People to middle age from the bed to the room, there are no couples to live several times a year, in the end is nothing more than these 4 reasons! 1. Life stress. The life pressure of middle-aged couples can be said to be all-round

People to middle age from the bed to the room,

There are no couples living together several times a year,

At the end of the day, there are only 4 reasons!

1. Life stress.

The life pressure of middle-aged couples can be said to be all-round,

In the workplace, we have to face the "law of 35 years old",

If you are not careful, you will lose your job;

In the family, there is a situation where there are old and young,

All kinds of exhaustion, physical and mental exhaustion;

Economically, mortgages and car loans have a bunch of practical problems,

Although I have worked very hard,

But the quality of life is still not guaranteed,

Under such cruel pressure,

A lot of people don't have the energy to run a marriage.

I am not in the mood to live a conjugal life.

2. Aesthetic fatigue.

The people who looked at each other again,

After being together for a long time, I don't feel it anymore.

Especially after three years of pain and seven years of itching,

The passion that was once gradually returned to flat,

What was once fresh is gradually tasteless,

Coupled with age, both people are no longer the same as when they were young, and it is more difficult to spark love.

3. Inner anxiety.

For many women, 35 is a scary age.

Both to cope with the child's adolescence,

Also beware of "forty-one flowers for men",

All kinds of prevention of third parties interfering in marriage,

Emotions rise and fall, and the heart is full of torment.

In this state,

How can there be the energy to cater to men to live a conjugal life?

4. Changed hearts.

Two people have been together for a long time, if they will not manage their feelings,

It's easy to walk and walk and your heart changes,

And a harmonious and happy married life,

Many times it is necessary to do the premise of feelings,

If one of the parties changes his mind,

Then conjugal life is boring.

It is said that love is a chemical reaction, and the marriage has been long,

Love will disappear and sublimate into affection,

The passions of the past will also become the trivialities of life, involving each other.

At this time, if you want to stabilize the relationship between husband and wife, you must learn to manage the marriage, learn to let the other party fall in love with yourself again, and ignite the passion that was once there.

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