Should I distance myself from the opposite sex when I am married? I think we should keep a distance, everyone is an adult, to avoid others talking nonsense, we should understand the fearful truth of people's words, maintain an appropriate distance, reduce unnecessary misunderstandings and troubles, it is good for everyone, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, we must do ah.
In the recent hit TV series "Perfect Partner", everything wu Min suffered from marriage is her own choice, as soon as there is something to find someone else's husband, it is enough to see that this woman has a problem with the logic of handling things, she chooses everything herself, and the bad results are all attributed to others, understanding is more important than love, does she really understand her husband? Obviously she doesn't understand, she probably doesn't understand what true love is, what real marriage is.
Wu Min's poor people must have something to hate! Besides, Wu Min said to Sun Lei when he had something to do; he didn't send his husband home address at night; Wu Min's husband hired a senior nanny, and the child didn't go with the nanny but only went with Sun Lei; pregnant with the second child? He also went to the laboratory. When Wu Min is uncomfortable, Sun Lei, who has always liked to be central air conditioning, still brews brown sugar water for Wu Min to drink? The practices of these two people are inappropriate, and it is easy to fall in love with each other or cause misunderstandings between others without maintaining the appropriate distance between friends and colleagues. Friends who may be married may not think so, but many married friends should understand that such behavior is inappropriate.
This plot is indeed too real, and the man feels that being good to anyone is his merit, but it is actually just to maintain his personality. In my case, I think of a married man to take care of a woman who is not his own loved one. It's all a kind of hurt to your wife. Because if I knew this, I would be jealous, I would be angry, I would be aggrieved. A man who doesn't know how to reject others is not trustworthy. Whether it is a woman or a man, after marriage, you should keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, you feel that you are kind, but everything is developing and changing, after all, no one can guarantee that they do not move their feelings, this thing can not be seen and touched, but it will slowly breed after a long time.
Of course, I have always been opposed to saying everything to death, saying that it is too absolute. We can't say one-size-fits-all that taking care of other women is sorry for our wives. If the wife or other people are present, and take care of relatives and friends with the wife or other people, I think it is all okay, it is all the common feeling of people, it is all very good. If you take care of others alone and don't let others know about it, then such behavior is dangerous. If someone finds out one day, it is really unreasonable.
Being a person is still good to be bright and upright, and being a person comes freely. If you do not deliberately conceal everything, think more about everything comprehensively, and think more about what others will think, then it is not easy to cause everyone to misunderstand and suspect. Being a person who is bright and upright not only wins the recognition of colleagues, but also is an important way to maintain the marriage relationship. If there is a lack of sincerity in the relationship between husband and wife, then everything else will become empty talk and eventually become a joke. Men who have friends of the opposite sex outside will say pure friendship to their wives, and in turn ask their wives not to allow friends of the opposite sex outside, which shows that men actually understand men, and men themselves cannot control themselves. In fact, as long as you put yourself in the shoes of the person, it is easy to understand what others will think, and if you can't do something, don't ask others to do it. Do not do to others what you do not want.
In fact, people and people need to have a distance, no one is suitable for you to get along day and night, inseparable. If there is, then this person is yourself. Whether we get married or not, we must keep our distance from others. People and people, whether they are parents or children, or friends, relatives and lovers, should have a sense of boundaries and proportions. Everyone lives, there is always a need for a person to face alone, there will always be something that a person has to do, there will always be a situation where they need to make their own choices, it is impossible to treat themselves as a vassal of others, listen to what others say, and then how they do it, so there is no point in living. To be a person or to be an independent individual, to have their own thinking, to have their own pursuits, to have their own hobbies, to have their own persistence and disdain, so that everyone can be different, the world will be wonderful.
The world of feelings is really too small and too small, can only hold two people, can not tolerate other members of the opposite sex, even if it is a particularly good friend, too close to easy to have accidents, remember, at any time, talk and do things, to keep a distance. We must be sober, and the sense of proportion should be mastered, which is also a safe distance to maintain friendship, which is also the protection of each other.
Back to the topic itself, it is all married, if you tangle with other members of the opposite sex every day, what is the matter? In the heart to have a number of ha, not only single to grasp the sense of proportion, after marriage a sense of proportion is more important, if you really encounter problems, or have emotions to vent, and friends to talk to is just one of them, solve the problem, there are many other ways to do it, you say?
Some people say that a woman's friends of the opposite sex are also indispensable regulators in life, especially the blue-faced confidant, which is the fourth type of emotion in addition to family, friendship and love. Do you agree with that? Do you think you should keep an appropriate distance from friends of the opposite sex? How should it be maintained?