Huang Zhizhong.
This undoubtedly brought a huge blow to He Yin, who chose to leave the spotlight temporarily and raise her young children alone.
It was at this most difficult moment that Xu Yunfan took the initiative to appear in front of He Yin.
Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate, and the two could actually meet in the deepest part of life. He Yin saw the sincerity in Xu Yunfan's eyes, and therefore their marriage became a reality.
04
For Vanity Fair, Xu Yunfan gave up his career, but he is He Yin's strongest spiritual backing.
As a virtuous helper, he drives He Yin and his children every day, takes care of his daily life, and only hopes that He Yin can devote himself to his acting career with peace of mind.
Under his meticulous care, He Yin lived up to expectations and shined on the screen again and again. Whether it is a costume drama or a family ethics drama, the characters she portrays are deeply loved by the audience.
Gradually, the actress, who had experienced a low point in her relationship, returned to the position of being nominated behind the scenes.
"Thanks to him. Every time he is interviewed, He Yin always speaks so bluntly about his luck.
Indeed, without Xu Yunfan's silent support behind her back, it is indeed unknown whether her career can still reach today's height.
Now whenever He Yin needs to shoot on location, Xu Yunfan will accompany the car, this uncomplaining dedication, He Yin deeply remembers.
Seeing her regain her success when she needed support the most, Xu Yunfan was sincerely proud and relieved for his wife.
Now, they have spent 11 years. Xu Yunfan still shuttles between He Yin and his children every day.
As long as He Yin appears at any award ceremony or annual meeting, people can recognize him at a glance, this man who always stands behind the scenes.
He has looked down on honor and aura, and is only willing to find happiness and meaning in his family like an ordinary person.
And He Yin is also very cautious about every time with his family. Outside of work, she always rushes home as much as possible and cares about everything about her husband and children.
The work-life balance achieved by the couple has also become a model of model marriage in the eyes of many star-chasers.
Write at the end
The story of Xu Yunfan and He Yin may be regarded as an outlier by some people.
gave up his career and chose to accompany He Yin through the vicissitudes of life, even if he was criticized, he took on the responsibility of being a father without complaint.
This series of choices proves Xu Yunfan's selflessness and generosity.
Maybe they have also experienced regrets and tribulations, but in the end they still supported each other through the ups and downs.
For them, this may be the true meaning of happiness.