College students read at night
Today I saw a cloud shaped like a deer, photographed and sent to you.
At noon, I accidentally found a super delicious snack in the supermarket and photographed it and sent it to you.
Tonight's sunset is so beautiful, take a picture and send it to you.
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The desire to share is such that we collide with interesting things in our lives, and our first reaction is to whom we want to share the emotions of the moment.
Do you feel that the desire to share is a kind of romance?
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For Momo, the answer to this question is a sweet affirmation.
This is the fourth year that Momo and her boyfriend have fallen in love, and the two are still like glue in the more than 1400 days of getting along day and night, and they are the "fairy lovers" in the eyes of the people around them.
Even if he and her boyfriend are not in the same school, Momo still has a way to maintain an intimate relationship between the two.
Cute green-eyed cats and cats at school, the first flowers to bloom in early spring, the hottest dishes in the cafeteria, funny things to do with roommates...
Through QQ and WeChat, his experience of the day is transmitted to his boyfriend on the other end of the screen, like an invitation letter, inviting the other party to share every little detail of life with him.
Correspondingly, the boyfriend will also share what he has seen and heard in another place, and Momo walks into a school that is completely new to him. "Living" two campus lives at the same time, and the boyfriend is his own eyes.
There are always many people who express envy for Momo's love, and many couples have asked Momo for advice on ways to keep the freshness and love between partners.
Momo's answer to this is: pour all the desire to share into this love.
Everyone is an individual, and we can't directly spy on the thoughts and feelings of others unless they are willing to share them with you.
It's not easy to get this permission, and someone who is willing to invite you to share her life is precious.
If a person is willing to share with you the most detailed bits and pieces of his life, he is willing to open his heart to you and congratulate you, this is a great blessing in life.
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Nana can be said to be a campus figure.
She has social friends all over the campus and can always greet many people when walking on the road.
Nana's life is varied: visiting a new niche exhibition, trying out interesting crafts, digging up unpopular and unbiased books in the library, occasionally taking a trip to enjoy a different kind of scenery...
Nana enjoyed it, and also liked to take photos to share in her own space or circle of friends, with carefully prepared copy, the number of likes soared, and in a short while she received hundreds of likes.
"I like what people give me and the circle of friends like." Nana is blunt about this, she feels that liking is a positive feedback, indicating that the life she shares has been seen and approved by others, which is why she has a strong desire to share.
Everyone's life is different, and due to many factors, we may not be able to experience other people's lives, and we can't go to the places where others have traveled for a short period of time.
Through the space and circle of friends of others, we can see another way of life and experience - others are the window, through which we can see a new horizon.
As Nana's space grew in number of visitors and likes, so did her friends, many of whom came to see her because of the interesting moments she shared.
"Maybe socializing is a time-consuming and laborious thing for others, but I really like making friends and sharing life."
Nana's space shared her own spring photography today, how many likes will she get this time?
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"The desire to share is not romantic, it is an impolite distraction."
Xiaoling does not like to be shared by others, to be precise, it is an excessive desire to share.
Xiaoling has a friend around her who likes to share her life with her, but her desire to share is too strong, and even the small thing that she accidentally wore the wrong socks today has to talk to her for half a day.
Once or twice was fine, but every time it was like this, it was difficult for XiaoLing not to get bored.
"I can accept your sharing, but sesame-sized things also have to pull me endlessly, and this sharing is very disturbing."
Xiaoling also tried to gently explain to her friend that she felt disturbed, but was caught off guard by her friend's unbelievable expression: "I just want to share my life with you, isn't this what friends should do?" ”
The desire to share is indeed a great way to enhance a relationship and make it warm up quickly, but it is also a double-edged sword.
In the end, it is difficult to pass on anything substantive, and it can only add to the annoyance of others - not everyone is willing to listen patiently to meaningless words.
Some people like this kind of sharing in detail and think that they have been uniquely valued; others are very annoying and feel that they are wasting their time.
Is there something wrong with the desire to share? No, but excessive desire to share, especially those that have already caused trouble to friends, needs to be reconsidered.
Xiaoling finally chose to make her words clear with her friends, and the friends realized that the intimacy she had always thought had become a burden for her.
Heard that the desire to share is the highest level of romance?
The desire to share is the highest level of romance, romance lies in the desire to share to give others a way to understand you, the highest level lies in the sense of proportion and the grasp of distance.
I hope that everyone's sharing can receive positive feedback, and I hope that your life is full of beautiful moments worth sharing.
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Author | Zhang Jie
Edit | Yang Qinyu
Review and issue | Wang Longlong
Review | Wang CenYu
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