With the progress of society, people's traditional ideas have gradually been broken. In the previous society, most people thought that having a son was a good choice, but in today's society, everyone thinks that having children is the same. Whether it is a son or a daughter, it can create great value for society. Especially now that the two-child policy has been liberalized, many families have ushered in a second child, and have made up a pair of children, and walking on the street will also usher in the envious eyes of many people.
But a post-90s mother does not think so, although she has given birth to children, but she thinks it is better to have two boys than a girl. Many netizens feel very confused, but when the post-90s mother said his reason, many netizens felt very reasonable and very real. In fact, this post-90s mother is not a son preference.
In today's society, as girls, most of them are harder than boys. In today's family, children become the most important component. Shortly after getting married, Xiao Li has always hoped that he can have a child. As a new-age woman, her life is full of hope and she also loves to fight.
Under Xiao Li's efforts, she finally conceived her own child, and the family was very happy, and the people in the family took good care of her during Xiao Li's pregnancy. Under the care of the family, Xiao Li's weight is also rising day by day, and it is not convenient to walk to the toilet, but she has persevered no matter how hard she works for her children. After being pregnant in October, Xiao Li finally added a boy to the family, and Xiao Li was also relieved.
After experiencing this incident, Xiao Li understood a truth, as a girl than a boy, she often said to the people around her that she would rather have two boys than a girl. Because women are really hard during pregnancy, if no one cares and takes care of them during this period, it is really difficult. And girls suffer far from being pregnant, but there are many, many more, such as family relations, social relations, and so on.
Because of these reasons, Xiao Li will think that it is better to have boys than girls, not because of the old idea of son preference. Many netizens deeply agree after knowing Xiao Li's reasons, and indeed, it is more difficult to be a girl than a boy in today's society. Moreover, the mother next to Xiao Li also felt the same feeling, thinking of the pain suffered by her daughter, she could not bear to leave tears.
1, girls need to work harder in life
Although there are many professions for girls to choose in society, such as doctors, teachers, civil servants and other stable occupations. But if you want to excel, you have to put in more effort and sweat. If you want to find a good job after graduation, you have to study hard during your schooling period to get a scholarship.
After the establishment of the family, not only to take care of the work, but also to take care of the family, so that the work and family are not wrong, so that there are so many strong women in the current society. In the process of cultivating girls, we must pay attention to their psychological cultivation and give girls more care.
2. Girls have to experience pregnancy
Although being a mother is every girl's dream, pregnant mothers know that the process of pregnancy is very painful. During pregnancy, weight gain, and it is very inconvenient to go to the toilet or walk. Breastfeeding after pregnancy is also a painful process for mothers. And as a mother in the middle of the night to coax the child to sleep and breastfeed, the process of raising the child is very difficult.
3. Girls should also be cautious when marrying
In fact, as the old saying goes, marrying someone is another turning point in a girl's life. When a girl chooses a marriage partner, she must polish her eyes, not only to see the character characteristics of the boy, but also to look at his family. This is not to say that we should look at the wealth of the family, but to look at the family's atmosphere, and the family atmosphere will affect a child from an early age and have a great impact on the child.
1. Face it with an optimistic attitude
There is a saying that goes well, crying is also a day, laughing is also a day. Why not make yourself happy every day? Life is for ourselves, not for others to see, there is no need to pretend, real happiness is the most important.
2. Pain can be waived during childbirth
With the development of society, medical technology is also more and more developed, and now the hospital has also introduced a new birth technology, which can relieve the pain of pregnant women, so there is no need to be afraid when giving birth.
Summary: In fact, there are many ways to get happiness as a girl, but the most important thing is that we please ourselves, if there is a daughter in the family, there is no need to worry too much, we must pay attention to their character cultivation in the process of daughter's growth, so that the daughter grows into a happy and happy person
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