Author: Number One Emotion
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The relationship between people pays attention to the sincerity and understanding between each other, especially in the married life, whether it is between husband and wife, or between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or between relatives and families, they should treat each other sincerely, only in this way can we establish a harmonious family atmosphere.
Especially the mother-in-law relationship that has been criticized by people, if two people have been in a state of hatred and killing, not only can not exchange each other's sincerity and understanding, but even affect the harmony of the family, so that the relationship between husband and wife has also fallen into a situation of rupture.
If the mother-in-law always feels that the daughter-in-law is an outsider, or the daughter-in-law always wants to pick the problems of the mother-in-law, then the relationship between these two people is bound to bring harm and contradictions.
Case:
His name is Liu Shuai, and when he fell in love with his wife, he was opposed by his family, because Liu Shuai was a college student, and his girlfriend had not even attended high school, and he always felt that the other party was not worthy of his son.
But Liu Shuai's attitude is very resolute, and in the end the mother did not beat Liu Shuai, reluctantly agreed to the marriage of the two people, but since the marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not very good, at first Liu Shuai still stood in the position of his wife, and gradually formed a kind of neglect, and there was no less unhappiness between husband and wife because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In short, a lot of contradictions broke out between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, since Liu Shuai began to turn a blind eye, his wife was bullied by the whole family, although she was very aggrieved, but she has not chosen to divorce, on the one hand, for the sake of the children, and then for the opportunity to retaliate.
First of all, let's talk about the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law because of confinement.
Since Liu Shuai's wife is pregnant, her mother-in-law is also very interested in no longer looking for trouble with her daughter-in-law, but she has never taken care of her daughter-in-law, because she has to go out to play mahjong every day, and even order a takeaway for dinner, and almost never eat the meals made at home.
But this is already very good for Liu Shuai's wife, at least the ear roots are clean, there is no quarrel and contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but when it comes to confinement, Liu Shuai's wife began to make trouble, and took the initiative to hope that the mother-in-law could help her, but she was rejected by the mother-in-law.
What is even more infuriating is that even if the mother-in-law is idle at home, she has never entered her son's confinement room, let alone cooked for her, and her husband was also particularly busy during that time, and Liu Shuai's wife helplessly took her mother over.
Although the confinement has been successfully passed, the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has evolved into hatred, but the family did not pay attention at that time.
In addition, the daughter-in-law chose not to serve the mother-in-law who was hospitalized in order to fight back.
One day at noon, Liu Shuai was still at work and did not come home, and her mother-in-law accidentally slipped down when she went downstairs, when Liu Shuai's wife was at home, she did not go up to help, but made a call to the hospital.
After the doctor received the person, he asked who would follow him to the car, and the daughter-in-law said: "Let her go by herself, now the family can't live without people." ”
At that time, the mother-in-law also muttered a few words, perhaps scolding her, but Liu Shuai's daughter-in-law did not care about these things, thinking that you deserved to suffer.
After Liu Shuai returned home, his wife told her husband about this matter, and Liu Shuai ran to the hospital without having time to ask, and did not return home until eleven o'clock at night, and came up to his wife and said, "Tomorrow you will go to serve your mother." ”
Liu Shuai's wife said directly, "I don't want to go." ”
Liu Shuai heard his mother say in the hospital that his daughter-in-law saw her fall down and did not go to help, originally he was angry in his heart, and when he heard his wife directly reject his words, he came up and slapped his wife.
At that time, the wife sneered: "I can't be cruel to your whole family, divorce it!" ”
Since then, no matter how much Liu Shuai pleaded for his wife's forgiveness, his wife did not choose to continue to be together, because her heart had been slapped awake and she did not want to continue to be bullied by their whole family.
Case Study:
The two people who were not easy to come together were finally broken on the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and had to be lamented, which shows that "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and family peace" are not empty.
The relationship between people should have been sincere and understood, especially between families, but the mother-in-law in the text did not understand the daughter-in-law's difficulty, and the daughter-in-law was not the lord who endured being bullied, which eventually led to the breakdown of the family.
Therefore, it is very important to get along with each other, in the marriage of husband and wife, mother-in-law relationship, family relationship, etc., are the need for sincerity and understanding to maintain, once each other lose these two things, it means that the relationship is about to break.