With the development of the times, people are paying more and more attention to their quality of life. In order to ensure their quality of life, not many young people are willing to raise more children, after all, one more child, the cost is not generally large.
Therefore, even if the state publicizes it, it is to prescribe many superior conditions to attract young people to give birth, but in fact there are still not many who are willing to give birth. This is also the root cause of the decline in the country's birth population year by year.
Because a family, if the economy is not rich, is to raise a child, then it is also difficult. If nothing else, it is the expenditure on education, from kindergarten to college graduation, it is a small city in the third and fourth lines, and there is no two or three hundred thousand that cannot be taken down, unless you do not want your child to have a good way out, let him grow freely, and do not ask him whether he is studying.
And then consider food, clothing, housing and travel, almost a family income is mostly occupied by children. In this way, how to ensure the quality of life of adults has become a question that must be considered - how many people are willing to sacrifice all their happiness because of their children?
Because of this, many young people have two children at most, and more and more children have one child, and as for more than three, almost no one thinks about it. However, in the past two days, a post-90s girl in Guangdong has posted photos of her 5 children on her own self-media, and she also said bluntly that she still has one in her belly. Look, are you envious?
If other people's families have 5 children, they still want to have children in order to raise a son, after all, the traditional concept of raising children is to pass on the generations - the concept of raising children and preventing old age is also very stubborn. However, this one is not, she is hoping to raise a daughter. She said: "As long as you give birth to a daughter, you will not have children, and I did not expect to give birth to sons!" "Isn't that a very strange thing?"
And according to the rate of such fertility of girls, basically one a year, six consecutive years, this is to use themselves as a fertility machine! It is also shocking to have such people who do not take their own bodies seriously.
Netizens are also talking about this. Some netizens said: "There are five sons in the family, is this a mine in the family?" ”
"Low-quality raise 6, not as good as high-quality raise 1-2"
Netizens have such a view that deserves praise. Having children does have to consider a real financial situation. If the economic situation allows, there is no problem in having more children and raising a few, after all, their economic ability can keep up, and if the family is poor, doing so is tossing and turning in poverty. If your own life cannot be guaranteed, what kind of high-quality care can you give your children?
The effort at the educational stage is not a small amount, and once so many children become adults, they want to get married and start a family, and that expenditure is not something that can be done in a simple sentence.
Therefore, to give birth to a child, we must consider the reality, but also think about the future life of ourselves and our children, we can't just take care of birth, regardless of raising, that will be a kind of pain for the child, going through the world, is it not a kind of wordless sorrow?
Some netizens also believed: "Most of the brothers and sisters in the fifties and sixties, not yet good, have come over, now afraid of not being able to afford to raise well?" This is a smart mom, it must be bitter and happy! ”
"30 years later, I know that I can give birth to parents who can raise 5-6 children, I admire them from the bottom of my heart, not only great, but also a particularly strong sense of responsibility, the children born by this kind of parents do not have to be disciplined, the brothers grow up in the open and the dark every day, even if they grow up in the future, although they can't say that they are Jackie Chan Phoenix, they will not be bad there."
The first point of view is that there are probably not many people who are willing to be so bitter and happy. Some netizens' messages illustrate this problem - "Zhanjiang this side is very outrageous, but also divided, the countryside is really willing to give birth to a lot, the city is normal one or two children up to three children, but the rural or the poorer the more five or six, I really look at it and feel difficult to understand, how to raise this? ”
And the second point of view, can not be too much wrong, but it must be based on conditions of economic abundance, can it not? If there is no basic living guarantee, it is conceivable how much the child can make a difference.
Of course, under the conditions of economic permission, the number of children does have a contest between each other. We also often see that there are families where one child is excellent and the second child is also excellent, which is the result of their mutual influence.
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