Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a particularly difficult relationship, either the mother-in-law can't look at baoma, or baoma can't look at the mother-in-law, after all, the two sides are not mother and daughter, it is certainly impossible to make like a mother and daughter, but sometimes some of the practices of baoma may really be a little inappropriate, so it will attract the mother-in-law's disdain, and even disgust.
Nana is the only daughter of the family, from birth is the heart of the family, the husband chosen when getting married is also local, so usually Nana as long as it is a rest to go straight to the mother's home, sometimes the mother-in-law at home to do what delicious, Nana will also bring a little to the mother-in-law when she leaves, at the beginning of this mother-in-law is still very happy, but the time is long, the mother-in-law also obviously shows her dissatisfaction.
Even sometimes when chatting with neighbors, I will complain that Nana is really not out of the house, everything is taken to the mother's house, I don't know how much the mother's family lacks these things, do something that people look down on. Slowly, the mother-in-law's talk to Nana also began to change, directly from the original love to the current dislike, and even sometimes there will be white eyes, even the husband's attitude towards Nana has changed.
Therefore, after marriage, Bao Mom should pay more attention to her words and deeds, and it is usually best not to do these two things, otherwise it is not only easy to be looked down upon by her mother-in-law, but also easier to be hated by Bao Dad:
1, like to tell the mother-in-law about the mother-in-law's affairs
Most of the women get together to talk about short topics in some parents, spit on colleagues, spit on husbands, this is very normal, but Bao Mom sometimes don't be too stupid, no matter when and no matter who it is, it is best not to talk about their own family things, especially to the mother-in-law.
At the same time, it also reminds Bao Mom, sometimes don't be too sentimental, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to harmonize, don't think that if you dig your heart and lungs out of your mother-in-law, your mother-in-law will return to Li Yitao, no matter what, the in-laws and the mother-in-law are not relatives, often in front of the in-laws, the mother-in-law's family is not, it will only make the mother-in-law look down on her family, let alone to herself.
2, everything wants to take to the mother's house
Mothers remember, no matter when it comes, do not take the things of the in-laws to the mother-in-law's home, do not think that they are filial piety, such a practice will only make the in-laws feel that the mother-in-law's family is very unproductive, want everything, insatiable, for a long time, although the mouth does not say, but the heart will certainly be uncomfortable, from the heart to look down on the mother.
At the same time, if Bao Mom's such a practice is seen by Bao Dad, then Bao Dad will naturally feel uncomfortable in his heart, after all, people are selfish, Bao Dad will feel that Bao Ma is taking his own family things to fill Bao Ma's mother's family, and slowly Bao Dad will also look down on Bao Dad in his heart, and even hate Bao Ma even more.