I have heard such love words: ", hot and cold is not love, near and far is the spare tire, understand these 14 words, your feelings will take a lot less detours." "What is a spare tire, as the name suggests, is not needed now and is prepared, and the car has a spare tire." No one wants to be a spare tire, but there are times when you are inexplicably treated as a spare tire.
It is said that men's mouths deceive people's ghosts, yes, men's rhetoric often makes women fall into the vortex of feelings without knowing it. But I think some men tend to reveal their true purpose in what they do, no matter how well they are disguised. Whether a man loves or not, don't listen to what he says, but see what he will do and how he will treat you.
I am afraid that you treat men sincerely, but the other party treats you as a spare tire, thinks that you are not worth mentioning, and will only think of you when there is no other choice, such a woman is too stupid.
Men who treat you like this, most of them treat you as a spare tire, don't be stupid and don't know:
1. Cry poor with you, be stingy with you.
Xiao Wu is a very miserly person, when in love, always cry poor, saying that he has no money and is under pressure. And the girlfriend Nana, is a humble person, feel that the two people should share together, because their fat looks are not good, he did not dislike himself, so when he met such a man, he had to cling to it.
Not only is valentine's day, there are no gifts, and when you eat and shop, you let your girlfriend pay money. Nana thinks that as long as he is by his side, how can it be good, and as a result, Xiao Wu proposed to break up, saying that she found a richer girlfriend.
Men who are willing to spend money for women are not necessarily love, but they are not willing to spend money for women, they must not love. If a man has no girlfriend in his heart, can't help but cry with her poor, and even spend some money to be distressed for half a day, such a man shows that he doesn't love women at all, don't be stupid and unclear. Because when a man loves a woman deeply, he is eager to give her everything he has without complaining.
2. Very selfish.
Although it is said that "people do not do it for themselves, the heavens are damned", but after having a deeply loved person, they will consider each other's feelings more, are willing to put each other's feelings first, are willing to give each other the best of everything, and will put each other's needs first.
When Fifi is in love, she always feels that her boyfriend is very selfish, because if she thinks about whether she is beneficial to herself in advance, she first thinks about whether it is good for herself. Even eating together was, and before Fifi came, he would eat first himself. As long as there is a quarrel, he will say that Fifi is not good, anyway, he himself has no problem, the fault is the other party.
Fifi loves him very much and is willing to tolerate him, but no matter how much tolerance there is, there is a limit. Over time, Fifi felt very bored, with a selfish person, except for getting angry, she didn't get anything. And the boyfriend, who can't wait to propose a breakup, said that his first love is back, and he didn't take her seriously.
When you really fall in love with someone, you will not be very selfish, you will think in a different position, and you will think about problems from the perspective of the other party. And a selfish man, most likely, treats the other party as a spare tire.
3. Don't take you to meet the people around you.
When you really love a person, when you love a person very much, you love the mountains and seas, and you can't wait to marry each other home. When Zhang Peng was in love, he said a bunch of sweet words to his girlfriend, but he didn't take his girlfriend to see his friends, let alone go home. At a dinner, he said that his girlfriend's education is low and not beautiful enough, and he does not take her to see his family because he knows that he can't go long, and now there is no suitable person around, prepare first, if you meet the right person, you will definitely break up.
When you really fall in love with a person, when you identify a person, you will let the other person integrate into your own life, after all, you hope that the other party will live with yourself in the future.
In getting along, men are with women, but do not take her to see the people around them, must not want to admit her in their hearts, at most treat her as a spare tire, don't be stupid and don't know, when you meet such a man, don't insist, letting go is the best choice.