In 1997, in the crew of the TV series "Mainlander", Huang Zhizhong met He Yin.
That day, he was the first to rush to the crew, saw that there was no one around, and the sound of "clicking" footsteps filled the entire corridor, and suddenly, he stopped, smiled at a poster on the wall.
"Is this girl pretty?" The makeup artist patted him on the shoulder and said.
Huang Zhizhong saw it in his senses, nodded mechanically, and only reacted in the next second, someone came.
"Who is she?" Huang Zhizhong hurriedly asked.
"Qiong Yao girl He Yin!" The makeup artist raised his voice.
"Am I the same as this?" He added.
"I'm more beautiful than a poster," the makeup artist said, squinting his eyebrows.
In this way, the two chatted without a ride, and Huang Zhizhong's heart had already flown to cloud nine, his eyes were like arrows, looking forward to He Yin entering the group every day...
First, the most beautiful Qiong Yao girl
In 1967, He Yin was born in an ordinary family in Sichuan, not as hot as the Sichuan girl, her temperament is warm, and she loves to laugh, and she has no ambitions since she was a child.
As for becoming an actress later, she didn't dare to think about it.
Parents have always been traditional, they don't like their daughter to do bells and whistles, and they arranged her future early.
After graduating from middle school, He Yin followed her parents' advice and was admitted to Chengdu Preschool Normal School, and later became a kindergarten teacher.
At that time, Huang Zhizhong, 2 years younger, was born thousands of miles away in Tianjin, and he was a wild horse that could not be tethered when he was young, naturally loved to toss, and liked to make his own decisions about everything.
At the age of 13, his height soared to 1.8 meters, after which he was selected by a basketball coach to enter the youth team of the Tianjin Sports Engineering Team, impacting the dream of a professional player.
However, after that, he did not break through in height, and finally bid farewell to the team, came to work as a fitter in a textile machinery factory, and filed those big iron pimples on the machine all day, depressed.
One day in 1989, He Yin took the children out on an outing, but was unexpectedly discovered by talent scouts and followed all the way, and later the other party reported to her home, seeing He Yin's outstanding appearance, he invited her to act in a play.
Originally thought that he had encountered a liar, He Yin no longer paid attention, who knows, people heard the address of He Yin's house, visited the door three times, and bitterly persuaded her parents to let He Yin enter the film and television circle.
And this drama is "Jianghu Vengeance", in which He Yin played the role of "Jiaojiao", and has since started his acting career.
The following year, He Yin was admitted to the Sichuan People's Art Theater and became a professional drama actor.
In 1991, Qiong Yao was selecting actors in the Jiangnan area for the TV series "Qingqing Riverside Grass", and many actors such as Ma Jingtao, Liu Xiaoyun and Gui Yalei were in place, but the actress who played "Pomegranate" could not find a suitable one.
Pomegranate is a female worker in the Fujiazhuang embroidery factory, because she has played Guanyin at the temple party on Guanyin's birthday for many years, she is famous in the local area, she is gentle and generous, her heart is not a city, and she is an impeccable good girl.
Qiong Yao is very much looking forward to this role, the person who can play "Guanyin" must have a fairy temperament, but also have the fireworks of an ordinary girl, it is conceivable that this person will be long enough to grow into Qiong Yao's heart.
Just when Qiong Yao was at a loss, the lighting engineer handed a photo of a girl, looking at He Yin, who was bright and kind, Qiong Yao was pleasantly surprised, and immediately contacted her to audition.
"Qingqing Riverside Grass" was broadcast, and it was popular all over the country, and He Yin also became famous overnight because of his amazing performance.
At this time, 22-year-old Huang Zhizhong, at the suggestion of his cousin, resigned from the iron rice bowl for 5 years and went all out to enter the Central Academy of Drama, and later, he became a student in the Chinese Opera Performance Department.
The fate of the two has been communicated, and this is still 6 years since Huang Zhizhong met He Yin.
In 1993, Qiong Yao invited He Yin to shoot a "Plum Blossom Three Alleys - Ghost Husband", two popular TV series, sending the 26-year-old He Yin to the throne of "the first generation of Qiong girls", a household name.
At the same time, she was also called "the most beautiful girl" by the audience, in the face of such an honor, He Yin just humbly said that she could not rank among many beautiful girls, and the audience's praise for her was an encouragement.
Here, in 1995, Huang Zhizhong graduated with excellent grades, went to act in children's dramas, received a monthly salary of 150 yuan, lived in the basement, ate bubble noodles three times a day, and almost ate stomach perforation.
He was really poor, so he went out to pick up some plays, and seeing that it was a dead end to mix like this, he quit his job in a children's theater troupe and began to run tricks with major crews.
Second, choose to marry at the peak
In 1997, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin met in the crew of the TV series "Mainlander".
At that time, he was the first to enter the group, attracted by a poster by He Yin, looking through autumn water every day, looking forward to the big beauty to enter the group quickly, wanting to see the true face.
Soon, He Yin was finally expected by him, saw her push the door and enter, a pair of water apricot-like eyes, flowing gently, bright and compelling, Huang Zhizhong, standing in the distance, looked stunned, thinking: This must be my daughter-in-law.
In the next second, he licked his face and stepped forward to say hello, "Hello, I'm Huang Zhizhong!" ”
He Yin smiled and nodded, but muttered in his heart, "How did the director find this person, it's too civil."
In order to win He Yin, Huang Zhizhong spent a lot of thought, he held the lunch box every day, went to He Yin's dressing room to rub chili peppers to eat, every time he ate snot and tears, but he also pretended to be able to eat, and did not forget to throw the lunch box there before leaving, and then have a second chance encounter.
When filming, Huang Zhizhong paid special attention to He Yin, whether she was cold, hot, or uncomfortable, Huang Zhizhong was the first to come forward to care and take care of her, running more diligently than the agent on the side.
Even if he didn't have a scene, he followed He Yin's ass back, and once, the group deliberately teased him and drove the car away in advance, not letting him follow, and as a result, the brother took a taxi directly and chased after him.
It is said that "martyrs are afraid of pestering", and after the finalization, Huang Zhizhong hugged the beauty back as he wished.
At this time, the career gap between the two is very large, one is a famous female star, the other is an unknown little actor, for this relationship, the outside world is singing and fading.
He Yin was unimpressed, she publicly praised Huang Zhizhong for being kind, innocent, and really good to herself, and she liked this kind of boy with single feelings.
Hearing this, the parents were not happy, among the daughter's many excellent suitors, she chose a poor boy, who could not even afford a marriage house, and her daughter would definitely suffer if she followed him.
Later, Huang Zhizhong specially flew to Sichuan to meet his prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law, knowing that they loved spicy food, specially burned a table of authentic Sichuan food, accompanied his prospective father-in-law to drink and chat, and with three points of drunkenness, he promised: "Please rest assured that I will not let He Yin follow me to live a hard life."
It turned out that in order to leave a good impression on his prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law, before Huang Zhizhong came, he specially found a Sichuan cuisine master and learned to cook Sichuan cuisine for a week, which finally impressed He Yin's parents.
After 8 months of love, the two successfully obtained a license to get married, this year, Huang Zhizhong was 28 years old and He Yin was 30 years old.
After marriage, He Yin followed Huang Zhizhong and moved into an old-fashioned rental house of more than ten square meters, and his life was simple and warm.
However, such a sweet life did not last long, the contradictions between the two became increasingly prominent, for Huang Zhizhong, marrying a female star, although the face is quite glorious, but the heart is like a hundred insects scratching the heart, uncomfortable.
No matter where he went, He Yin was crowded by a group of fans, he was like an outsider, patronizing his wife's success and fame, Huang Zhizhong, who has always been arrogant, felt that he was instigated, and he looked down on himself.
Later, He Yin used his relationship to often pull resources for her husband and recommend the crew, and gradually, Huang Zhizhong's career began to improve a little.
However, he became more and more unhappy, perhaps due to self-esteem, often because of the big things of sesame green beans, the two continued to fight, and the relationship between "strong women and weak men" became a gap in their marriage, insurmountable.
Third, 13 years of love broke Huang Zhizhong
For feelings, He Yin is a traditional and pure woman, no matter when, she is willing to make sacrifices and concessions for love, and in the 5th year of marriage, she decided to have a child for Huang Zhizhong.
In 2002, their son Huang Boyuan was born, and He Yin decided to retire to the family and become the woman behind Huang Zhizhong.
With the support of his wife, Huang Zhizhong devoted himself to his work, and later, he successively starred in dozens of popular film and television works such as "Glory Days", "Lang Tao Sha", "Original Sin", "The Eve of the Founding of the People's Republic of China" and "Once Upon a Time of the Republic of China".
At the same time, he is also a well-known "drama maniac" in the industry, when filming "Daming Dynasty 1566", in order to portray the first Qing official of the Ming Dynasty "Hai Rui", he lost 19 pounds in 12 days.
When taking over the filming of "Infernal Affairs 3", because of the high-intensity shooting progress, Huang Zhizhong started work every day with a quick-acting heart-saving pill in his hand, and his body really couldn't hold on, so he took one to save his life...
Seeing that the eight-foot man had lost weight into a sharp-mouthed monkey cheek, his wife He Yin was distressed, and she realized more that it was not easy for her husband to run around, so she could only do her best to take care of the family so that he would have no worries.
In 2008, with the role of "Yang Liren" in the revolutionary war drama "The Right Way is the Vicissitudes of the World", Huang Zhizhong won the Feitian Award for Outstanding Actor, the Best Actor at the Shanghai TV Festival, and the Best Actor at the 1st Golden Banyan Tree Award.
Knowing that her husband won three awards, his wife He Yin was happier than anyone, and she knew that her husband's years of hard work were finally seen.
Huang Zhizhong, who has advanced bravely in his career, is often sluggish to his family, due to the rhythm of 4 or 5 plays a year, he soaks in the crew almost all year round and rarely has time to accompany his family.
Because of filming, Huang Zhizhong missed his son's birthday many times, and even the kindergarten graduation ceremony, which made him feel guilty to this day, he can only take advantage of the filming gap, take time to go home to see his son, and have to rush back to the crew non-stop.
Over time, his son became stranger to him, and his wife became cold to him.
Trapped between the stove and the children all day, He Yin has long lost the demeanor of the past, where there is still half the appearance of "Qiong Yao girl", her husband cares less and less about himself, and the two quarrel in addition to suspicion.
The young son, trembling and living in his parents' war, often like a wounded kitten, with innocent and pitiful eyes, to guess his parents' state of mind.
Every time she sees her son's eyes like that, He Yin's heart is like a knife, she doesn't want her son to be hurt, and she also tries to make peace with Huang Zhizhong, but the relationship between the two is difficult to return to the past.
It is said that there are many popular people, since Huang Zhizhong became famous, the media has captured his private life every three to five times, because of the filming of "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes", he and the rival actor Ke Lan broke out a scandal.
Although Ke Lan mentioned that "we are just friends", rumors are still rampant.
For the sake of her son and herself, He Yin, who was overwhelmed, finally divorced Huang Zhizhong peacefully in 2011, ending the 13-year relationship, and she took her son to live alone.
Later, Huang Zhizhong was photographed of a secret private meeting with Ke Lan, and the relationship between the two was solidified.
After learning the news, He Yin said very calmly: "If they are true, I bless them and wish them well."
At the same time, she also said that the two cannot become husband and wife and are friends, and they will raise their children together.
After the divorce, He Yin never said a bad word about her ex-husband, and in front of her son, she also maintained her father's image, and the two worked hard to provide a normal growth environment for their children.
Huang Zhizhong is also a competent father, he often comes to visit and accompany his son, occasionally picks up his son to live with him for a while, picks him up from school, washes and cooks for him, and plays games with him.
Huang Boyuan's relationship with his father gradually warmed up, and he came out of the sadness of his parents' divorce, he only knew that his parents loved him more than before.
4. Happiness after remarriage
In 2012, a year after the divorce, He Yin also met her "hit person", but when she faced feelings again, she still hesitated.
The other party is Xu Yunfan, 9 years younger than himself, graduated from Beijing Film Academy, and Huang Xiaoming and Chen Kun are classmates, once an actor and director, with a talented appearance and a solid family.
In 2010, after returning from studying at York University in Canada, he successively starred in film and television dramas such as "Nurhachi", "Red Leaves in the Distant Mountains", "Mother and Son Once" and "Full Autumn".
For He Yin, she is a divorced woman with children, and she has long been a flower of failure, and Xu Yunfan's pursuit made her retreat.
However, Xu Yunfan fell in love with the beautiful and generous He Yin at first sight, he didn't care about the other party's past experience, and even felt sorry for her daughter with a child, and had a hard time.
In order to make He Yin accept himself, he often visited the mother and son, cooked for them, taught Huang Boyuan to swim and draw, and the little one also liked this uncle very much, often shared his little secrets with him, and relied on him very much.
Although younger than He Yin, Xu Yunfan is steady, mature, and a good man entrusted for life, who asked for his son's opinion, and He Yin and Xu Yunfan came together.
The two publicly showed their love on social platforms, and Xu Yunfan posted a Weibo confession, "Life and death meet, do not leave." Pray for an early arrival and join hands with the Son. ”
"If you do not leave, I will not give up." He Yin responded through the air.
In the end, the two achieved positive results in cultivation and gave Huang Boyuan a complete family, and over the years, Xu Yunfan treated his stepson as his own, and the relationship between the two was particularly good, which made He Yin very pleased.
Today, his son Huang Boyuan is also 20 years old, perfectly inheriting his parents' genes, tall and handsome, excellent in school, and also embarked on the road of art, began to act, and is also very musically talented, composing his own lyrics and music.
Seeing his excellent son, He Yin couldn't close his mouth with a smile, and he also became his greatest pride.
Here, Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan's relationship has been separated for more than 10 years, Ke Lan is a non-married, she once said that she will never get married in her life, and in 2021, 52-year-old Huang Zhizhong was exposed to be still single.
Nowadays, He Yin has no fetters in life, her son is an adult, his career is independent, she and Xu Yunfan can enjoy life well, pick up the plays they like, travel if not, and live a very comfortable life.