In fact, everyone's potential will surprise themselves, when we choose a good target, no matter how difficult the road, we can do it well. We need to aim high; we must act with openness and be prepared to suffer failures alone from time to time. The most important thing is to persevere! In the process of pursuing success, self-discipline, self-esteem, and self-reliance are the three essential elements, and for anyone who needs to overcome many hardships, experience various misfortunes, and cross layers of obstacles, as long as they have these three elements, plus the confidence that crushes everything, they can achieve achievements that are difficult for others to achieve.
This happened when a college student was studying abroad:
There is a girl, after graduating from the School of Architecture of Tsinghua University, successfully got an acceptance letter from the Graduate School of Harvard University in the United States. However, I didn't expect everything to be ready, but I was refused two consecutive visas at the U.S. Embassy, and the girl was very sad and hid in the dormitory.
A good classmate advised her why not find a consulting company to help, very smart. I heard that there was a sister who was refused three times four years ago, and then signed again after four years, and then I didn't have it, and then I found a consulting company, soaked there for half a month, and passed it smoothly.
The girl was moved and found a consulting company called "Confidence". There were only three people in the company, and the boss plus two assistants. The owner took the girl
I read the answer materials and said that your materials are no problem. The girl was asked to go into detail about the two rejections. The girl whispered softly
Speaking, eyes downcast, head also low, do not dare to look at the boss, the boss listened, interrupt the girl: don't say it, your problem is here.
It turns out that the girl is introverted, not good at interacting with raw people, blushing when she speaks, and always loves to lower her eyebrows, giving people a feeling of no white letter. The boss said to the girl very experiencedly: You mainly train three things in our company: raise your head, look up, and speak loudly. So, for two weeks, the two assistants did nothing, and tried to get the girl into the habit of raising her head and looking at people, and trained her to speak loudly.
The third visa, half habit, half deliberate, the girl always held her head high, her eyes stared directly at the visa officer, talking, coping like a stream, calmly. The visa officer looked suspiciously at the first two refusal records, and muttered in his mouth, "Not confident, swallowing, not daring to look up", as if he was not talking about this girl at all, and finally, he smiled slightly: "You are very good, you can't see a reason to reject you, the United States welcomes you." "The whole process was only 5 minutes.
So look up in the face of things, look up, and speak loudly! This is the most straightforward way to develop self-confidence! There will also be many times in life to "refuse the visa", when you become confident, please ask, what reason is there to "refuse" you again?
In fact, self-confidence is an intrinsic spiritual force, which can inspire people to overcome difficulties and make continuous progress. Only people with full confidence can immerse themselves in life everywhere and realize their ideals. The most important thing to overcome adversity is to build firm confidence, self-confidence can make people defy difficulties, overcome evil, and concentrate all their wisdom and energy to meet various challenges.
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