There is a line in the TV series "Dear Child", "Your parents will always be your biggest backing and the people who can understand you the most."
But parents in the world are not all competent, when the child is in trouble and needs shelter, the parents happen to be absent, who provides the children with a sheltered embrace?
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At this time, those who stand out may be aunts, perhaps uncles, or well-meaning people who are not related by blood.
The old saying has clouds, the old and the old, the young and the young, these well-meaning people, when they rescue relatives or strangers, show tenderness and love that people are touched.
When they stood in front of the children and extended a generous helping hand, it was as if the light of the whole world shone in from behind them, illuminating the children's gray childhood and lighting a lamp for the long road ahead.
Childhood in the absence of parents
"Aunt, what disease have I got?" When will it be good? At this time, Liao Fei's face was emaciated, her body was small, and her eyes were tired that did not belong to this age, but she was still ignorant of her illness and innocently asked her aunt.
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Her aunt Liao Yi bit her lip and forced the tears back before she replied, "Fifi, the doctor said you will be fine soon." When it's time to be discharged from the hospital, your aunt will take you to eat delicious food! ”
After listening to her aunt's words, Fifi fell asleep satisfactorily, not knowing whether there was a mother in the dream.
The 9-year-old girl in the hospital bed is called Liao Fei, born in Guangdong. Her family is ordinary, her parents are working outside the home, rarely come home, she can only live with her grandparents.
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Originally, although Fei Fei could not see her parents on weekdays, she seemed a little lonely, but as long as she thought of being able to reunite with her parents during the Spring Festival, she had some hope in her heart.
Therefore, the little girl always squatted obediently in front of the house, counting the days with her fingers, thinking about how long it would take to see her parents.
However, in 2018, her parents divorced, and her father continued to work in other places before returning home during the Spring Festival. Mom, on the other hand, showed up less and less, and Fifi didn't even know where she was going and couldn't look for her.
If nothing had happened, Fifi might have been like other left-behind children, continuing her life in neglect, and although she grew up lonely, she would always have grown up peacefully.
In February 2021, the State Council Information Office announced the number of left-behind children in rural mainland China – 6.436 million, and Fifi, just one of these huge figures, is not the luckiest, but it is not the most tragic.
However, on August 9, 2021, bad luck befell this innocent and cute little girl. Fifi was diagnosed with leukemia at Shenzhen Children's Hospital, and at this time, she was only nine years old, and she had not yet had time to experience many beautiful things, and she did not expect to come to the bustling metropolis for the first time, but because of medical treatment.
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Moreover, on this night when the disaster suddenly came, Fei Fei was accompanied not by her father or mother, but by her aunt, Liao Yi.
After Fei Fei fell asleep, Liao Yi came to the secluded corridor and called to tell her brother the news. Fifi's dad and grandma were incredulous when they found out.
In fact, when Liao Yi first heard the results of Fei Fei's initial diagnosis, he was also unbelievable, which made his brother send the child to Shenzhen, go to the big hospital for re-examination, and do a bone marrow puncture test, but the results were still exactly the same as before.
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Liao Yi still remembers that when she first got the test report, she was surprised and asked the doctor: "Is this true?" We Fifi are only nine years old, how did we get this disease? For this situation, the doctor obviously saw more, just waved his hand, told her that the test results will not deceive, although he understands the mood of the patient's family, but still recommends that the patient accept it as soon as possible and cooperate with the treatment as soon as possible."
When Fifi's father and grandmother arrived, the family chatted for a long time before they reluctantly accepted the facts in front of them. Among them, Grandma felt remorse for this, she told Liao Yi that since June 2021, Fifi has often had nosebleeds, sometimes before going to school, sometimes after eating, and needs to often prepare tissues to avoid staining clothes.
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At that time, she thought that her granddaughter was bleeding because she had just entered the third grade, she was a little nervous about the final exam, and the weather was hot and dry, which made her nosebleed, so she didn't care too much.
Until the summer vacation, Fifi had a few high fevers for no reason, and after taking anti-fever drugs, it was not good, and Grandma was anxious, took her to the hospital in the town to see a doctor, and at first did not diagnose anything, and it took some time to find out that it was leukemia.
When Grandma said this, she shook her head and sighed, feeling that she had not taken good care of the child, delayed the treatment, and felt guilty. Fifi's father and aunt listened, and hugged her with kind words of comfort, saying that as long as the whole family worked together, they would always be able to get through this difficult time.
Love is not absent
"Auntie, now that I'm sick, my mother will come to see me, right?" When will it come? Lying on the hospital bed, Fifi's eyes were full of anticipation.
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Liao Yi couldn't bear to tell her the truth, so he made up a white lie: "Yes, as long as we Fifi obediently obey and cooperate with the treatment, my mother will come back one day." ”
Fifi listened and smiled: "Well, I will cooperate with the treatment!" ”
In fact, since Liao Fei's parents divorced in 2018, both daughters have followed their fathers, perhaps not wanting to see their ex-husbands, or perhaps because work is too busy, and their mother rarely visits them.
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At this moment, Fifi is so seriously ill, of course her father has to inform his ex-wife and express his hope that she will come to visit and take care of his daughter. In addition, Fifi's father also hopes that his ex-wife can come to the hospital to participate in bone marrow matching, and if it is successful, his daughter will be saved.
Unexpectedly, Fifi's mother's attitude was very firm, saying that she did not want to come to see her sick daughter, nor did she want to spend time on bone marrow matching, and even said that she wanted to "break off" the mother-daughter relationship with her daughter.
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Although there is no legal provision to sever paternity in mainland law, in real life, when the parent-child relationship deteriorates, some people often claim to "sever ties" with parents or children.
Although such a claim does not have any legal effect, for the listener, it has a sharp pain in the heart, and often deeply hurts the hearts of loved ones.
At this time, Fifi was fighting the disease, but her mother ignored her, was unwilling to spend a penny on Fifi's treatment, and even said such a desperate word, which undoubtedly made onlookers sad and angry. Fifi's father and aunt hid the truth in order to avoid her sadness, often making up stories for her, trying to give her hope.
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After the family learned about Fifi's condition, they inquired from many parties and consulted the attending physician, understanding that follow-up matching, surgery and recovery require a lot of money, and the survival rate is not high, and various sequelae and rejection reactions may endanger the patient's life, and in the end it is likely that people will have both money and money.
Although the family is not rich, the family is reluctant to give up Fifi, and tries their best to raise money to get effective treatment.
But on the question of "who will take care of Fifi?", they have made a mistake. Fifi's father still has to go back to work, otherwise he can't earn money to support Fifi's follow-up treatment, and grandma has to take care of another granddaughter, and he doesn't have enough time to accompany Fifi for treatment.
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In this case, other families may choose to hire a caregiver to help, but on the one hand, Fifi is still young, and the caregiver is afraid of negligence; on the other hand, the family's savings are not enough to pay for medical expenses, where is the money to pay the caregiver?
After discussion, aunt Liao Yi stood up and said that she had time to take care of Fifi. As a "post-90s", she has just worked for a few years, has not yet married, it is a good time to fight for her career, but for Fifi is willing to temporarily resign, accompanied by her to run all over the north and south of the river to seek medical treatment.
In this way, Fifi is still lucky. Although childhood lacked the company of her parents, although there was a mother who was not responsible enough, fortunately, there was a kind aunt, and the family worked wholeheartedly for her treatment, and in the process of her treatment, although the mother was absent, love was not absent.
A long way to seek medical treatment
When Fifi's condition worsened, the attending physician advised the patient to seek medical treatment in Beijing, where there were better medical conditions and a greater chance of success.
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So Fei Fei's father returned to her hometown to borrow money, and her aunt Liao Yi took her to Beijing by plane. On the plane, Fifi seemed to be in good spirits, looking curiously at the sky outside the window, constantly pulling her aunt to ask questions. After all, it was her first time on a plane, and everything she saw felt fresh.
"Aunt, will the stars in Beijing be bigger and brighter?"
"Aunt, when I get to Beijing, will my illness get better?"
"Aunt, can we go see the Great Wall?" What about Tiananmen? ”
Liao Yi patiently answered her question, and in the eyes of others, perhaps it was just a mother and daughter who were going to Beijing, excitedly looking forward to the scenery of the destination.
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But in fact, after the plane landed, they traveled all the way to Yanda Lu Daopei Hospital in Hebei Province, which is said to have a set of treatment for leukemia.
After being admitted to the hospital, the doctor re-formulated the treatment plan for Fifi: first do two cycles of chemotherapy, and then if you wait for the right bone marrow, you will immediately undergo a bone marrow transplant.
After Liao Yi listened, he carefully asked about the medical expenses. The doctor told her frankly that the operation required about half a million preparations. This can make them worry again, the family is already destitute, where to go to collect this money?
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In the dead of night, Liao Yi was still tossing and turning, unable to sleep. Suddenly, with a flash of inspiration, she thought of a sum of money, if she took it out, she could make up fifi's medical expenses!
This money is the dowry that Liao Yi has saved for himself over the years. Thinking of this, she immediately entrusted someone to sell her car, and withdrew all the savings, and her brother also tried his best to find a way to get some money, which made up fifi's pre-operation fee.
On August 11, 2021, Liao Fei underwent her initial chemotherapy treatment at the hospital. After chemotherapy, Fifi's hair fell out, the beauty-loving little girl was unhappy to complain to her aunt, and Liao Yi gently hugged her and gently comforted her until she calmed down and plucked up the courage to accept chemotherapy again.
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During the second chemotherapy, Liao Fei's whole body began to swell, her mouth festered, her teeth were all broken, and the bleeding points even spread to her tongue, which looked very terrible. Fortunately, after two rounds of chemotherapy, Fifi's physical indicators tended to be normal, and she was soon able to undergo bone marrow transplant surgery.
However, they were at one point in a predicament as the cost of treatment exceeded expectations. Fortunately, Liao Yi managed to contact the foundation and submitted the relevant information in October 2021.
Subsequently, their family received social attention, many caring people donated more than 250,000 yuan, and the hope of nine-year-old Fifi being rescued was a little bigger.
The bone marrow matching is successful, and the hope is that the dawn is beginning to appear
Just as Fifi's condition gradually stabilized, another piece of good news appeared - her and her father's bone marrow match was successful!
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The doctor was pleased to witness the family's experience and quickly arranged a follow-up bone marrow transplant for Liao Fei.
On December 2, 2021, Liao Fei officially began bone marrow transplantation into the warehouse. During the operation, Liao Yi was relieved that Fei Fei could not be relieved, so he applied for a full escort and entered the operating room wearing a full set of protective clothing.
At the end of 2021, Fifi completed surgery and was in stable condition. Today, Liao Yi takes her to rent near the hospital and returns to the hospital every month to check whether there is a rejection reaction and adjust the recovery plan.
Although not yet fully recovered, Fifi's condition is always on the move and is expected to recover by the end of this year.
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Fifi is now living well, learning that there are many people all over the country who care about her, and understand that even if her father can't always accompany her, she still loves herself, she has become more smiling than before, actively fighting blood cancer every day, and believing that she will succeed.
Sacrifice your life for righteousness and rescue your niece who fell into the water
Similar to Liao Yi, there is also a young man Zhang Lei in Yanling County, Xuchang City, Henan Province, who did not hesitate to sacrifice himself to save his relatives when he saw his relatives' children in distress, which won the praise of many people.
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On February 13, 2021, Zhang Lei accompanied his wife Zhao Junhui to Lizhai Village, Pengdian Town, Yanling County, Xuchang City, Henan Province, to visit his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
It was the second day of the Chinese New Year, after lunch, Zhang Lei took the child out for a walk, who knows, when he walked to a small river outside the village, Zhang Lei heard a cry for help. He hurried to the river, looked around, and found a teenage girl struggling in the river, but she couldn't get ashore.
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In a hurry, Zhang Lei let his children stand farther away, but he did not hesitate to jump into the river to save people. This small river is actually a yellow trunk canal, the width of the water surface is about 20 meters, the depth of the water is about 3 meters, although it is not deep, but the water surface is wide, the water flow is rapid, and occasional drowning events occur.
After he jumped into the river, it took a lot of effort to carry the drowning little girl to the riverbank, and the villagers who arrived later pulled him up and successfully escaped. But because the embankment was made of cement and the slope was steep and slippery, he himself could not get ashore, and when the villagers stretched out their branches to try to pull him, he suddenly disappeared into the billowing water.
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At this time, the villagers with better water properties rushed down to search and rescue, and finally failed to find Zhang Lei. After a while, when they found the person, Zhang Lei had choked on too much water, and he had not been able to wake up after first aid. Afterwards, people found that the 13-year-old girl who was rescued was Zhang Lei's niece Xiaoyue.
Since Zhang Lei's behavior complied with the provisions of Article 3 of the Regulations of Henan Province on rewarding and guaranteeing personnel for seeing righteous courage, the relevant departments have declared for him to see righteous courage. In addition, Alibaba Daily Positive Energy awarded 20,000 yuan of positive energy gold in recognition of Zhang Lei's righteous courage.
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Although Liao Yi is not Fei Fei's mother, she has brought her a lot of care and love, accompanied her to face the disease, and given her strength. Although Zhang Lei was not Xiaoyue's father, he stepped forward at a critical moment and saved her life.
They are all people who have truly achieved "young and young and young", people with great love in their hearts and the ability to act, and they practice their inner faith in love in the ordinary, so they have an extraordinary brilliance.